Family & Relationships - 28 June 2007

2007-06-28 09:42:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I posted earlier about why my husband that tries to control the way I think and the way I should feel....
I got alot of great feed back, thankyou.
One thing that nobody really gave any advice on was.....if I'm supposed to try to understand the way he is....how? How do I possibly do that? Its like guys say "you will never figure out a woman". Well its the same way for woman trying to figure guys out. How can I put that ball in his court and make him realize that he is living with his own guilt from what he did, and that he doesnt have to try to make me guilty for stuff that happened 15 years before I ever meet him. He is like a brick wall..I have tried to talk to him and he refuses to hear what I have to say, and in return I get downgraded and made out to be like im the worst person in the world. He maid some mistakes and so did I. But why is it only my fault.....hes just as bad.

2007-06-28 09:40:53 · 3 answers · asked by Spice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Isn't the damn wedding a theme of it's own? Everyone I know is either doing something tacky or making their cake topper their theme? What gives?
Can't people just have a normal wedding these days.....

2007-06-28 09:40:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am 7 months pregnant and out relationship is great. Tonight he was going golfing with a his best friend. I asked how long the course would take to do he said 5 hrs. I know full well it's only 2 maybe 3....only because I've done that course before and I'm horrible at golf. So I called him and asked why he would lie to me about that. He didn't answer and said he had to go. What the hell? We've never had any problems and there are no other cheating signs.....as I know that's what everyone is going to say. I told him I wanted him to answer me as It made me very upset. I'm really upset about this.

2007-06-28 09:38:50 · 20 answers · asked by Sara M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently found out that my soon to be "ex-husband" has been hiding and lying about having a 15 month old son with his girlfriend of two and a half years....We have two boys together ages 10 and 9 years old..Our boys have not and does not want to meet his girlfriend..He's apart of their life when he remembers he's a dad or when it's convenient for him..I'm upset he has hid this huge secret to his advantage.. He said he was afraid that if I knew that I would take the kids away.. He's excluded our boys as if they don't exsist nor matter...So has his family...I'm also upset because when our boys find out as well they may just resent their father for keeping this from them..Everyone keeps asking me if I still love my ex-husband because of my anger but, my question is "How could you love or be in love with someone you haven't been with for nearly 5 years"???
Even my ex husband has said that to me, "How could we still love one another after all this time"?

2007-06-28 09:37:59 · 5 answers · asked by Yvette D 5 in Marriage & Divorce

and this is a big trouble, but... in one small town in another country, couriously I found a disposable and inexpensive device named Equalizer. Whit this Equalizer, females can pee with out have to seat down. No, no worry about, you DO NOT have put in nothing in any place, just hold it with one hand in the right place (is very comfortable), pee in stand position, when finish you throw away the device and free to go. I'm thinking in bring to our country the Equalizer but before make a deal with the factory, I need to be sure we are going to have customers. Let me know what yo thing about. Is fantastic!!!

2007-06-28 09:36:04 · 12 answers · asked by Rebekha 3 in Weddings

Almost 2 weeks ago, my husband left my 6-month old daughter and myself to go be gay. Rather than keep up his commitments, he's followed his wang and left his daughter. Now he's off doing who knows what. I feel the need to get even. Yes, I know its petty, but I just want a revenge lay or something.

How do I get even sufficiently without losing my dignity?

2007-06-28 09:34:04 · 29 answers · asked by madelinemoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Dating guy for a year sex dying down dramaticly?
Ive been dating this boy for a year and the sex has died down dramactily he use to want it all the time and now never starts it i always have to ask. we still have it but now its way shorter then it used to be way less and i always have to start it. and i know hes a very sexual person were going to move in together and im almost positive hes not cheating but when i ask i never get a straight answer

2007-06-28 09:33:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to make him jelious so i tried going out with his friend it didnt work i want to make him hurt like he made me hurt how thoe date his other friend he dont like ? i want him to cry him self to sleep like i did for about 5 nights straight

2007-06-28 09:33:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I live together, he's still married, but going through a divorce. She came over to get some of her belongings, they went upstairs to talk. They were quiet, I got worried. I went into the upstairs bedroom, and she had her pants and panties pulled down sitting on his lap. He had his pants still on, buttoned, zipped, everything. She told me they had sex, he told me they didn't. Who do I believe!? Why didn't he push her off?! Should I stay with him and deal with this crap? Or should I leave and try to find a new boyfriend? I really don't know what to do. They text eachother all the time. She told me they wern't really getting a divorce. But he assured me they were. He won't get a restraining order against her though. Is her still seeing her behind my back? Tell me what I should do please!!

2007-06-28 09:31:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-28 09:30:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-28 09:25:56 · 7 answers · asked by Buckeey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know what to do or think , weve been together since i was 12 yrs old. I love him to death but im so angry and frustrated. why me? why when i was pregnant. now me, my unborn and possibly my daughter have chlamydia. im so depressed

2007-06-28 09:25:33 · 20 answers · asked by Need Motivation! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have been married for 4 years, have a 1 year old daughter. Husband told me out of the blue he is not happy and doesn't want the responsibility of a family anymore. Says he wants a divorce. I don't know what to do. he contacted a lawyer before telling me. He makes a lot more money than me and said he will give child support and pay off bills. How do I go on? This happened last night and I am numb. How is the amount of child support determined (he already has an amount picked out) and would he be required to pay alimony?

2007-06-28 09:24:48 · 45 answers · asked by mandie111 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, there is this guy i dont want to say his name but he OBSESSED. I never had anyone like me this much. I'm not sure now if I like him because i found out he was saying all these things about me (not mean but still weird) and he is getting on my nerves. What do i do. :(

2007-06-28 09:24:07 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel Love ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering. After you answer that, would you tell me what age difference you think is appropriate
a) in general
b) for a 12 year old girl
c) for a 16 year old guy
d) for a 20 year old guy/girl
e) for a 30 year old guy/girl

For b-e, it can be an age difference younger or older than the example.

The biggest I've had was 6 years, I think. The "relationship" only lasted for 3 days though. Long story.

2007-06-28 09:22:14 · 29 answers · asked by insidious_22 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-28 09:19:09 · 14 answers · asked by Gman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

while you are married and or in a serious relationship would you let your significant other have a couple of porn magazines or no. how do you feel about others that do let there significant others have porn and do you feel that porn is bad or good?

2007-06-28 09:17:58 · 15 answers · asked by Honey Badger Doesnt give a Shat 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you have to present ID to buy air duster at walmart? I know you do at staples. If that's the case I will get my brother to buy it but didn't want to go through the hassle cuz I am only 17.

2007-06-28 09:17:38 · 8 answers · asked by creativebuddhism 1 in Singles & Dating

so im going on my first date in a week. the guy im going on the date with is kinda shy. hes been trying to ask me out for weeks and never had the guts to. finally he asked me out. of course i said yes. well...i was just wondering...should i make the first move or should i let him? and if i do make the first move what should it be? thank you so much! i really need some help...

2007-06-28 09:11:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah, cuz it kinda almost happened
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2007-06-28 09:10:23 · 15 answers · asked by Crystal L 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 and have a 4yr old boy that i have been raising on my own until about a year ago when i met this awesome man. i'm so sick of living paycheck to paycheck and just got laid off and i'm paying sooo much in rent. i know the Air Force doen't let single moms in there so i asked my boyfriend aboutit and he said that he would marry me if thats what i really want to do,and says he already want to marry me anyway. can anyone tell em more about have a family in the Ari Force and is it a good idea.

2007-06-28 09:08:57 · 6 answers · asked by JULIUS born @ 29 weeks, on 9-30 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm reposting this to see if I can get some more peoples opinions.......

SO I have this younger girl threaten to kick my butt (it's a long story, I don't particularly want to fight, but if it comes down to it I will.....)..... so she claims she's a black belt in Tae Kwon Do and she's been doing it for 7 years. Now I don't know if I necessarily believe her because the first thing that hinted she might not be is that she spelled it Ty Kwon Do :P .... I've never learned it but even I know how to spell it.

Now what I need to know is if we actually get in a fight would i have a chance? I've gotten into brawls before and always come out victorious. The last time the girl grabbed my hair before I knew what was going on and I ended up grabbin hers back and kicked her in the face a couple times..... don't ask me how I was holding her head and made contact with my foot, I don't even know, I was in an enraged state but everyone that saw it said I made contact a couple times....

2007-06-28 09:07:45 · 8 answers · asked by Katia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was actually wondering if there were any support groups for women with husbands in prison. I have been with him for 4 years and he has been gone for a year and a half now. He's up for parole soon and if he gets it this time he'll be home next may, but if not he'll probably be looking at least another year or two more. I am just really having a hard time dealing with it and it seems to be getting harder and harder especially when knowone understands what I am going through and why I am waiting. Anyone know of any group or anything I can do to find one?

2007-06-28 09:07:16 · 10 answers · asked by Amber 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is suppose to be a Christian. I knew he had wondering eyes for years but he always act in front of people he loved me so much and like a love machine. But I always had to cry and beg for his affections. I even accepted his impotenecy but could have worked around this. I love and miss him dearly but he has turned to porn of all sorts. We almost divorce two or three times as he continues but promises to quit. Now he is smoking and had a drinking/drug binge a few months ago. I feel like he doesn't love me as he changes from I think I do, I don't and now I do. I feel like a daisy he loves me, he loves me not. His parents told me, don't throw away those divorce papers just yet. Even seem interested in introducing him to someone else and say they are praying God sends me someone else. I am still married, so no thanks. I want this to work but can he really love me and hurt me this way. He lies until he is so caught. I felt if I were just???? he would be different? 13 years hurts.

2007-06-28 09:06:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I realize that there is more to just having an expensive classy car, does this add at all to what woman find attractive: of course along with a good attitude.

2007-06-28 09:06:05 · 4 answers · asked by cactus 2 in Singles & Dating

my father died 18 years ago leaving everything to my mother, then on to me, after her demise..... we have his will here.
my mother is now in advancing years, and i have been her only carer for some time......... and live with her.
does this will ensure there can be no problem from my other siblings (who rarely even come to see her) upon my mothers death? or does she need to make a seperate will?
we are reluctant to use a solicitor if it is not neccesary,as funds are never in other than short supply.

many thanks in advance

2007-06-28 09:05:29 · 9 answers · asked by atlanticviewer 2 in Family

I know someone who searches me online to find my previous posts and what sites I belong to. It drives me crazy. Is there something i can do? I know I can change my name but I know he'll find me again. I want to just be able to feel like I'm not being followed. Is that possible?

2007-06-28 09:03:54 · 13 answers · asked by Lotusnivy 3 in Singles & Dating

I'd appreciate it if only married people over 30 answer my question. Thanks :)
Is it normal to feel like you may be making a mistake 2 weeks before the wedding? Everything was fine up until now. It seems the closer I get, the more afraid I get. I love him and we aren't having any problems. I'm just wondering if maybe I'd be more happy staying single. That's what keeps going through my mind. I'm in my 40's and this is my second marriage. Are these feelings normal?

2007-06-28 09:02:16 · 19 answers · asked by Jo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

http://img180.imageshack.us/img180/5064/angeline18gt1.jpg
Somebody seems to be in love at first sight but doesn't know her identity. So we can help him (srh).

2007-06-28 09:02:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating