I have been best friends with this guy for 4 years. We are the same age, and last year we went to different schools but this year we are going to the same one. Whenever i call him, he doesnt answer, or if he does, he just says can i call you back in 20 minutes.And he never does, and if i call him back, no answer!!! Whenever we make plans(rarely because i cant get a hold of him) he either cancels last minute or stops answering his phone and leaves me hanging. What should I do???? Im frustrated because hes fun to be around, but i feel like he doesnt value our friendship. I always answer the phone and do things for him, but i am wondering if he would actually do anything for me now.
2007-08-02 09:26:33 · 10 answers · asked by LOL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i know that he wants to be my friend, because i am like his only best friend, i think its just that hes careless, because he only calls me when he has a problem.
2007-08-02 09:42:45 · update #1
You are right. he doesn't value what you value so greatly= friendship! The best thing to do is let him go..If he is a true friend, he will contact you and be the friend that you are to him but if he doesn't, then, you haven't lost a "Friend" only gained an acquaintance.
2007-08-02 09:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by *DestinyPrince* 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Look i think he is trying to avoid you from what youre saying hes acting funny just find a new friend because he isnt a friend anymore hes moved on to new things and hes acting very twofaced so just dont call him anymore until he calls you.
2016-05-21 02:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE PROBABLY JUST DOESN'T WANT TO BE iN THiS FRiENDSHiP ANY LONGER..MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST TRY TALKiNG TO HiM iF YOU CAN OR TRY LEAViNG HiM MESSAGES..AND iF YOU THiNK HE iS JUST BUSY OR HAS A LOT OF THiNGS TO DO, THEN JUST TEST iT OUT BY CALLiNG HiM FROM SOMEBODY ELSE'S PHONE TO SEE iF HE ANSWERS..
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2007-08-02 09:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by ♥That.One.Girl♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have grown apart, at least he has. Don't call him too often and maybe he will come around again. When school starts act friendly but don't be all over him.
2007-08-02 09:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like your friend is trying to tell you he doesnt really have time for you or doesnt want to be that good of friends!
2007-08-02 09:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by tpettee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't really value you as a friend ...or if he does like you say he does... then he knows he can treat you like crap and you will always be there to take it.
2007-08-02 10:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe call him 20 times and text 10 and or call his home
2007-08-02 09:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by I♥JonasBrothers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well mabey he is broke and cant pay the phone bill. or he just doesent want to be bothered at the time
2007-08-02 09:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he forgets he has a cell phone or he restricts his callers
2007-08-02 09:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by Stuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes trying to tell u he doesnt wanna be friendz anymore
2007-08-02 09:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by !urbeauty! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋