I need help - Experienced answers are helpful! Boyfriend Troubles!!?

Question

I been with my boyfriend 7 months!
He just back from a 2 week break - when he left we had just resolved an angrument and agreed that this break would do us both good and allow us to think. He told me that this break would either underline that we were not ment to be, or rekindle the magic we had lost.

We have not had sex throughout our relationship but its what we both want to happen, me especially, but when it has a chance to happen after a few good days, an argument arises. It hurts.

When he arrived back from his holiday he rested a day n then came down to see me the day after, he gave me the presents he bought me and a hug.

In result to our arguments, it does not come natural to hold hands, or kiss, or even cuddle and talk to each other. He says we have got ourself in a situation we cat get out of.

This guy was my best friend and i am scared i have lost him.

What am i to do to make him want to be with me and be happy.?
Help please.
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Answer 1

Actually angruments are a product of your guys inablitiy to relate well. So this has nothing to do with not showing the right affection, this is about showing none. Love isn't romantic, all thou romance can be part of love. But this relationship lacks what it needs most, you guys having a construtive dialogue. I don't know why ether you or him can't drop there pride and stop the arguement because it does take two. Also it seems with the move to boyfriend you both forgot the friend part and are no longer truly relating your feelings honestly, which is whats destorying this relationship. So ether you look him strait in the eye and tell him how you truly feel are its best to say your good byes...