Do you wish you'd lost your virginity sooner or later?

Question

I'm 18 and I don't know whether I should save my virginity for my future spouse or try and get as much as I can while I'm young. I'm not religious, so I doubt my future wife will care. But what do ya'll think?

Answer 1

i lost my virginity at 18 and I grew up really religious. I'm with the guy that I want to be with the rest of my life. he doesn't care that I lost my virginity at 18. we are honest with each other. I don't think it matters what age you lose it, as long as you are old enough to handle the consequences.

Answer 2

Whatever you do, use condoms, but if you can wait, then save that virginity for your future spouse, as you two will learn to explore your virginities together and not have any regrets about having sex with others prior to being with eachother.

Answer 3

Most definitely later. Knowing what I know now I would have waited for marriage or that one really right guy. My brother is 21 and he just lost his a few months ago. Of course it was after he join a Faternity. But at least his face cleared up. Let me stop. But wait thats something alot of people don't hold on to anymore.

Answer 4

You are a guy so in my opinion DONT TRY TO GET AS MUCH AS YOU CAN WHILE YOUR YOUNG but a girl doesnt want a man to cheat on her later for lack of experimenting be wise about who and why you sleep with but gain the experience needed to please your future wife and loose your virginity to someone special you will never forget that moment and it would suck to be like BUT WHAT WAS HER NAME AGAIN? make it memorable you only have it to give away once dont give to just anyone you will regret it.

Answer 5

I would say pick a happy medium. "Getting as much as you can" sounds slutty and horrible. But if you feel right about losing your virginity, go for it. I lost mine to a guy I was friends with when I was 18 and I don't regret it at all because it made things much less awkward than the whole "wedding night" would have been had I waited.

Answer 6

I personally feel that being intimate with someone is more than just sex. It is something that should be shared with someone you truly love not lust over. So with that said if you pick correctly the partner you might get sexually active with will eventually be your wife. The most important thing is don't use someone for a good time.

Answer 7

I wish I would of waited longer. The more time you have to think about it then you are definitely not ready for it at this time. Good luck & don't rush things your still young you'll definitely will know when the time comes to spread your wings. Wait, you'll thank yourself later in the years to come.

Answer 8

i lost mine when i was 15, i decided to do it cause it felt right. I ended up staying with that person for 7 years.

I dont think you should make a decision either way. Enjoy your life and if you meet someone you like see if it feels right for you. and that will be you answer. Dont put yourself under pressure just see how things go

Answer 9

Umm I lost mine when i was 13 and i would give ne thing to take it back.. make sure if u lose it now its to someone u can see urself with and u actually care about her. cuz its not the best thing... but if thats what u wanna do go for it!! It may be different for guys..

Answer 10

I think I would prefer a guy who had waited....i dont think its very appealing to be with a guy who has been with who knows how many other girls. And it wont be awkward on your wedding night because if your a virgin at marraige...your wife would most likely be one too right? So it wouldnt matter! It would be exciting! Thats my opinion at least...