I was sexually abused for three and a half years, when i finally told, i was sent off, i came back home and now everyone hates me and calls me a liar, I can't stand it anymore, i am always depressed, i think i am slipping away, what do i do?
2007-08-02 03:09:32 · 7 answers · asked by angelleticangel2008 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
How old are you? Can you move back out? Have friends you can stay with? Were you able to get counseling while you were away? You have to deal with your feelings and you shouldn't be living at home. Why are you living back at home?
2007-08-02 03:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should try to contact a local community service agency, like Child Protective Services through the Department of Social Services. They will keep you safe and there wont be backlash for reporting what you've gone through. You should not have to be back in that home and they will help you find other housing. I dont know how old you are so child protective services might not be the answer but social services is the right idea. If you need someone to talk to you should call RAINN (Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network) their hotline is 1-800-656-HOPE. They will keep everything confidential and give you some idea of what can be done. Please call them. Do not let your father win. And don't listen to the IDIOTS who tell you it's your fault!!!!
2007-08-02 10:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by eniarnna 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to clergy or school officials. They will help. As mom to take you for counseling. She doesn't have to know why. You can tell her you are "slipping away" and depressed, which is not only true, but the root problem. If slipping away means what I think it means, get help immediately and don't give up. And keep "pinging" on those that can help until you get it. Ask for a physical (MD) and tell him and he can refer you to people that can help.
2007-08-02 10:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
MY Mom went through this no one believed her either, it happened more than 30 years ago she even had HRS workers coming in and out of her house(her mother did foster care,she was the one abusing her,her,her dad and her moms boyfriends) no one knew.What you need to do is tell ,tell, tell, please tell anyone and everyone who will listen no matter what, you will find someone who will listen and do something. tell your doctor,a friends mom and ask her to help you (just make sure that she isn't close to your mom) and I will be praying for you everyday.
2007-08-02 11:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by vns_prscll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't force them to believe you.two things will be the result of what had happen.eithier you forgive your dad and live your life without your family or hate your father and hate the world.pray for strenght and courage to continue to live in and move on.
2007-08-02 10:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by honey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go seek help. go tell somebody who will give you a chance and listen
2007-08-02 10:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by LADY WITH AN ATTITUDE 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look young missy there is no smoke without fire.How could you do such a thing against your Dad? Did you have a crush on him?
2007-08-02 10:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by BAKKUS 2 · 1⤊ 9⤋