2007-08-02 09:40:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say after a yr would be okay to start dating i mean life does go on and no one wants to be alone for the rest of their life . but yes i would say a yr or better . good luck .
2007-08-02 09:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question that can be answered only by your heart. The pain must resinate forever....one I wish to never feel.
One thing about humans is that we are able to adapt and overcome. We may not see that while in the midst of turmoil and strife...and pure devestation and heartbreak, but we can overcome. The Lord tells us that he will not give us more than we can handle, and thus I have to believe that while I might not know what to do next should my wife leave this earth, I will figure it out.
The same holds true with the question you have asked. Your heart will never let go nor stop loving that one lost, but it might indeed find comfort and solice with another at some point. Then, and only then will you know if you are ready to follow it....
Good luck, and God Bless!
2007-08-02 09:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by wlegend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my mother just died in Feb of this year and my father and I have had this discussion. The answer being: How long is ok for you? Just because you fall in love with someone else doesn't mean that you loved that other person any less! Just make sure you are doing it for the right reasons...I.E. Don't do it just because you need a void filled, because your not being fair to yourself or that other person. But if you truely fall in love 2 weeks, 2 months or 2 years later than carpe diem...life is too short!
2007-08-02 09:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by Starry Pluto ॐ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. How long they were together, how the person died. THings like that. There is no "right time" when you mee the "right person" the timing will be right, you will be hesitant a few monthes/years after loosing your spouse. But taking things slow you will be more comfortable, and maybe find a love stronger than the one you had.
2007-08-02 09:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by Brittney B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "standard" time to grieve range from 6 months to 2 years. If one takes longer than 2 years to grieve, poeple may feel that counseling may be needed.
On the other hand, when one dies, the widow may feel like they need sex to feel alive and may end up getting lots of sex from several people to get this alive feeling. It happens.
2007-08-02 09:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly... that all depends on the person. some people would wanna eventually move on because they dont wanna be alone. as others... may not ever wanna replace that person cause of how much they truly loved them. if my fiancee died i would never get over it. i wouldnt wanna move on. but thats me and how i feel. everyone's different
2007-08-02 09:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by .:.*Danielle*.:. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER~ If my husband dies i will NEVER look to replace him. NEVER!!
it depends on other people though..some might move on fast..could also depend on how long they were married for... the longer they were together the longer it will take for them to move on...
2007-08-02 09:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋