Which of her feeling should i trust more? 99% time we were together or the 1% after we broke up?

Question

So i met this girl, that became a relationship, etc. It was going great and really intense at points. but toward the end i realized that she and the relationship is not what I wanted. Because of her jealousy, frequent low self esteem, and overall immaturity I just couldn't stay w/ her for the long run. Dealing w/her, i ended up hanging out w/no friends, no female friends, and basically doing NOTHING all day except to talk to her.

BTW, this was long distance, i was 18, she was 16. That was NOT what I wanted, but she would be so whiny at times I really didn't wanna hurt her. I think the relationship had some strain on her too. So we broke up. I moved on, she got a new b/f but I'm not sure she actually "moved on" (probably forced herself to). So i call her, lets say, every couple weeks after that to see how she's doing. First couple of time it was all good. But the last time, she had an attitude and tried to curse me out, brought up personal things, tried to make me out a loser. So...

Was the 99% of other times her real self, or was the last time her real self and her true feelings about me? I don't want her back, but I feel a little difficult to get close to someone after that. She 'wanted' me to get close to her, then says this b/s at the end?

Answer 1

Don't play that game with yourself!!! Don't you dare start getting caught up with this girls opionins of you now! When you descided that, thats one of the big reasons you left! You made that desciion and because of that you gave up the right to kick your butt about who you are later. I can tell from your typing that your a... intellecutal person, watch your i's, cross your t's. I'm more then sure you did great. But opionins they say are like assholess we all have one and they all stink. Which basically (if not immaturely, sry) shows how opionins are not whats important in situations like this, its the actions. Your right, she did force herself to move on, because those are classic signs of it. Apathy in the beganing, slowly devleloping into the frist step of getting over a tragic event, anger. She is a slow one, because she does run for her feelings and emotions. So take her stuff with a WHOLE lot of salt and realize you saw things she couldn't. So its your opionin here that matters, keep up the good work on being true to thy self!!