i think my boyfriend might be cheating!!!! i have the password of one of his e mails but he does not know, well everytime i check it he has e mails of when he signs on to stuff, like today i checked it and he had something from sms.ac where u can chat and meet people and he has an account with them i also saw one of a porn site!!! help i mean he does not seem that way but nowadays you cant tell we been together for 2 years we are planning to get married soon but what if he chats with other people? how can i find out if he is should i create an account too and act like someone else?
2007-08-02 05:16:26 · 12 answers · asked by jessyka_g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're serious enough to get married, i think the smartest thing to do would be ask him directly. when someone is at this level of commitment there should be honesty between the couple, cause well, every relationship IS built on trust.
if you pretend you're someone else, and if he finds out, he's gonna be very mad. he'd probably feel cheated and upset that you don't trust him. do the adult thing and talk it out. if he IS doing something wrong.. well his body language and the way he handles the situation would be clues enough.
As for the porn.. well most guys are into that. just let him know you're not cool with that and he should understand.
2007-08-02 05:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by meeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really see a reason to check it unless you thought he was cheating before hand. I would make an account and pretend to be someone eles but you have to know going in to it that you cant let it affect the real you and him. Whats online is online and has to stay that way to see how much he will say. What I would do and this just me is say one phrase like oh thats cool when you talk online to him and then about a week into it when you are with him start using it. Just to see if he even notices. I mean you wanna marry this dude but you dont want to marry someone who is living to lives..... I dont think I am helping much but I hope everything works out......
** I just wouldnt call him out on it that you have his password he might get really mad for you having it....
2007-08-02 05:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you boyfriend may move ! Having a relationship change due to a location is very sad ! The only thing you can do is tell your boyfriend how you feel and hope for the best !
2016-04-01 11:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he talks to other people doesn't mean he's cheating. Also, virtually all men look at porn at some time or another - so don't worry about it.
If I were you, I'd seriously stop looking at your boyfriend's emails. It's an invasion of his privacy.
2007-08-02 05:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe...but it sounds like hes looking for a fling on the side. its on the internet, plus signing for a porn site is not surprising for a man....Creating an account is a good idea tho. good luck
2007-08-02 05:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by lil muffin ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A PORN SITE ! OH MY GOD!
you mean, he might look at at pics of other people having sex? who ever heard of a man doing that ?
good thing your not dating me, not only would find a whole bunch of porn sites on my computer, i would would expect you to look at them with me.
i guess you would have a heart attack when i asked you to look at the movies i made with other women.
my advice for you ? hire a private detective to follow him every minute, take his computer away, put a tracking device on him, dress him funny and use lots of fabric softener (to mark your territory), install cameras and microphones in the house and his car, call him every 5 minutes and strip him naked every night and smell every inch of his body for a woman's perfume.
or,
if you dont trust him, get another man.
2007-08-02 05:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find out is to be truthful with him and ask him straight out...If ya have been together for 2 years then ya have a solid relationship and the truth should be used....Ask him about your concerns...That is the only real way to find out...Good Luck
2007-08-02 05:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by puertolinda2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off that is his account not yours and you should respect his privacy! Next, you should talk to him about what you have seen and tell him you expectations if you two get married.
2007-08-02 05:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mike T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you have to check up on him, why did you agree to marry him?
Obviously you both are too immature and have no real relationship.
You'll be divorced within the first year.
2007-08-02 05:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I look at porn online and I would never cheat, jst confront him on it , it might be nothing
2007-08-02 05:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋