My psycho friend thinks I stole a guy she likes. She sleeps around w/ a bunch of different guys and likes about 10 at one time. One guy she seems 2 like a lot. She treats ppl like **** and I just dont want 2 b her friend anymore. The guy who she likes a lot is a friend of mine on myspace. By accident one day I messaged him b/c I thought he was another guy who I met at a party. I apologized for the mix up, no big deal. Since then she has been going around saying I'm hittin on him and calling me a b*tch, and obsessivley asking every1 if i'm with him. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 YEARS there is no way i'm interested. Is it ok 2 message this guy again and have him explain it 2 her? Or should I just play it up 2 piss her off? I know it sounds mean but shes done much meaner things 2 me and my friends in the past. Now that I graduated hs I just dont wanna put up with her bs.
2007-08-02 06:41:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also she is not dating this guy she just slept with him and he doesnt want 2 talk 2 her anymore
2007-08-02 06:43:57 · update #1
ok again... im not interested in this guy i have a bf. she is not my friend anymore we stopped being friends since this incident. I would only contact the guy again to hurt her yes I know its immature but thats how she works and understands b/c shes an idiot
2007-08-02 06:53:15 · update #2
What do YOU KNOW about what this guy said or did - to get her in the sack? you think she's cheap etc. but, this guy might be a major liar or sweet-talker that your girlfriends actually "fell for" -- so, give her some credit for being HURT. Especially, if this is meaningless to you (which actually, it doesn't sound that way at all).
Why do you enjoy this nonsense so much, and why even care to KNOW about how he feels about her? what does this have to do with you? (and if you are with this new guy, it actually makes you a worse hosebag than your 'friend' by the way, because you know his/her history)
You should move on and NOT contact the myspace boy -- unless you're going to be honest, about your intentions. If you don't need him, don't contact him (what for? you're just playing more games, then). As far as your friend.. she's a boy-toy & party girl.. but, that's her choice. You should live your life, and also know that she's NOT your "friend".
If you've graduated HS, you should learn that myspace & he/said, she/said stuff are nothing -- working is, and building in yourself an education. (whether or not, there's a man in your life.. they're only a waste of time, anyways at your age.) live and learn
2007-08-02 06:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, playing it up is the same high school bs that went on the past few years of your life. Step out of the situation and start to grow up like you intended on doing. She is not worth your time or energy. Now is the time to step into the world and make something of yourself for yourself stuff like this is only going to slow you down. Dont waste another breath on this one hun... move on and let her cause her drama with someone else... some people dont grow up.
2007-08-02 07:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ignore and not even respond to her,however i would straight up tell her i am through trying to be her friend and want nothing else to do with her...... You have a boyfriend and i would not trust her to not start trouble with you because it sounds like she is so unhappy with her life by sleeping around and acting that way she could possibly be jealous of your happiness and friends.
Good luck!!!
2007-08-02 06:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your so called friend needs to grow up. Evidently she has issues, she might need to get some professional help. She is not your friend if she acts like that. If I were you I wouldn't have anything to do with her for a while. And I wouldn't have that guy call her. I don't think you or him need to explain anything to her.
2007-08-02 06:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by rock of ages 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd advise you to stay away from the boyfriend she might have a girl fight with you something thats all I can think of for you
2016-05-21 01:43:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree it is time to LET EVERYTHING GO!!! Including your friend.
FYI - make sure your bf knows about the whole situation too - she just might be evil enough to tell him or sleep with him.
2007-08-02 06:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by Asian Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go F*** herself. You dont need friends like that. Your better than that. Igniore her for about 3 months- no email, no cell calls, no communication. She'll straighten up real fast
2007-08-02 06:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Hot Carl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your friend is an idiot.
If she starts picking fights with you over something stupid, turn around and press charges on her for slander and harrassment.
If it's in high school, send her behind to juvy.
2007-08-02 06:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first of all that is not your friend if she cant accept your apologies and calling u a ***** u dont need her keep your head up
2007-08-02 06:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by unforgetable 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know you're angry now, but i think to hell with her, she sounds awful! she's just making more and more of a fool of herself, so let her.
2007-08-02 06:47:29 · answer #10 · answered by Poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋