Family & Relationships - 2 August 2007

When a man saids stuff like
I like the sound of being your fiance
Thats what im here for......
Dont worry i got your back
I like you
I miss you too
whenever you go see him he said he will handle the payment
when you saw him he was very affectionate and found you to be ver attractive....
been your friend for 4 years
but has been courting you on this level since you became available again....
He told you hae has always admire you
What would you think?
Would you think he would want to pursue a relationship with you eventually?
thats he is really into you?
keep in mind you can read my previous questions to understand what im trying to say

2007-08-02 12:19:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I were engaged for a year, and married for 5. He cheated on me, and I am having a hard time staying in the marriage.We are considering separation, then divorce. My engagement ring was his grandmothers. He has not even mentioned wanting it back, we are still wearing our rings, but I feel I will be taking it off soon, should I give it back to him?

2007-08-02 12:10:10 · 46 answers · asked by dobiedawgs 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This question is for MARRIED MEN just because i've dated two men in my life who ended up being married ..... WTF!

Yes men .. I am a bit bitter, just because I feel as if I was F* used !

If you are married .. why do you cheat? Why dont you just leave your wife if you are not happy.
One guy said bk he has kids, I can understand that so why cheat ?

Please please answer with honesty

2007-08-02 12:08:54 · 21 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hey i just entered a shelter for single women in queens and i feel so uncomortable.
it is 50 women in one big room that looks like a basketball court very large room.
evryone has to change in front of each other and the whole bit.
i am very shy woman and i am a person who dont evenlet my mom see me naked or in underwear.
the shelter is my only option i have no where else to go.
now the question is what would u do if it was you?

2007-08-02 12:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 12:08:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, well this is embarrassing...So, about a few weeks ago, i went to my mom's hometown where i have some cousins and a few uncles. Well, I have an uncle there(he's only a few years older than me) and we pick on each other. It's sort of like we play pranks on each other and we never say anything nice to each other or anything. Anyway, after a while I don't know why, but I started to feel like I liked him even though there's part of me that doesn't like him and knows that what I;m doing is wrong. I tried to convince myself that I didn't like him, but when I heard he had a crush on this girl, I got sort of jealous. Don't get me wrong, I KNOW that there could never be anything between us but any ideas how to get this out of my head?

2007-08-02 12:07:33 · 12 answers · asked by pepperland 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-02 12:07:30 · 21 answers · asked by al 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i were married for 23 years. we've came to a point where we had to break up because of his lies. he is a work aholic and a cumpulsive lier. he has been a good husband and been a good man, but he always loved his work and he lies to get what he wants. he is so good at telling lies that i always believed him, and after a while i always knew the truth and it hurts coz i never lied to him. some of his lies were stupid and nonsense. and he says that he left us because of work. he was braught up lying because of his father. he still says that he loves us but can he ever change? is it that difficult to change? i dont think i can trust him anymore. does he need therapy?

2007-08-02 12:07:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this effects a lot more than me

2007-08-02 12:02:19 · 25 answers · asked by Busybee yep! 5 in Marriage & Divorce

will they take money out your check

2007-08-02 12:01:20 · 11 answers · asked by tootts 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i just found out my husband watches porn behind my back. he apologized i said i forgive u. but inside i am hurt and betrayed because rather than asking me to watch with him he enjoyed it when i wasn't there. i mean he would not talk abt a naked person in front of me. now i am so mad and jealous. we just had new set of channels with playboy and other porn ****. i feel like he will watch it behind my back but not when i am there. its so annoying.i am going to get mad now even if i am there and he puts it on. how can i get over it. he would be mad at me too if he secretly sees me watching nude men.we are both the same but he likes to lie and do behind my back i just don't find other men attractive since i have to picture him and have him to reach ORgasm. i think of no other man when i am in love. iits all of them or nothing. how can i get over this issue. i don;t want to hear o i shuld be glad he is not doing it. when sumone wants to see that. they prolly want to do it only if they....

2007-08-02 11:57:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is married he wants to leave but won't unless he can take the baby they are legally married, and he is the only one who works in the house hold. His wife is spending most of the time with her ex girl friend. What does he need to do to get his daughter with out getting in legal trouble.... Please help my brother loves his daughter and will stay if he has too but he wants to go.

2007-08-02 11:56:14 · 5 answers · asked by red 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend Ryan, we've been really close as of late, he's been coming to me more than most of his friends about his problems (Since last year, when he helped with mine). We rarely hang out but when we do we can't stop laughing and if we watch movies or go swimming or outside, he'll find ways to sneak up on me and tickle me. He usually hates hugs, claims to be a kisser, but when I want a hug he'll give me one. Though one time he had said he'd teach me how to kiss, but I thought he was joking, thats how he is, always joking around. Anyways, I just wanna know if these are signs, of him liking me more than a friend. As a friend or like a sister? And if I can get some advice on how to act on it, would be great too.

he's 18 and I'm 17

I've also never been in a relationship, I don't trust most guys easily, so I'm not too sure on signs

2007-08-02 11:54:57 · 1 answers · asked by Redfox 2 in Singles & Dating

Can you figure out this one honest opinions would be cool?
Can you figure out this one honest opinions would be cool?
my friend sarah and i had an argument, she saw my ex boyfriend out and they took a picture on her phone and planned to send it to me (but she never did) She knows i was hung up on him and apparently he (jon) had approached her out in a bar....she for some strange reason thought i was seeing jack her ex (I was not) and then they though it ould be funny to send a picture message of themselves to me..Why would she/he do this (they both have new partners)..is she a true friend for soing this (1 thinking i would even look at her x in that way 2 taking a picture) ....Should i drop her and why do you think he would do this???

2007-08-02 11:52:35 · 3 answers · asked by jamie m 1 in Singles & Dating

guys wont be knowns as a man whore
but girls will be knwon for hoes whores sluts B*itches
and so on

2007-08-02 11:49:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 11:49:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i really like this guy and im scared if we go out we wont be bestfriends anymore.Does it really work that way?

2007-08-02 11:48:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Title says it all.

Yes, it's morally wrong. But, I find older women irresistable. Problem is...most are married. I don't care though.

How do you know when a women will cheat on her husband with you without her "actually" saying it?

2007-08-02 11:47:19 · 26 answers · asked by Bada Bada 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and now wanted to go overseas to stop then come back but to a different state, because they are afraid they cant resist temptation, what would you do?

2007-08-02 11:45:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to do something inspiring & funny that will make him sure that i love him but also something respectful & so decent. what can i do?

2007-08-02 11:42:47 · 4 answers · asked by emilly 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my b/f for 3 years and i love him soooo much...we have been through everything togther...well since the day i started dating him he has been in love with playing baseball and wanted to go pro one day...fast forward to 2 years later and he has been asked to go to Texas to try out for the Astros. I know how great he is and i know its a very high posibilty that he will make. im very happy for him but im also thinking about myself. we are engaged and if he made it that meens i will have to leave cali and go to texas..im very close with my family and i never wanted to leave cali but now i have to choose love or home...im so lost with what to do...i dont want to move somewere and be alone waiting for him to come home he will be gone sooo much and i wont have any friend or family for comfort...it will be me with a house and animals....it will be me watching him live his dream while all mine will be gone. i just dont know what to do..any advice

2007-08-02 11:41:57 · 51 answers · asked by lovely 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We are looking to spend about 30$ a person for a nice rehearsal dinner in the Fairfax area. We would like to stay close to Fair Oaks Mall since that's where everyone is staying. If anyone has any suggestions, I would really really appreciate it. Thanks!!

2007-08-02 11:30:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A LETTER TO HEAVEN....

I still remember da first day of our love...The day wen we promised to b there 4 eachother through all da seasons of life but braking da promise u went away far away frm my world widout turning around 2 bed gud bye.....time passes by but memories still remains da same,carring wid dem all da hurts n pains thoughts of u fill my eyes wid tears..And heart wid pain ur memories, i wish it whould fade away but again i wish 2 c u someday.....i never thought i'd one day b crying wid da feeling of never ending pain...y god did dis 2 me?i dnt knw.....He does gud 4 all is all i knw........

its my own poem.....my feelings....my pain....my words....
how z it?wat u think abt dis frndz......give me a gud opinion abt it.....pls....

thanx 4 ur answers....:-)
@--}-- hez a red rose 4 u all.....bye...

2007-08-02 11:29:30 · 7 answers · asked by Sana 3 in Family

Okay so my and boyfriend have been going out for 1 yr & 18 months. Y-day I was just tellin him that I want to get my nails done but i haven't received my paycheck..so he said okay i will take u tomarrow to get your nails done so i said okay...and today we seen each other and did our thing which i meant by is sex...so then he tells me after that...that he is tired and will take me tomarrow and i judt didnt know what to say...he does this all the time only when he needs it he wants to see me but lyk whenever i ask him to take me somewhere he doesn;t but if he had to go with his friends he will...and he has this thing to stop me from breakin up with him which is crying whenever he cries i dono i just melt down like ice and just forgive him...i don't know what to do should i just wait till tomarrow and then ask him aboutt he plan or should i just yell at him today? what should i say or do?

2007-08-02 11:20:50 · 6 answers · asked by cristinlchat 1 in Singles & Dating

what can i say to him so that he cant reply

he says he loves me more
and we've got this "war" so to speak
how do i "win"

or what else can i say besides no i love you more?

2007-08-02 11:18:38 · 13 answers · asked by blue october 3 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl I really like and she's moving away in about 1 1/2 weeks and I've told her that I like her before but she said she liked someone else and then she stopped liking him and my friend said when she was camping with her she said if I asked her out she would say yes because she thinks I'm really sweet. But then I did ask her out and she said she was moving in 3 days! Then she decided to stay 2 more weeks. At the town fireworks she was there and I was planning to ask her out again under the fireworks and the stars but she was avoiding me for some reason and she said she wanted me to leave her alone but I don't know why because I hadn't seen her since the last day of school (Like a month ago) And then at the town dance the whole time she was staring at me. I'm 13 and she's 12. She is moving to Kelowna and I near Vancouver I'm going into highschool this year so should I move on or what? I was thinking of getting her flowers or a present because I said I would get her one

2007-08-02 11:17:44 · 11 answers · asked by Nba4life 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-02 11:17:14 · 5 answers · asked by talkingator 1 in Singles & Dating

well somone keeps telling me that and i feel stupid becuase i dont know what to say plzzzhelp

2007-08-02 11:16:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom and dad say they like Nick, and he's nothing but nice to my parents even when they are rude to him. I don't understand. I come home on time every time, never get into trouble with him or anything, and yet they are completely rude to his face. I feel terrible and it's embarrasing.. what do I do.

2007-08-02 11:16:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-02 11:16:07 · 4 answers · asked by dani:] 3 in Friends