My friend has this boyfriend I haven't seen him before but only a picture. I guess on the internet he filled out a form about what he wants in a girl. My friend has brown eyes short hair and it that form her but green eyes and long hair. And then he put that he would get married when he finds the right girl. My friend and I are at work she is really hurt with that fact that he wrote that. I don't like seen her sad and crying all day. So I need your guys help. They have been together for 2 yrs going on 3.
2007-08-02 03:18:28 · 5 answers · asked by Lita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I can see where she would be sad. It appears that she isn't what he wants. I would say she should ask him. Confront him over the add and see what he says. I don't believe she has a chance. If he is going with her as a convenience, he will go to the next one when he finds her. My advice would be call it off and find another guy. Guys initially go for looks. But personality should be more important. If not, he isn't ready to settle down.
2007-08-02 03:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by RB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's been with her that long, I don't think he was serious about the application. He was probably wanting to see if he could get a connection with the application to boost his ego. He wasn't going to go through with it if his application was accepted. I know guys will do things they regret later.
Maybe your friend could ask her boyfriend if he minded her putting an application out on the intenet just to see how it works. You know, play the game to see how he would respond.
2007-08-02 10:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this guy filled out a dating form whilst he was in a relationship with your friend? :/ If I was in your position, I'd let your friend know the harsh reality that maybe her and her boyfriend just weren't meant to be; she deserves much better than a cheater.
2007-08-02 10:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off. she shouldnt be mad. maybe he thought that before he met her.
secondly, just confort her. right now she needs to feel like she is pretty so keep complimenting her. that will bring up her spirits. how about u take her out to a grls night out. that would be fun and keep her mind off of what her bf said
2007-08-02 10:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be happy that she found out now and not later. Wasting her time with him when he is seeking others. Maybe she should bow out now and begin her new life without him.
2007-08-02 10:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋