How to deal with a crazy EX!?

Question

Ok I dated this girl for about a year. Then I find out she is cheating on me so I say forget it and I dont talk to her for a couple of weeks. Nothing no phone calls emails ims what soever. Well it turns out that she is like stalking me. I live in an apartment building and this other college age girl need help moving in and I helped her bring up a tv. Well I guess she saw this and threatened the girl to stay away from me. Now it turns out that the girl has a crush on me. My first question is does this girl just have a crush on me because she sees that my ex wants me back or would she of had a crush on me no matter what? Second this crazy B#$% EX was waiting at my door when I got home from work so I thought it would be immature but funny to just walk by her open up my door then lock it and not say a word. But she wouldnt let me unlock it and started screaming in the hall for me to talk to her so I finally said sure leave me the hell alone. I see her like watching me

leave for work every day. It is kind of weird. I dont think she will resort to anything violent but I was just wondering How I deal with this. O yea she told me that I should take her out to and expensivie resturant pay for everything so we could talk? Screw that.

Answer 1

First think you need to ask yourself is; is the x good in bed. LOL

Second is, who cares why the other chic likes you or what got her started liking you. Your relationship can develop from that and it will work or not work.

Third, you should be tapping them both. it makes it more fun and maybe you can get them to agree to it.

Seriously I would make it clear to the X that you don't want her around and that its over. She is a nut. In addition make sure there are people around and watching when you confront her; so she can't falsely accuse you of anything.

If you really want her to leave you alone set her up with a friend. Once she is swinging from another branch she will leave you alone. Sad but true.

Answer 2

I had some weirdo guy do this to me one time. He would call and hang up to see if I were at home, he would follow me to work and to other places thinking I didn't see him. He would sit outside of my house in his car. I don't think the thought that I could see him. I had a friend hide in the bushes next to where he parked his car and punch him in the face. We called the police and got a restraining order against him. I told him that if he continued to stalk me that I would begin stalking him with a BIG buddy and make his life a living hell. He went away.

Answer 3

It may not end up violent for you but for some lady you want to pursue it could end real bad. Get a order of protection from her. It doesnt mean you are a weenie it just means that you dont want this to go on. Yes I believe the other girl has a crush for you not because of you stupied x. You better do something this girl is getting out of hand. Stalking can get very bad. I know it happened to me.

Answer 4

Ouch - tell her to leave you the hell alone or you are calling the police - dealing with a pycho sometimes you have to get a little pycho.

As for the crush, she probably had a crush the day you helped her - I am sure its not bc. of the ex unless this new girl is pyscho too!!

Answer 5

Yea bro screw that don't do S*** for her, but if she really starts getting annoying or violent in any sense you could do any of the following...
1. Tie her up and refuse to let her go until she actually hates and will refuse to ever see you again.
2. hire an assasin or...
3. The best idea if it gets really bad... a restraining order

Answer 6

You never said that you told her you knew of her cheating on you maybe she wants a answer to why you are acting the way you are. That cannot make up for the way she is acting there is no excuse for it women are crazy and they do crazy things when things seem out of control, control they want to have a hold of we all do in cases when we are in love but she must not be in love if she fooled around you need to call her out of the blue and tell her want you know and just tell her you no longer want anything to do with her and she needs to act more mature for her age tell her if she comes back around you will call the law. You need to talk to her because she is getting madder by the min. tell her in the nicest way you no longer want to c her be with her and there is nothing she has to offer you that will make you give in like SEX keep your guard up for that one it is the most powerful tool of female she will more than likely try it! say no that is why its best you do this on the phone or email if she keeps up call the law really more women are stalkers than men i think and i am a female!!! we are carzy!!!!

Answer 7

Hell no! You better stay away from that girl. As for the new girl give her a chance who knows maybe she has always liked you. Seeing this girl going crazy may have gotten her interested on why she's like that over you? Maybe she sees your a good man (if you are)

Answer 8

I think you need to sit her down and talk to her! You are not doing nothing but making her madder!!! I would just say hey look I don't like the fact you cheated on me and I don't feel as if this is going to work out! I think we need to go our seperate ways!! I would like to remain friends, just not good friends!!! well good luck and if that don't work I would get the police involved, because you never know about people!!!

Answer 9

What in the world did you do to her? Nall, just playing I think your new neighbor really just likes you b/c you did help her with her TV. As for the stalker chick you may just want to get the authorities involved b/c there is no telling what she is capable of doing.

Answer 10

Just dont pay any attention to her. She will get bored and go away. And yes i think the girl would be interested even if your crazy ex didnt threaten her.