My friend Ryan, we've been really close as of late, he's been coming to me more than most of his friends about his problems (Since last year, when he helped with mine). We rarely hang out but when we do we can't stop laughing and if we watch movies or go swimming or outside, he'll find ways to sneak up on me and tickle me. He usually hates hugs, claims to be a kisser, but when I want a hug he'll give me one. Though one time he had said he'd teach me how to kiss, but I thought he was joking, thats how he is, always joking around. Anyways, I just wanna know if these are signs, of him liking me more than a friend. As a friend or like a sister? And if I can get some advice on how to act on it, would be great too.
he's 18 and I'm 17
I've also never been in a relationship, I don't trust most guys easily, so I'm not too sure on signs
2007-08-02 11:54:57 · 1 answers · asked by Redfox 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Understand that the whole... sister thing, is a cope out. We usually only ever use that cope out when we feel to... insecure? to.... below? to..... I'm not good enough for you? See its the natural course of a different sex friendship for this to come around if you guys click well. Its why we had arranged marriages for so long, to keep this happening only were parents whated it to happen. So, unless you or him end up with some hang-ups(insecurities) its frankly the next logical step that you guys would be come more, and more in love, becuase quite frankly your feeling, more and more for each other. As far as how you act just let the relationship grow, tell the truth as honestly as you can. Even if that means you might make yourself look stupid, because thats just your insecurities talking. Weather friends, or lovers, we can't say or do things wrong like that. Talking form the heart means always saying the right thing, now go talk, love, relate, and grow!
2007-08-03 07:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋