How many dates before you bring up the boyfriend/girlfriend question?

Question

I have been out with this girl 4 times. We slept together on the third date and I really like her alot, I can't get her out of my head. She has told me she likes me alot to, but when do we start to talk about becoming exclusive? I don't want to scare her by talking about it to fast, but I really like her and want her to be my girlfriend. She is even already talking about when school starts that I will have a hard time getting ahold of her b/c she works so much, so she is already seeing us still dating/ or seeing each other in the future. When should I bring it up or talk to her about it?

Answer 1

I personally never ever bring this talk up... You kind of have to just go with it... and let it progress on its own, until one day you both find you no longer want to date anyone else.

However, if you need to, why dont you tell her that you have no intentions of seeing anyone else, and feel it out. See if she feels the same. If you are both just seeing each other, then make it official. Even if its as simple as saying "If we arent seeing anyone else, lets make it official. Id love it if you were mine"

But good luck. I avoid those talks. I just suddenly always find myself in a relationship.

Answer 2

so u already slept with her? lol wow smart move but ok umm i guess since u guys feel like u are already dating than just ask her if she wants to be exclusive, no big deal....im sure she would want to since it seems like she really does like u..anyways good luck

Answer 3

Since you've already slept with her any time now would be good. Don't you want to know if she's sleeping with someone else?

Answer 4

You slept with her, you've been out 4 times, if she doesn't want to be your girlfriend, perhaps she is using you.

Answer 5

This is a good time to bring up the dating part.. i mean you have already seen her naked go for it