Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

2007-08-02 09:52:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One thing that I have noticed about women is that if the women is not overweight, she is pretty. I have never seen an ugly skinny girl ever. I'm sure someone will sent me a link that proves otherwise, but I have never personally seen such a thing.

2007-08-02 09:51:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend, who I've been living with for over a year now, recently told me that her father is associated with a local underground crime organization that I didn't even know existed. As far as I know he doesn't do anything really terrible like hurting people, but he's still doing illegal things.

On top of that, my girlfriend completely idolizes her dad, and thinks he's a great guy, so I can't really avoid associating with him from time to time, even though I don't like him at all.

I really love my girlfriend, but this is a major problem. What would anyone do in this situation?

2007-08-02 09:48:54 · 42 answers · asked by Edward Cordana 2 in Singles & Dating

What, in your opinion, is the best cologne for a guy to be wearing (in a club for example)? Screw that Axe and Tag crap...what brand/kind do YOU like?

2007-08-02 09:45:48 · 22 answers · asked by ssiicckkoo 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this boss who's not very easy to work for. I think he feels since we've been friends for so long he can talk to me anyway he wants. He also knows my husband and my family. He's like a family member. But when he gets in his moods he seems to take it out on me tells me that it's not working out with working together. He like takes our personel life and brings it to work then he says he's going to let me go, then he says he was just thinking crazy. I'm like stop and go stop and go, i don't know if i should look for work or stick with this job; what should i do?

2007-08-02 09:45:43 · 7 answers · asked by Rain 4 in Friends

Three years ago I met the girl whom I thought I’d spend the rest of my life with, but after being together for a year we went through a very rough breakup. Her going back and forth with wanting to be friends and being distant from me, made the breakup more hurtful and confusing. This went on for the course of a year. We finally went through a full year of not speaking to each other, which during this time she dated other guys.
A full year later she contacted me on msn and we engaged in casual conversation and became acquaintances. Today about 8 months later we are hanging out and seem to be good friends once again. My problem is I sill have feelings for her, which makes things difficult. Sometimes I sense she has feeling for me as well, but it’s hard to judge sometimes. One may answerer… “what are you waiting for ask her out… the time is now” but there are some barriers. She first of all is currently with someone and second, asking her may risk everything we accomplished in rebuilding. I think we’re likely both a bit afraid and confused right now, but what should I do? Is this just a case of time will tell and if it’s meant to be it will? Any insights? Maybe we’re better as good friends, but I don’t know…

2007-08-02 09:45:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 09:45:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do guys like it when girls are friends with lots of other guys?

2007-08-02 09:44:49 · 7 answers · asked by sexybrunette44 1 in Friends

when i ask my husband a question like why does he have a messager in his thngs he says he was gona take the moter out of it to use for somthing else. ok i can live with that. but now im left with where did it come from, why didnt he take it apart as soon as he had it etc. am i being a nag? i almost think it to late to ask now cause i shoulda ask detail all at once instead of dragging it to the next day.

2007-08-02 09:44:04 · 14 answers · asked by jesicka 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think they could end up together when she becomes a teen or older? They see each other every Wednesday and Sunday and are really good friends and laugh a lot together.

2007-08-02 09:41:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay last night we had plans and i texted him and called. never answered never replied til 6:44 this morning.
he didnt give an excuse just said he was sorry, granted we've only been going out for a week so we don't necessarily have to share every moment of our life together. I'd just like to know what was so god da mn important that he couldnt take one second to text/call saying hey something came up sorry hun.
better than nothing at all.
anyways is this a good reason to be mad?
guys, i wanna hear your side too.

2007-08-02 09:40:43 · 20 answers · asked by babi_gurl1669 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 09:40:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 09:39:19 · 2 answers · asked by fruit pebs 33 2 in Singles & Dating

how do guys feel about girls with glasses?

2007-08-02 09:39:14 · 21 answers · asked by ~ ♥ Princess ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

My ? is about a friend(girl) who constantly goes too bed with however she meets and the relationship never lasts.She says she wants to change and knows it`s wrong but has not changed.What is this about

2007-08-02 09:39:07 · 6 answers · asked by Cherokee 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I hv an ex that is the father of my son. Complete *** and an alcoholic to boot. i kicked him out after numerous time of drunkness and abusiveness. Yet it is still all my fault according to his family. His life is hell because I took everything away from him. I am the reason I got pregnant, the only one, I guess I impregnanted myself. Things were good for awhile until I filed for child support. Now he is pissed cause he has to pay legally for his son and things just keep getting worse. Today his grandma proceeded to tell me that I was irresponsible for getting pregnant and that I chase him. I only tried to contact him after I found out I was pregnant. So like I said he dose no wrong even though he wrecked my car while drunk and hit a couple of older ladies and left the scene of the accident. Then when he got home he assaulted me. But yet again it is all my fault. Please explain to me why it is never ther persons fault that does the actions?

2007-08-02 09:37:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It's pretty sad. Has anyone else noticed this?

2007-08-02 09:36:01 · 32 answers · asked by BeatTheGib 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Something on my mind, I noticed that most of my friends are with someone and I stuck being single. It is annoying now since I never had a relationship. Also I hate it when people tell me that I will find someone soon but if they was in the same shoes as me, they would curse me out. So what should i do to keep my sanity from going berserk.

2007-08-02 09:33:47 · 24 answers · asked by The Question Samurai!!! Lv.5 5 in Singles & Dating

Heres a little about my story.
I am 22 years old, and my boyfriend is 23 years old. We both are originally Pakistani
And live with our parents (most Pakistani’s live with their parents until marriage – girls only move out with husbands.. and boys mostly get married and still live with their parents – that’s just the way our culture is) So we live in Canada. Me and him have a great relationship for 2 years. Before this we were friends for 4 years. During these 2 years we have not broken up even once, not even for a day. We understand each other really well and talk and meet up almost everyday. We always say we want to be together forever BUT the problem is me and him are different casts of muslim. I know it doesn’t sound like a BIG DEAL. Because we’re both muslims atleast and to us it doesn’t really matter.. but to our parents IT’S A BIG DEAL. We don’t marry in other casts usually. So most of the times we’re afraid to talk to each other about it. Because we’re both scared. On top of that his mother has been emotionally blackmailing him to marry his first cousin from Pakistan.. (I know YUCK) our parents have said it CANT HAPPEN between us etc. except his parents are worse cuz his mom has promised her brother that he will marry his daughter.. (from Pakistan) anyways Ive never even thought about breaking up with him because I love him SO much.. n he hasn’t ever said anything like that either.. I cant see myself with anyone but him. And I know it’s a sin to have sex before marriage but I even lost my virginity to him.. and I want to be his only forever.

Now the problem is that Im pregnant. (2months) He knows that I am, and has mentioned that we should go to the “doctor” and I know that because of our current situation.. he’s trying to imply. Lets get an abortion. But we don’t discuss it much. THERE IS NO WAY I AM GETTING AN ABORTION. AND NOTHING CAN CHANGE MY MIND. my parents are getting suspicious that something serious is going on.. and they found out im pregnant. When I first got pregnant.. I told my bf that what am I going to do when my parents find out.. they’ll kill me.. and he told me to tell them that we already got married.. (in court – legally) but just never told anyone about it.. so once my parents found out.. that’s what I told them.. that we are married already. (I lied) and they have told me not to come home. Unless my “husband” is with me and talks to them and they can get us married the “proper way” I haven’t told my bf YET.. cuz this JUST HAPPENED.. and im actually at work right now and gonna be done in an hour. He is also at work.. but he will be done around 11 at night. So im going to go to my friends house until then.. and then around 10:30 im going to go by his work and tell him what happened. I am SO AFRAID AND NERVOUS. I don’t know what he’ll do.. im thinking.. will he make me go back home? Would he go with me and talk to my parents? Would he back out.. and say he cant hurt his parents.. and lets get an abortion.. ? all these thoughts are going through my head. I am scared and need some HELP AND ADVICE.. sorry I know this was long.. thanks everyone

2007-08-02 09:33:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in the last few days of school I started to really like him and one of my friends asked him if he like me. First he said yes, then another asked and he said kinda, then another asked and he said as a friend. The summer went and now it is almost over but we are both in an activity and I see him everyday. I still like him and sometimes I can't get him out of my mind. he seems like he kindof likes me, we talk a lot but I don't know how to tell him I still like him.

2007-08-02 09:32:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 09:31:51 · 36 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

if my girlfriend is going to play with my penis. what are some things i can do to please her??? i need a few

2007-08-02 09:30:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Was that wrong?

2007-08-02 09:30:10 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 09:29:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, my older bro, my mom and my dad and i all have our brand new cars! lately my dad has been using my car, driving off to places far away, and this pisses me off, i really dont care, but like everyday hes going and taking my car, he paid for insurance/the car, but right now i pay for my gas,, yes, and its alot! also im in debt, i have no job right now and my tuition is ALOT, alot more than the past yrs. also he NEVER uses my brothers cars, my my bro gets everything paid 4, his tuition and everything! i have 2 worry about my money --this makes me mad,--i feel sort of selfish but in a way i feel mad, like he has his own brand new car! and he uses mine not my bros or moms!! why me??

2007-08-02 09:28:38 · 4 answers · asked by vernoica 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy says that on his friendship scale you rate 75% what the hell does that mean.

2007-08-02 09:28:21 · 4 answers · asked by Crystal T 1 in Friends

I have been best friends with this guy for 4 years. We are the same age, and last year we went to different schools but this year we are going to the same one. Whenever i call him, he doesnt answer, or if he does, he just says can i call you back in 20 minutes.And he never does, and if i call him back, no answer!!! Whenever we make plans(rarely because i cant get a hold of him) he either cancels last minute or stops answering his phone and leaves me hanging. What should I do???? Im frustrated because hes fun to be around, but i feel like he doesnt value our friendship. I always answer the phone and do things for him, but i am wondering if he would actually do anything for me now.

2007-08-02 09:26:33 · 10 answers · asked by LOL 2 in Friends

This may seem like a joke question, but its actually not

2007-08-02 09:25:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you think?
If a man offers to pay for your (plane ticket/hotel..2 times a month) after seeing you for the first time this weekend and enjoying your company, finding you to be very attractive
..we live in different states
would you think he may want to pursue a long term relationship and that he may be in love with you too?
after you tell him you in love with him and he tells you he likes you....and miss you.since the last time he seen you...would you pay for anyone who is not someone your interested in?...
did i confused you?
Basicially im trying to say is Is this man really into me the way that im into him...
ive known him for 4 years....so it goes a little bit beyond the physical thing here yall
isnt it romantic?
(reposting for more views)

we have only been on this level for 4 months im recently divorce and hes been my friend for a long time

2007-08-02 09:23:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-02 09:23:32 · 23 answers · asked by samantha b 1 in Singles & Dating