hey i just entered a shelter for single women in queens and i feel so uncomortable.
it is 50 women in one big room that looks like a basketball court very large room.
evryone has to change in front of each other and the whole bit.
i am very shy woman and i am a person who dont evenlet my mom see me naked or in underwear.
the shelter is my only option i have no where else to go.
now the question is what would u do if it was you?
2007-08-02 12:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do u have a computer?
2007-08-10 05:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Hunter Jumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You be thankful Dear, You Have a Place to Stay. If it were Me, I'd Make the Best Of It. You Have to, for now. Something will change, you'll see. I'm sure they Have someone there You can Kinda Become friends with, and then You will be more Comfortable. Also, Do Your Part in Keeping the Place Clean, and other Chores. Time will pass faster, and they will notice you are a Good Worker. Become a Leader, and help Others........ You will be rewarded, Trust me. (smile)
2007-08-02 19:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by minnetta c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about a live in job, till you get on your feet. A nanny or housekeeper, somewhere that you can have a room, make some money and start over? Good luck and God bless, hope all will go well with you. Meanwhile, do like the hippies days, wrap a blanket or sheet around you as you dress.
2007-08-10 16:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal with the uncomfortableness, this is what you have to do for a short while until you get on your feet, and these people will help you to do just that. At this point in time, you need to get the help you so desperately need and this is a safe place to be, the streets are not for you
2007-08-10 16:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel arkward about changing in front of people, take your clothes to the bathroom.
Try to establish a relationship with one or two women.. i'm sure you have tons in common both being in the situations youre in.
Get yourself a good paying job, SAVE SAVE SAVE & hopefully before you know it you'll be independent once again!
2007-08-02 19:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by Heyya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are in a shelter with access to Yahoo answers?
2007-08-10 19:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by happy@50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sell your computer and go stay in a hotel.
2007-08-10 17:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋