When people say "wait till marriage"..
what about if u are engaged?
is it ok then?
2007-08-02 08:44:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answers you will get will be based on your beliefs, whether religious, moral or other. Even though I grew up in the Catholic faith, I do not hold the same beliefs. But I'm not one of those women who sleeps around either. Sex is a very important step with more than physical repercussions. There are many emotional and psychological factors to take into account. I have never had any regrets when it comes to my sexual history. Yes, I've made mistakes, but I have no regrets. That being said, you and your fiance should have a talk if you're both considering having sex before getting married. What are both of your beliefs? Are you 100% sure you are ready without the committment of marriage? Is there any chance for guilt afterward? No one can tell you whether it's right or wrong for you. Only you can do that.
2007-08-02 08:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok when you both are mature, consenting adults and are ready, willing and able handle the responsibility...and aren't playing games with each other. You don't need an engagement ring or a marriage license to be intimate.
2007-08-02 15:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, engage means nothing. Waiting until AFTER marraige. If you have sex while engaged, then whats the whole point of getting married now?
2007-08-02 16:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by SaberToothCali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because engaged is not married...if you want to wait until marriage then you must wait unti you are officially married, its not that hard to understand!
2007-08-02 15:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My faience wants to wait untill we are married as well, I agreed.So I go ahead and have sex with other women and stuff.We are to be married in 2 weeks now.I still love her,After we get married I will tell her what I have done.She just missed out on alot of sex.Our realationship is not based on sex butt is a part of every day life such as everything else.
2007-08-02 16:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Hawk 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no cuz they cood breakup durin engagement but durin marriage they have 2 get a divorce....so no u have 2 stay pure til marriage
2007-08-02 15:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Allie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because if you wait till your marrid it means more, it means that you waited to have it with them & them alone when you could have had it before marrige, it means that you keep your self for them, for your honey moon, that you wernt going to gamble away with someone who you werent married to & to gamble an inocint life, what if you got pregnant? (i know you love them, if you truely love them than you can wait till you get married to them.)
2007-08-02 15:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope nope nope....engaged and marriage are 2 different things sweeta...
2007-08-02 15:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Sus-Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say wait until you are ready.
2007-08-02 15:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say thats fair, better than what most people would do.
2007-08-02 15:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋