Family & Relationships - 28 June 2007

music makes me happy, going for a walk at night time.
dancing and being with my kids how about you

2007-06-28 05:13:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'am in a relationship is this lady. Who has 3 kids that i'm helping her with. I have a house that I invited her and her kids to live in. I pay all the bill, gave her 2 cars with 6 mo. of us being together, buy her what ever she needs or want, let her send her child support on what ever she want (which she only gets support for one of them), I work a second job and told her I would give her that check so she can have some money in her pocket, we go out as family and do things, but she is always complaining about everything. (cleaning, washing, the kids you name it she complains about it. And im starting to get tried of it. I Love her but i'm at the point that I want to snap and kick her out. We are going on year in july. And the kid have become a big part in my life. What should I do?

2007-06-28 05:10:41 · 15 answers · asked by Bigd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So my X and I were together for 3 years, when pretty much out of no where my X cheated on me (w/ someone we worked w/). I guess my X was acting different around this me when this person was around...like they both 'knew' something I didnt know. To top it off we all went out a few times and this person was so fake, like they were my trying to be my friend but they were really being super shady. I ended up moving out August '06, changed my number and completely stop taking to my X. But I still saw my X almost everyday @ work w/ their new 'play thing'. It was the most frustrating thing I had to deal with. I was going completely insane. Well to make a long story short, we started talking again (Feb) they want to get back together but I constantly say no. Im completely disgusted by them (both) when I think of how things went down. I dont love my X like I did. I kinda just wanna be friends. My X says they cant live w/out me.... Can I forgive and forget? (I still work w/ tha other b*tch) ugh

2007-06-28 05:10:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When they stay every other weekend they always end up sleeping in the same bed. Sometimes all three in a single. He does not have his own place. Staying at a mutual friends house or his parents. Other sleeping arrangements are available but he won't be firm with them when they ask to be in his bed. Preferring them to idolise him. My friend is not happy about this either and I doubt if his parents would be. They are usually away when he stays at theirs. They sleep in their own beds at home, coming in for a cuddle in the mornings at weekends. When my youngest wakes with a nightmare I go to her room. I am not happy with the situation, they are 4 and nearly 7. Their stepfather thinks it is totally wrong and so do most people I speak with.

2007-06-28 05:05:59 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My best friend is married she and her husband have been split up for a little over a year. Since about Jan 07, she has been seeing a man off and on, her husband has been seeing someone off and on since about March 07.

Her and hubby have been talking recently and wanting to work their marriage out. How do they tell the "others" that they want to fix things?


Any suggestions???

Yes, the "others" know that they are married. My best friend knows that she made a mistake by leaving, and that she still loves her husband as much as she did the day she married him. As he does her.

They want to work to make it last, they are young she is almost 29 and he is 32, and they have some great kids.

2007-06-28 05:05:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. But lately, he's been acting like he wants me back. I even caught him talking to his friends about how pretty i am, and he always comments my pictures on myspace as "you're so pretty, you're so sexy, etc." But the most confusing part, is that he claims to like another girl.
HELP!

2007-06-28 05:02:02 · 13 answers · asked by brookee. 1 in Singles & Dating

or may be it is sincerity when you know you have "enjoyed "each other already

2007-06-28 05:00:54 · 10 answers · asked by solofaak 1 in Weddings

my husband and I married in chicago il, like 8 months ago but i didn't take his last name, where wouldI go to do that?

2007-06-28 04:58:42 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

While I was working part time and my husband was full time I did everything in the house-now we are both full time,guess what?I still do everything in the house! Do other women find the same thing?What can I do to train him or is it too late after 20 years?

2007-06-28 04:55:53 · 44 answers · asked by Modbird 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my little sister dearly (she's 22) But its only a month away from my weding and the bachloette party has not been planned, no one knows whats going on. I havnt even heard any details untill my friend called and asked what was going on. The only thing everyne knows at this point is the date of the party. Thats it! I would be happy just to hang out with the girls at my place, nothing expensive! I don't need to spend money to have a good time. I have expressed time after time that I dont want anything crazy....I I have given her hundreds of ideas, non being expensive.Every month I ask whats going onand there is no set plan. My sister gets frustrated and gets angry at me for asking. I figured this was too stressful for her to handle and maybe to have the help from some of our family but she is too stubborn. She truley belives she does not need help, but does nothing at all. Iam tired of telling her (in a nice way)how much stress this is causing me and everyone. Whats left to do?

2007-06-28 04:52:35 · 16 answers · asked by L 3 in Weddings

she treats me perfect in every way. I changed. 12 -13 years ago i realized i wasnt in love with her. we dont fight, nor do we have sex. Im simply not attracted to her. I have told her my feelings and she said she wants me 2 stay. I am her sole support, she has no family left besides mine. 1 child that is grown. i could remain here, as i have, but its really not fair to either party. on the other hand she doesnt want me 2 leave and from my point of view it will create an unfair and undeserved hardship on her. tried counseling but the fact remains i'm simply not attarcted 2 her. In the interest of honesty i am now not being faithful 2 her and know i wouldnt be in the future. She pretty much knows this, ( i stay gone ALOT and tell her i have a girlfriend) but she has pretty much a dont ask dont tell attitude. She makes no effort 2 find out where i am or who im seeing, never checks my phone and only ask me during an absence that im safe or ok. Is my happiness worth causing so much sadness

2007-06-28 04:52:24 · 14 answers · asked by dpeslinger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What are your views on the matter? Could you ever become a couple after being friends with benefits? Do guys just think its a booty call?

2007-06-28 04:51:25 · 24 answers · asked by songbirdchelsea 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother is 26yrs old and is getting married next week but I don't know what to get him for his wedding! Or what gift shall i buy the couple?? I'm a typical student so I don't have much money but I'm willing to spend quite a lot, i think my budget is about £100? Please help!

2007-06-28 04:51:23 · 30 answers · asked by Roxy 2 in Weddings

Mine is getting realy bad but its only been since i had my last child?Cant remember what i just did or have one thing for the bin in one hand and something important in the other and the wrong thing goes in the bin.Like your on auto pilot cus your so busy.i try and remember things but its just blank.

2007-06-28 04:47:12 · 18 answers · asked by odd socks 3 in Family

can someone elaborate on the subject for me?

2007-06-28 04:46:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yes, it's for the crazy friends for those on yahoo who know me all too well.

She is having the second wedding in Jan- nothing is booked yet. And the guest list is not done yet.
I talked to her sister and due to the fact that her sister is pregnant we want to have the shower in October so she can be there.
Granted the bride actually books something- when is the latest we should send out the invitations?
We don’t know how many people yet because the bride is talking 80 and the bridesmaids are planning to state that is ridicule and she needs to scale it down to close family and friends- more like 20-30.
So to make a long story short- there is a ton of drama going on and I was seriously getting the feeling that this is going to come down to the last min. No one wants to start planning until she actually books something- and to tell you the truth- I am right there with them on that. So when is the absolutely latest date you can start doing this stuff and not have it be horrible lo

2007-06-28 04:44:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-28 04:44:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

approach me?

2007-06-28 04:43:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My BFF got another BFF and I was sad even though we were still Bests Friends but then she stared talking about me behind my back saying that we werent really Best friends and I confronted her about it but now she wants to be friends again.....What should I do?

2007-06-28 04:40:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

there is a person that i need some help letting go. she was once one of my best friends but then walked away from the friendship for a boyfriend and left lies in her wake. What she did to me was pretty crappy, but she didn't realize that she was hurting me and thought that everything was fine until I told her that it wasn't. But that's enough of what happened. I still think about her every day because of what she meant to me and the close friendship that we once shared. The thoughts are angry or sad or just that I'm fed up with thinking about her and want to get her out of my thoughts like she is gone from my life. I'm looking for suggestions on how to fully move on and let go of her, like i'm sure she has done. I know that time is the best cure but it's been 3 months so I'm a little worried. I've printed out some stuff that i've found on the internet and am going to spend an afternoon going though it. but If you have anything to add please do. thanks

2007-06-28 04:38:58 · 6 answers · asked by asguard 3 in Friends

my boyfriend and i seem to be getting quite distant lately,.. we havent been talking on msn or the phone as much, and we've been keeping our distance.. we're close (in every way such as emotionally, and we have a healthy sex life and such ), but im worrying that this distance is going to lead to us breaking up.

or is this the time where we get into more of a routine?

help please.

2007-06-28 04:36:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We saw each other for about a year. We still love each other a lot but he has a 6yr old and i told him to go home for his son, since his wife woould not allow him to see him. We have remained friends. I only call at work, never his house because i know it must ve hard for his wife. I don't understand why she took him back after he confessed to multiple affairs. Anyway i left a voicemail at his job because i needed some advice from him. I trust him and have gone to hin for advice many times. We havebn't seen each other in more than a year. She went through his work voicemail and found my message. Last night she called and shrieked like a banshee. I stayed calm and didn't call her any names like she was calling me because i can understand how she feels. My question, if she is calling my house do i have to be nice to her. She chose to take her husband back knowing full well that he still loves me. We haven't seen each other in over a year. Do i have to keep being nice?

2007-06-28 04:32:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ill take any ideas at all!

2007-06-28 04:31:09 · 19 answers · asked by Mindy 3 in Weddings

i'm finding a dearth of good women out there. i have spent years of whoring around and now i actually want to settle down. everyone is married or has way too many kids. any suggestions for where to meet women in the tri-state area(new york, new jersey, and connecticut)? i'm at my wits end...

2007-06-28 04:30:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My step dad he is crazy.
i have lived in my basement and have gone without food,
and a bed..
he locked my little sister up in her room. and my mother is always passed out drunk. Or he hits her until she cant take it. she cuts and threatens to kill herself because her sister was shot. she always talks about this to my step dad. about how she is going to go back to the house she was killed in. burn it down..then shoot herself. its horrible.
He threatens to kill us if we tell anyone. and we never have the chance because he is always right on our back. the only time i could tell or anything. is at school.
NOBODY would believe me. he can clean up his act when he is questioned about it. I'm so scared. i dont know what to do.
And he has gotten my brother into this too. he hits our mom and me and my little sister. He is crazy he has raped all of us

--Dont report me or anything.-- it will be even worse.
ust try to give me advice.--

2007-06-28 04:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by sierrA; 2 in Family

2007-06-28 04:26:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-28 04:25:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He hasn't told me that, but I can tell. She is beautiful! He has never never done anything to make me worry. I am just insecure sometimes. I worry that he secretly is lusting after her..I don't know why, because he honestly hasn't given me a reason..I know he thinks she is beautiful...but he is always telling me how much he loves me! Am I just being an idiot?

2007-06-28 04:24:31 · 38 answers · asked by JCW 3 in Marriage & Divorce

...not sexual... just something that sticks out in your mind as memorable and made you think that she was a really cool girl. Just curious.

2007-06-28 04:17:58 · 7 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

A few days ago my cousin was found sitting in a chair, shot by an ak-47. Now my knowledge of guns is limited I don't even know if that is the correct name for it, but hopefully you get the idea. The body was sent for an autopsy to determine if it was murder or suicide. Family members close to him said he was depressed, and there has been no mention of this in the local papers or on the news. So everyone assumed it was a suicide. But just this morning we found out the type of gun he was shot with. My husband seems to be convinced that it would be nearly impossible to shoot yourself with that type of gun, due to its size. At this point the police aren't saying to much of anything. Does anyone have any knowledge about such a thing.
Also he was shot in the chest, if that means anything

2007-06-28 04:11:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family