Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

A clean home is great, but its like all the time, and I think its an anxiety issue. What can I do to help? BTW I hate the vacuming noise esp during the day.

2007-08-02 09:21:46 · 21 answers · asked by relaxrx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18 and I don't know whether I should save my virginity for my future spouse or try and get as much as I can while I'm young. I'm not religious, so I doubt my future wife will care. But what do ya'll think?

2007-08-02 09:20:47 · 30 answers · asked by bowlingcap 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 09:18:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife just made it clear to me that it's either her way or the highway, she left me 2 years ago and we've been separated but have been in contact, and apparently being some kind of couple still. When we married we were philosophically and religiously the same. Afterwards, she changed her mind about those issues, and kind of left me cause of my nomad-like lifestyle (I do move a lot), and more cause of my beliefs.

Now, she tells me if I don't go to her and stay there it's over.

I don't know if I really have a question, I just feel about it. But I don't want to give up something that I know it's real (of course I don't want to upset people with different beliefs, i just feel that way).

Any word or advice, or just a "damn man, too bad" is welcome, specially from women.

Thanks.

2007-08-02 09:16:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you care about other people

2007-08-02 09:15:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know that this doesn't have to do with singles and dating but did anybody hear about the new Guitar Hero game that's out it's called "Rock the 80's"(The eighties were the days)Who's gonna get it first.

2007-08-02 09:14:39 · 4 answers · asked by xXxEpic VictoryxXx 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm so attracted to this guy and he likes me too. Up until now we've been friends..we knew each other a little before he moved to another state. Since then have kept in contact by chat..once a mth or so. Now I have to visit his city for work and he'd love to meet up. Problem is I'm already so into him and can't stop obsessing. He wrote that he's going to fall in love with me. Also said hurry up and come visit. Thing is I don't know him that well..but I do know he's attracted to me & seems like a decent guy. I'm just worried as we don't chat very often. Now its a few wks since we've chatted..usually he contacts me. It's making me insecure & worried but I do know he's really busy now and the last contact (by him) he checked again when I was leaving! I recently mailed him to tell him the date I'll be there and am waiting a reply. It's so hard to wait.

2007-08-02 09:09:24 · 15 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been out with this girl 4 times. We slept together on the third date and I really like her alot, I can't get her out of my head. She has told me she likes me alot to, but when do we start to talk about becoming exclusive? I don't want to scare her by talking about it to fast, but I really like her and want her to be my girlfriend. She is even already talking about when school starts that I will have a hard time getting ahold of her b/c she works so much, so she is already seeing us still dating/ or seeing each other in the future. When should I bring it up or talk to her about it?

2007-08-02 09:05:33 · 5 answers · asked by Dan H 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always thought that it was, and most people think that when they are saying "I think I'm turning japanese," they are referring to the way people kind of squint and pull their upper lip back when they do it (therefore making them look like the stereotypical japanese person.) Plus, he talks about looking at some girl's picture and kissing it when he is alone...

But one of my friends recently said that that's not what the song is about. He is only missing the girl so he feels like a foreigner. That doesn't make alot of sense to me... So I just wanted to see if I was right or not. (If not I am going to feel like an idiot.)

Anyways, please don't feel offended by this question. I am not trying to be racist, in fact I don't even like the song myself.

2007-08-02 09:02:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well last time we were together it was me my boyfriend and his friend and my boyfriends friend said that we are a perfect couple and then my boyfriend said that he is having second thoughts about that and that happened on tuesday and i haven't talked to him since then and he has been begging me to forgive him but i dont know if i should.

2007-08-02 09:01:35 · 11 answers · asked by Jenn 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm a female so any colour suggestions?

2007-08-02 09:01:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it rude when you are driving your friend and her boyfriend to the movies and on the whole way back the are getting it on in the back seat and when I drop him off he says thanks for being our shofar?

2007-08-02 09:00:38 · 19 answers · asked by joelmadden04 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 08:59:44 · 11 answers · asked by eclesiastes122003 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my gf is daring me(4 $200) 2 let her treat me like a baby 4 3 weeks(diapers, feeding,ect.) wat do u guys think??

2007-08-02 08:58:28 · 39 answers · asked by Eric W 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex. is asking me to have sex with him for the fun of it even though i really like him.im afraid he'll break my heart again.should i do it?

2007-08-02 08:57:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lately, I've been feeling like my boyfriend is hurting my feelings, and thinking nothing of it. He can tell me something really mean, and he knows it is mean, and when I get hurt, he shrugs it off as I'm "too sensitive". Yet, when I tell him something or even try to talk to him about a problem, he immediately gets defense, blames me, and it turns into a "fight" rather than a "talk". Can anybody else relate or give me advice?

2007-08-02 08:57:09 · 21 answers · asked by Lita 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 08:56:53 · 88 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is for all the people out there that have stood by me and gave great answers during the difficult time my wife and I were going through. I took tons of advice and just sat my wife down and laid it all out. She kind of understood and of course did protest some. But all in all in the end....we have made love just about every night and are even holding hands again outside. We have been married for 12 years and have two great boys. Thanks again everyone.....

2007-08-02 08:53:08 · 9 answers · asked by IRSTAS 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I like british or austrailian :-D how about you guys?

2007-08-02 08:51:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is it all about???

2007-08-02 08:51:12 · 19 answers · asked by search_for_freedom 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that I really like and that I am friends with. We have known each other for about 2 months and get along great and enjoy each others company. I asked her out on a date but she said that she had broken up with her ex bf earlier this year and didn't want to date anyone at the moment. She did say that maybe in the future that something could happen between us. What should I do at the moment to subtly let her know that I like her and how will I know when she is ready to have a bf? I believe that this girl is definitely worth waiting for but still want to keep letting her know that I like her.

2007-08-02 08:50:57 · 13 answers · asked by Andy 2 in Singles & Dating

okay...theres this guy who goes to my school and we'd been flirting a lot the whole of last semester and we were sorta playing hard to get ....we live in the same neighbourhood and all through summer i've seen him like 20 times now and we don't talk to each other? i mean what's wrong with him ...i thought he used to like me...why would he not make a move then? i'm really shy so i can't really do anything until school starts n then i have a whole bunch of opportunities to talk to him...we sumtimes look each other in the eye n we just walk away....it really kills me from inside...what do you guys think? what's wrong with him really?

2007-08-02 08:48:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting the most beautiful gown for my wedding its a little snug right off the shelf but nothing I'd want to be altered untill maybe 3 weeks before the wedding (if I dont have to that would be better)so I plan on losing some of my extra pudge. Its over a year away whats the fastest but safest way to drop 15-20 pounds in a year?

2007-08-02 08:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by Vickey 3 in Weddings

I ans'ed a question.. the writer.. contacted me.. only to tell me more of the situation and has been writing ever since,, but... will not give me a ph # or add to verify information.. and the situation is serious.. am I being scammed..?. I don't want to betray a child's trust ... they have been thru a lot..

2007-08-02 08:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 in Friends

They were sleeping on the floor. Mind you I was up in Bed sleeping. It was 11.30am. I didn't know it was going on and I just found out about it like 5 minutes ago.....

Should I inform someone?

2007-08-02 08:46:13 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-02 08:44:37 · 16 answers · asked by Gothy 2 in Singles & Dating

When people say "wait till marriage"..
what about if u are engaged?
is it ok then?

2007-08-02 08:44:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I were talking marriage and entirely serious. We spent every second together. After we had sex, things went downhill. I felt guilty...mostly due to a religious upbringing and it started to wear on him. He left me, saying he needed time to "recharge his batteries". That was two months ago and we haven't been able to leave each other alone. I've pushed him a lot. That was my big mistake. He calls me every day...sometimes tells me he loves me....and even though we hang out, he always says he doesn't think it's a good idea. What is going on? Why does he keep hanging out with me if he doesn't want to be with me? He says we're just "friends" but I don't really believe that. He's not dating anybody else. What do you think he's doing? Trying to see if I've really changed some of my ways? Taking a "break" even though he refuses to call it that. Somebody help!

2007-08-02 08:43:51 · 1 answers · asked by Susie Q 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 08:43:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-girlfriend got married 6 months ago. We were together for 3 years before this, and "taking time off" turned off to a breakup. It was never official, things just happened. Soon after we brokeup, she married an old friend of hers.

I am depressed, sick, I love her and miss her so much and would do anything for her, but this has made me sick. I wanted to get back with her, then I find out she got married.

Well, she is married for 6 months now, and has constantly called me. As of 2 weeks ago she called me and told me she was very confused still and not happy whatesoever in her marriage. that she loves me and misses me. She told me didnt know what to do. When I told her to divorce and marry me, she said she didnt know, she was making herself crazy, just too confused. I asked her not to contact me unless she was getting divorced as this was just making me feel worse.

Can I do anything else? Press the issue more?

2007-08-02 08:42:20 · 37 answers · asked by parkland5654 1 in Marriage & Divorce