30's crisis??

Question

What is it all about???

Answer 1

30 isn't bad at all. Wait till you get close to 40. Just eat right, dress as you feel, exercise when ever possible to keep that figure and have sex as often as you can. Try not to burn the candle at both ends because it will catch up with you and at least have one day where you can pamper yourself. Good Luck. Live Life to the Fullest and Enjoy Every Minute of It.....

Answer 2

It's when you hit your 30's and you realize you haven't done most of what you thought you would by then and that you don't really have that much time to get it done. You start to think about how fast life passes you by, and you start to think about your own mortality, and what does life really mean. You realize you aren't' what most consider young (29 or below) anymore. You are now officially an adult, so what are you going to do with the rest of your (short) life? For women it can be about not being married or having children and their biological clock is winding down. Some people get scared and revert to acting like teenagers again. They are in denial. Some people get scared and depressed and cry over it, and some people celebrate it. It's all in how you choose to look at it.
Personally to me age is just a number. I never had that 30's crisis yet, although I do have to remind myself of my age sometimes. I guess when you are younger you have this perception of what it's going to be like, and how it will feel to be a certain age. I know when I was a teenager, I thought 21 would be the greatest, but then when I turned 21, it wasn't what I thought it would be. Don't get me wrong, I had a good time, but inside I still felt like the lost 16 year old. It's the same for me now. Hopefully I don't still act like a lost 16 year old, but I don't feel like I should be in my 30's either.

Answer 3

Everyone has a number that just drives them crazy. For some people turning 40 is a crisis. For others it is turning 50. Some can get past 30. It is a sign of aging and having to mature and take responsibility and some people arent ready for it

Answer 4

What is what all about? Being in your 30's? I thought my 30's would suck but they don't. I'm just a different kind of person now. A little more reserved and responsible but still love to have fun and kick back with friends. Unfortunately thanks to my soon to be ex I don't have any, but that will change. I am finally standing up and refusing to be passive and changing my life. I would have never had the balls to do that when I was in my 20's. You may find that in your 30's you will get to know yourself much better and start trying to make changes in your life because you realize a few mistakes you made along the way. And there's nothing wrong with that. It's called "a little wiser".

Answer 5

I love being in my 30's. I was really dreading turning thirty, but I'm 33 now and I can honestly say that I have had more fun in the past three years than I had throughout my entire 20's. Sex is better (and more of it!!). My career is more or less established. My home life is more stable. I havea wonderful woman (partner) in my life. A great family. Great friends. The only thing I am missing is a son or daughter.

Answer 6

I don't know what you mean, I am 31 and can honestly say I have never looked better, I have never felt better, I have never been as confident, I have never had as many life experiences as I have had since turning 30. For me it is a whole new lease of life, letting go of the miserable teens, the rebellious 20's and now being a mature and fun loving 31 year old, I'm having the time of my life, embrace your age, don't be scared of it!!!

Answer 7

I don't know...why don't you tell us?

Are you referring to "mid life crisis"? That sometimes occurs when someone reaches mid-life and looks back and finds their youth wasn't spent as they wished it had been...they're not where they wanted to be in life by that age...when that happens, sometimes they do things that they think will make up for it, things they wished they'd done in their youth (sometimes they make very poor decisions).

If that isn't what you are referring to, then you'll need to elaborate. I've never heard of 30s crisis.

Answer 8

oohhh midlife crisis, ok well its where men get sports cars, fake hair ( if they have none) and a new younger girlfriend or lover....for women it involves turning back the clock of aging...maybe a younger boyfriend or lover too....

its basical trying to be, act and feel younger than what you realy are......because time seems to move past by alot faster then when your under the age of 30.

Answer 9

I thought it was 40's when people had a mid-life crisis? Basically they realise they aren't as you as they once were and attempt to gain back their rapidly vanishing youth...says dad lol

Answer 10

Hey I am 31, well we are to mature to be immature now. We have enough experience to make better decisions and examples. Too old for casual relationships, ready for marriage but everyone wants just to date, long drawn out friendships, The younger guys are better looking and more entertaining, but they are not ready and they are not emotionally or financially secure. Older ones are boring and settled into their ways. So I say love yourself, pray for more wisdom and money - work out - look great and find what you love to do and do it. And don't be scared to love! And if it don't fit - don't force it!