I'm quite shy and overweight. I know this girl who is really pretty. We met each other at this summer school. We basically just talked to each other. Now i want her to notice me and start a relationship. How should I say it to her? I'm quite fat looking and i'm afraid I'll scare her and we'll lose our friendship. There's only a few more weeks of summer school left, and i want to get her to notice me before the summer ends. Any tips?
2007-08-02 20:28:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm only 14, just to tell you
2007-08-02 20:40:06 · update #1
Ask her out. If you are not so comfortable, arrange a group outing, and make sure you are the one to ask her to join. That way she will see that you have "leader" qualities. Girls like boys who can lead something.
2007-08-02 20:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by boyplakwatsa.com 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her if she wants to hang out with you. Like you guys can hang out for the rest of the summer basically just become good friends. An get to know her a little bit more. It never hurts to try...
2007-08-11 03:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by Shurwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have yall been friends? If its been a while, take her on a nice date and after that, tell her how you feel. I agree with ethan, the worst thing that can happen is a NO and you move on. I always believe everything is god's arrangement. If shes not the one, then god has something better for you in store. Patience is gold.
2007-08-03 03:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, dudeman, if you want to get into a girl's pants, you have to risk the friendship. There really is no other way. Also, you can't wait for her to make her move on you. You are the man, dudeMAN, so become one. Show her you got balls by expressing your interest in her without drowning her in your emotions. If you call yourself dudeman, you must live up to that name. Otherwise, you can call yourself, say, Chazwauzzer.
2007-08-03 03:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well from personal experience i learned that bigger guys are the sweeter ones who arent always into themselves and care alot about us. my biggest tip is that you should be confident and somewhat look past your size because if you cant, how is she able to? you have to make her understand that you know that you are bigger and that is not going to affect anything in a relationship, so to sum it all up, once you see past your insecurities she will feel comfortable too. also we love it when a guys comes up to us and compliments us and show that they care, so you are more likely to get what you want if you start off with a compliment or something sweet.
2007-08-03 03:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by madeNchina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you like her, just ask. What's the worst that can happen? You get rejected. Big deal. There's always more fish to fry. Don't go changing yourself for another person. Change yourself because you want to.
2007-08-03 03:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ethan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress nice and wear some Colon dnt use to much guys tend to use too much sometimes. ask her if she wonts to hang out sometime. go to a movie or whatever. if she says yea than ur in for a good shot. if not well then she dont like u.
2007-08-03 03:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. try to keep your real feelings from her for awhile...keep your conversations flowing. there should never be dead air, she should think that there's always something interesting to talk about when with you...get to know some of her interests...try to impress her but not in a way that your boasting... do not tell her lies just to impress her... make her laugh, or happy, at least...
hope i could help you :) good luck!
2007-08-03 03:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by IWillSurvive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell jokes. Be funny. Get to know them. DO NOT BE SHY that is a major turn off!
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2007-08-03 03:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her on a casual date during the daytime.
2007-08-10 21:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by SinSister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋