Well i really like this guy and im scared if we go out we wont be bestfriends anymore.Does it really work that way?
2007-08-02 11:48:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am dating my best girl friend, and now she is my actual girlfriend. See with me, I Love her and want her to be as happy as possible so you can bet that if she ever did leave me then I'd still be by her side to help her with her problems.
When you love someone, you just want to spend time with them and I can be her friend forever even if we are not involved in a romantic relationship.
She might not be with me as a partner forever, but you can bet that she will still be my friend.
2007-08-02 11:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every ending is a new beggining.
Regardless if you want things to stay the same or not ... you're at an "End" with the friendship because the though of "dating" has finished this. There is no turning back now.
So, this can be the "Beginning" of a relationship where you may loose many of the benefits of being friends and gain new benefits. Or this can be the "Beginning" of just finding a new best guy friend.
Any angle you look at this ... you get to decide how the begining starts!
2007-08-02 11:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
works different for every1 and it depends on how it ends. most of the time your bestfriend will make the best partner because you have trust in them and you know all about them.. i got in a relationship with a bestfriend and it was amazing for a year and 7 months. she broke it off wiht me..mainly because she is immature and went back to an as*hole of an ex boyfriend who has usd her and hurt her before. shes dumb..nothin i did, but i would say your bestfriend will make the best partner...just hope that it doesnt work out the same way it did for me..but give it a shot, it is worth it. good luck
2007-08-02 11:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard when you like a friend that way i suppose how strong the friendship is, me personally wouldnt a aspects in a friendship that might not bother you in a friendship might drive you nuts in a relationship, like you sometimes its hard to treat them as a lover and friend and if problems occur it hurts more as you can loose both friend and love and become quite bitter because they were your friend in the first place, i suppose what it reallly is what do you value more a relationship or the friendship its some times hard to go back to friends,
my motto is if you are great friends if the friendship is not broken dont try and fix it with a relationship.
Ive dated a friend and i really dont like him now, i hope you well though
2007-08-02 12:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by sugarpantsangel21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. In any event, your partner SHOULD be your best friend. If you can pull off a relationship and keep that same sort of feeling going, then you're in a great position.
The alternative is to attempt to bury your feelings for him, which would be very harmful to your friendship in any event.
2007-08-02 11:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... Most of the time, It actually turns out to be a fantastic relationship because you've known each other for a good amount of time - and you'll continue to be best friends, just with a higher plateu to grab onto, now that you're dating.
Keep the relationship the same it's always been, now you could talk to him about kissing and other romantic things... Idk, I would think it would be really fun to go out with your best friend, sometimes they're already like familly.
Good luck! I wish you the best with your relationship!
2007-08-02 11:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if u both have the same agree ment when u go out of when u break up u still want to be friends then it could definetly work out..i ve been through this before and i just sat him down and told him what i thought
2007-08-03 06:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by sammi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on how the break-up goes if its fine then ur friendship should be too but if not then ur friendship will probably not be so good
2007-08-02 11:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by juicy princezz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may turn out in one of two ways...either mess up ur relationship but if it really works out then it will probably enhance your friendship..but if you break up i think that would mess up the relationship
2007-08-02 11:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He enjoyed you earlier each little thing, he nevertheless does. yet possibly he needed the relationship to end possibly he did no longer opt for to harm you..or did no longer opt for to be harm. He in all probability nevertheless desires to be your chum this is why he broke it off. basically ask him in case you opt for an honest, genuine answer. good success! xo <3
2016-10-01 07:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by devoti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋