There is this girl that I really like and that I am friends with. We have known each other for about 2 months and get along great and enjoy each others company. I asked her out on a date but she said that she had broken up with her ex bf earlier this year and didn't want to date anyone at the moment. She did say that maybe in the future that something could happen between us. What should I do at the moment to subtly let her know that I like her and how will I know when she is ready to have a bf? I believe that this girl is definitely worth waiting for but still want to keep letting her know that I like her.
2007-08-02 08:50:57 · 13 answers · asked by Andy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She said that it was definitely not an excuse to not go out with me when she said she didn't want a bf right now.
2007-08-02 08:59:18 · update #1
I think being a friend at this time will probably be the best thing. She isn't ready for a relationship, sound pretty smart. Be patient, and let her know that you are there for her. If you push it, you may push her away. Best of Luck!
2007-08-02 08:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by melissa g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is wait. She'll come around when she's ready. I would think that a sign would be if she wants to hang out and is flirting with you. It's hard to read what a girl is thinking. Good luck!
2007-08-02 09:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lyndsay P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She already knows you like her. She doesn't want to go out with you. You asked her out, she said no. Move on, and date other girls. Never, EVER, wait for a girl to be ready to date you. Stay friends with her. Don't try and make her jealous, but she probably will be.
2007-08-02 08:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Keola M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, she probably doesn't want to date you but is too nice to tell you that. If she really wanted to go on a date with you she would have said yes the first time you asked. She was just trying to let you down easy so you should probably move on.
2007-08-02 08:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-11 01:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by weberg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be subtle and don't beat around the bush...you gotta let her know exactly what you want and let her know often...if you would like to date her, don't wait around being friends and watch some other guy pick her up...you don't want to become too good of friends that she can't see you as anything more...without applying too much pressure that she feels forced or obligated; keep asking her out, keep flirting, and keep the idea in her head that you want to be more than friends...if you really like her, hang in there and show her how much she means to you.
2007-08-02 09:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by che masai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay as good friends and get to know her more. If you really like then wait for her when she ready.
2007-08-02 08:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is really saying she doesn't like you in that way because honestly when someone you really want comes along it doesn't matter if you and your ex broke up the day before.
Its just a cop-out so she doesn't hurt your feelings.
2007-08-02 08:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by ckc07 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah I think you should keep asking on another date or take her to the movies but tell her that it's a friend thing.
2007-08-02 08:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by lilpooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u asked her out then she knows that you like her.but all i can say is let her come to you.when she is ready she will give you signs in her own way.
2007-08-02 08:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by Jaime 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋