My ex and I were talking marriage and entirely serious. We spent every second together. After we had sex, things went downhill. I felt guilty...mostly due to a religious upbringing and it started to wear on him. He left me, saying he needed time to "recharge his batteries". That was two months ago and we haven't been able to leave each other alone. I've pushed him a lot. That was my big mistake. He calls me every day...sometimes tells me he loves me....and even though we hang out, he always says he doesn't think it's a good idea. What is going on? Why does he keep hanging out with me if he doesn't want to be with me? He says we're just "friends" but I don't really believe that. He's not dating anybody else. What do you think he's doing? Trying to see if I've really changed some of my ways? Taking a "break" even though he refuses to call it that. Somebody help!
2007-08-02 08:43:51 · 1 answers · asked by Susie Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Susie Q? I swear I've talk to you before.... ether way hunnie classic relationship stuff. Which doesn't take away from how special it is. But ether way its time to talk a little more honestly with him about these concerns!!! Thats what he is there for. The worst thing that happens in ANY relationship is when we think theres things we can't say, thats when the end it near. The only way to stop that, to fight that, is to say those things that need to be said, get them out in the open, and by that batism by fire, the relationship with ether be destoried or created even stronger. I have a feeling thou you guys well do just fine, just running into that point were you think theres things you can't say to each other.... time to clear the air!!!
2007-08-03 07:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋