Okay so my and boyfriend have been going out for 1 yr & 18 months. Y-day I was just tellin him that I want to get my nails done but i haven't received my paycheck..so he said okay i will take u tomarrow to get your nails done so i said okay...and today we seen each other and did our thing which i meant by is sex...so then he tells me after that...that he is tired and will take me tomarrow and i judt didnt know what to say...he does this all the time only when he needs it he wants to see me but lyk whenever i ask him to take me somewhere he doesn;t but if he had to go with his friends he will...and he has this thing to stop me from breakin up with him which is crying whenever he cries i dono i just melt down like ice and just forgive him...i don't know what to do should i just wait till tomarrow and then ask him aboutt he plan or should i just yell at him today? what should i say or do?
2007-08-02 11:20:50 · 6 answers · asked by cristinlchat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH and I forgot to add that its his b-day tomarrow so its even hard for me to say anything so helppppppppp
2007-08-02 11:32:14 · update #1
seems he just wanting to do it with you n not what you would like for how he be with you. Ask him straight out is he gonna continue like this with you or he gonna change cause if not then it best to have few days without seen each other then see how it goes. your thing you guys do lol is important but to limit the time to take you out no.
2007-08-02 11:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by mna21_60632 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for the money to get your nails done before sex. You already have to money now all you need is a ride (if you don't drive), you can confince one of your friends to get there nails done w/ you or have your mother or someone to drop u off and pick you up. The most important thing is the money.
Here's a tip: Ask for a few more dollars. Example if it costs $20 to get your nails done ask for $40. I don't know the reason, but it makes me feel a little better.
GOD BLESS : )
2007-08-09 11:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd DUMP him in a heartbeat. He's using you honey & he's the happy camper & your not. He's what you call a "USERLOSER" type and you don't need him. Fine you someone else but, please go to a different part of the city you live. Life's to short to give into just anything.
2007-08-10 08:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not allow yourself to be less than him at any stage in the relationship if you dont want to be second for the rest of the time.Tell him now how you feel about it .And that you want to be respected as an aqual,wich means he also needs to do as he said he would as he wants you to do.
2007-08-10 09:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you made the appointment for your nails to be done, and after he takes you, as he promissed to, the rest of the day you are his. being it is his birthday, you want to look your best for him
2007-08-10 09:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would be mad if u asked someone else right, so i would make him take me today, dnt keep letting him get over on u like that...put your foot down n if it keeps happening let him go hes in it for himself
2007-08-10 10:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋