Family & Relationships - 28 June 2007

play fighting as in punching someone they barley know in a cutsey cutsey manner. is it flirty?

2007-06-28 11:43:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay well my boyfriend is 24 and he has a female friend who messages him all the time she call him he calls her and they went out to lunch and he promised he wouldnt take her on the back of his bike and he did and he tryed to lie about it and i found out the truth we have been fighting over this and i told him to pick me or her and he said that theres nothing going on and i am just talking about something i dont know about and there just friends a couple months before he did something that made me distrust him he had some lady from work over they were drinking and watching a movie together and that is something you dont do when you are in a relationship i felt betrade backstabed it hurt what do i do about this?

2007-06-28 11:43:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have know the man I love with all my heart since high school, we finally got together a little over a year and a half ago and by the sheer freakish humor of who ever is incharge, I wound up pregnant! while on birth control and using protection! figure that one out! But here we are about to find out what our baby is and, with my hormones running wild I feel as though I am being treated like the same ol girl who in high school! that girl who would not have wanted flowers or to be treated like a girl but wanted to be treated and acted like one of the guys. But I am finding now that I do want flowers and I do want for him to do special things, but I do not want to just come out and say "buy me flowers or someting" PLEASE HELP! Aside from the crazed hormones how do I let my man know I need to feel special, and not just the baby maker

2007-06-28 11:42:23 · 12 answers · asked by rodeogalinor83 2 in Family

My son will be 18 in 2 months. He is out of school. He has not been coming home. He has kept in touch with me through phone calls and stops by though and lets me know where he is staying all night. This has been going on for a couple of weeks. Well I finally had enough of trying to talk him into not leaving every time I walk out the door and then just deciding not to come home and just texting and telling me where he is staying. The last couple days he has been avoiding me cause I have been putting more pressure on him to stay home. I have chased him around for 2 days and finally caught him at a friends house this morning. He refused to get in the car or come home and I tried to physically put him in the car but that did not work because he is bigger than me ! I was going to call the police on him but I really dont want to get him put in jail cause I dont believe he is out doing any harm, he is just running with all his friends and wanting to be a man and do what he wants

2007-06-28 11:42:10 · 17 answers · asked by JJ 5 in Singles & Dating

i met this girl in one of my classes in college and i did so many good things to her i helped her out with a presention in which i did all the work and she did nothing except present it i talked to her a lot and we became good friends and then i told her that i like her more than a friend but the problem is she had a bf and then she told me we shouldn't be friends anymore cuz her bf dosnt approve of this so i left her alone a little while then texted her if we can just talk i sent her like 5-6 messages then she said leave me alone plus went and compliant about me saying that i was harassing her i mean i did so many good things to her in the end she just threw it all away i feel so used should i hate her please no rude comments

2007-06-28 11:41:33 · 40 answers · asked by jeffry 2 in Friends

2007-06-28 11:41:13 · 13 answers · asked by six7foru 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the reason why i say this is because, a girl falls in love to fast ,than a guy.guys tend not to take it serios.why is that

2007-06-28 11:40:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A couple of years ago, one of my friends, who I hadn't spoken to in over three years, invited me to her wedding, not only to attend, but to be her maid of honor. I agreed to do it because we had made a promise in high school (Yes, I know, very juvenile) and she hadn't made any friends in her new town so I kind of felt bad. (Yes totally WRONG reason to attend, but I wouldn't leave anyone hanging like that)

But now, with my own wedding, I already have my bridal party chosen, and they are my sister, and my two best friends. Is it wrong that I don't invite her to be a part of my party, or is it OK if I just invite her to the wedding, without being a part of the party?

I don't want to tread on toes, or hurt her feelings, but we only talk every couple of years, and the only e-mails we send to each other are jokes, so our friendship is definately not that strong.

2007-06-28 11:39:15 · 44 answers · asked by xylina_69 4 in Weddings

I told my husband that I feel like my sex drive is low and it backfired. Now he is mad at me and thinks that I am not in love with him as much anymore and that I don't desire him. I told him that it is not him, but the act that I am not desiring. I don't know what to tell him. I wanted him to help me with this problem but now it seems like we are having a bigger problem. What should I do?

2007-06-28 11:39:10 · 16 answers · asked by Valerie T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf sometimes treats me like I'm his daughter. The age difference isnt that big, only 6 years. He said that he feels responsible for me as if I was his child.

He doesnt misstreat me or anything but its like he's tender and loving like I was really his daughter. I feel like I am sometimes. I like it but I think its a lil strange.

He says that he loves my childish side and says that he's amazed how childish yet lady like I can be!! He's very protective of me and he often just likes to sing me to sleep and stuff..

Does that mean he really loves me or does it mean he just thinks I'm childish!? Do you think this is a sign of love?

2007-06-28 11:38:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my mom to bits, she is great!

We went through a lot of different stages. I was a difficult teenager and she had to deal with heavy marriage problems.

I often made her laugh during these periods and listened to her and discussed her problems (even whether she should or should not leave him).
Equally, she has always been there for me with her comforting words when we talk and her support. I respect her for how she raised me and my sister and really think she is the greatest person.

But, when we see things differently, I wonder if we respect each others opinions as equal... If we disagree, I am the child again, even though i'm 29.

Do you think there should be equal respect when we agree and should the child always respect mothers when we disagree?

2007-06-28 11:36:32 · 14 answers · asked by DesmoDutchy 3 in Family

I need help i really love him

2007-06-28 11:35:31 · 12 answers · asked by hot_blondie 1 in Singles & Dating

Some times my husband or things at work make me sad which makes me cry. I am not depressed I don’t know why I cry.

2007-06-28 11:35:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-28 11:33:16 · 33 answers · asked by Imarobotx 1 in Singles & Dating

I have to go to a wedding on Sat. & I don't know what to get them...gift or cash? What would you want to get?

2007-06-28 11:33:05 · 24 answers · asked by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 in Weddings

Usually when I tell my man something that was really exiting for me he takes it like nothing. Another example whenevr we told his dad I was pregnant he just said "Well thats ur problem I'm not gonna support him u are" and that was that. So whenever I have something that is of importance to me I just tell the girls.Any experiences?

2007-06-28 11:32:51 · 4 answers · asked by babycakes 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents just told me they are getting a divorce and they say that all the time but they said this time theyre serious...i know its my fault because whenever they say theyre getting one its when im fighting with them. I dont want them to leave each other...theyre trying to make it so its best for both of them but i will still see my mom more than my dad and i dont want to see either one of them more, also my dad is going to not make alot of money and im really worried for him and i think my mom is just doing this to make everyone miserable. because my dad doesnt want to divorce, i try not to cry but i hear the breaking up songs on the radio and cry my heart out for like an hour, and my parents are getting divorced in a year, yea this isnt relally a question but i sorta just wanted to blog, feel free to comment/answer if you like...

pc xo

2007-06-28 11:31:59 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't feel that my husband truly is in love with me. When I tell him something he shows no interest and just says "ok". He is not romantic anymore like candles/music he told me he stopped because their is no garuntee it will lead to making love, so he said what's the point. We are different in the intimacy area, and he told me one time that based soley on the sex in our marriage he does not know if he would ask me to marry him again. And he did say to me that even though he thinks that I am not in the mood to make love, he will go ahead with it anyway because he does not kow when the next time will be. When just walking around wether in the house or in public he will make sexual comments to me. And he's always sacrcastic with me. When i told him that i think he loves WHO i am but i don't think he's IN LOVE with me, he got defensive with me and said "Are you trying to make us get a divorce?" Why did he respond to me like this and why does he stay with me?

2007-06-28 11:30:53 · 11 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is always talking baby talk to her dog.now it would not be soo bad (i do it too) btu she does it on the phone!! how can i tell her to stop doing it?

2007-06-28 11:29:19 · 8 answers · asked by green eyed irish girl 3 in Friends

what does a guy want in a girl/girl friend?? thxs for ur help :)

2007-06-28 11:29:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not like porn or even a place where ppl "play" online, but a place where you can talk openly about sex and ask questions and that kind of things. I've tried to ask somethings on here and had them removed :(

2007-06-28 11:28:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a couple weeks ago my friend and i went out to the courts to play sand vb there were a bunch of guys who were there and they were mainly older but there was one that is like barley 2 years older from me and my friend was like that guy is so checking you out. now i go every wesday and monday to play with them. yesterday the guy was playing around he kicked sand at me and so i kicked some back at him one of the older guys was like i sense some flirting. later when we were taking a break from playing he started throwing ice at me.later on like the last game we were playing i guess i seemed really mad b/c he kept asking me what was wrong when i said nothing he still insisted. he jokes around with me b/c last week i served to him and hurt his hand (not bad) but he teases me bout it and is like dont hurt me. but then when i dive for the ball he insits on helpin me up....what is going on?? please help me!

2007-06-28 11:27:12 · 9 answers · asked by Bobbie J 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend, who has been a close friend since i was a freshman in high school. well he moved and we stayed in touch and when he moved back which wasnt to long ago we got together. we've been together for almost 3 months. he sometimes gets on my nerves and says stupid things. but thats not the problem. in a few weeks im moving 2 1/2 hours away from our hometown to start college. i'm a big partier and i like to make the best of everything and meet new people. Now he is going to move back to where he was living which is an hour and 45 mins in the other direction to get a better job, more money whatever. He is real concerned with what i am doing all the time which annoys me. well we always said we'd be friends when we break up and we both believe we will. So should i break this off before it is too late or should i give it a little while with us apart and see how it is going to play out? PLS HELP!!

2007-06-28 11:26:58 · 3 answers · asked by dancin_countrygurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I know that the main reason why sibbling can't marry because of the genes in their genetics pool. But are there any more reasons beside that?

2007-06-28 11:26:03 · 48 answers · asked by wondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What would a girl say to you that would make you really like her???

If you knew her a long time?

If you knew her a few weeks?

Please answer both honestly??

Thanks xx

2007-06-28 11:25:57 · 11 answers · asked by JuSmE 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been divorced 3 times. I seem to have trust issues. only one spouse ever cheted on me.the 2nd went to a rich man.the third was too self centered.and too controlling.. I cant seem to trust s well as I should .am involved with a wonderful woman now. we enjoy each others company.we are both left handed. we are both libras.shes just right for me but I have doubts about all relationships. she hasnt done one thing wrong but I cant seem to commit to her.she deserves a chance but I seem to be holding back and I dont know why..any suggestions?

2007-06-28 11:25:15 · 13 answers · asked by road runner 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We are supposed to be getting married on Halloween. Everyone who knows us knows thats what we want. The last couple weeks almost everyone on both sides of our families are telling us we have to change the date, the style, etc. My mother actually yelled at me over it and several family members are threatening to boycott. When reminded it is our day and thank u for the advice i was told that "miss manners says its not for the bride and groom but for the families"....HELP?!?!?

2007-06-28 11:24:30 · 26 answers · asked by Geia 4 in Weddings

If a mutual crush who all of a sudden stopped calling will be at your job today to facilitate a workshop that you are required to attend, how would you act and deal with this person (and it's going to be a roundtable, so I will have to communicate and look at this person).

2007-06-28 11:22:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He still lives with me and does things when he feels like it like cleaning his room.and doing other chores.

2007-06-28 11:22:04 · 30 answers · asked by missinpieces2myheart 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If I catch a guy glancing at me often, could it mean that he likes me? Once he had this look on his face (I saw for just a split second) during church when he looked at me, and me sister said he was "checking me out" If not, what does it mean then, if anything?

And I can't imagine him being too embarassed to talk to me or say anything, because he is super friendly and outgoing. (He moved here recently from a city about 10-15 minutes away)

He's my neighbor, by the way...lives right across the street. We also work at the same place, but it's huge and we're in different departments so I don't see him much. We're both 15, and we'll be sophomores at the same school come the end of August (it'll be his first time going to that school...)

2007-06-28 11:21:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating