Family & Relationships - 28 June 2007

We enjoy each other a lot sexually but I find myself not wanting it if he wants it. If I want it I like going after it but if he wants it I just push away. What is wrong with me? I could start touching him and he gets turned on and I enjoy that but when I am not the one making the moves I notice I do not want to be sexual. I like to tease but I like to be dominated. I feel confused on what to do. I do not want to make him feel unwanted but I am not turned on when he wants it. If he let me make the moves all the time we would have sex every day, but he makes them and I get turned off I guess.

2007-06-28 10:30:50 · 17 answers · asked by tiffaney1080 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am really in love with this guy, I love everything about him and that includes his flaws... I want to be with him forever.... but how do I know how much he loves me when he is really shy and has a hard time talking aout his feelings? (I do know that he loves me though, I just don't know how much)
can I tell by his actions, if so, what would be hints?

2007-06-28 10:28:57 · 7 answers · asked by squirrely 3 in Singles & Dating

by looking at my text mess. and call log on my phone. The "other" man and I are just friends and talk on the phone a lot. We no longer sleep together(its been 10 months since the last time) or see eachother much but there still is some physical attraction there and it shows in the texts. Now my husband is constantly asking me if I talked to this man. I say no but he doesn't believe me. I am still talking to him. My husband is always looking over my shoulder. I can't use the computer or cell phone in his presence because he gets suspicious. I love my husband but he refuses to take any responsibiilty for this. marriage is a two-way street and our 15 year marriage has not been good. I am not in love with this other man but we have become great friends in the past year and a half. We are both married with children. What should I do? Separate? work it out?

2007-06-28 10:27:00 · 54 answers · asked by R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Husband A who tries to constantly makes his wife happy by doing house work, taking her out to romantic dinners and tryies to comply to everything his wife says
OR
Husband B who does his own thing and is willing to share his happiness, but doesn't need his wife's approval.

So which is going to get more sex the wimp or the real man?

2007-06-28 10:21:58 · 7 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i make this guy notice me... im not ugle i thik im avrage but some of my freinds think im not super pritty but think im pritty... i dress like a tomboy and i dress like a skater/ prep... i do a lot of sports and so does he.... im a gymnast, commpetiteve swimmer, speed skater, skater, and soccer. he plays soccer and he is really HOT. people say we make a cute couple.. what should i do to make him notice me and make him want to go out with me? what am i doing wrong ? im being myself...

2007-06-28 10:18:18 · 13 answers · asked by iloveyou<3 2 in Singles & Dating

to a girl I really like.It has to be a letter because she is really shy and quite a hard person.How can I tell her that I love her without sounding too obvious.What can I say in the letter.Please help.Thanks

2007-06-28 10:17:34 · 13 answers · asked by Bixby07 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf since i met him raised his daughter, congrats in all but she is now 6yrs. he allows her to sleep w/ the two of us, im preg. so i prefer sleeping naked, he sleeps w/ boxers and spoons her literally, seem cute yet? well i think this is sick and getting out of hand, as he takes her a shower as well, right a man!! ihave a 6yr old son from prev., and he does not sleep w/ me and he is now taught to take his own showers/bath, i feel like he need to allow her sleep in her own bedRm and allow me to step in as her new mother figure and teach her some independence, this matter is ruining my adult space at night, including sex life, it's making me feel weird to wake up and see my man at the other end of the bed cuddling w/ a little girl when he should be carressing me. am i jealous? or concerned? i love both him and his little girl that's why i never interupted this, but how do i confront this weird behavior w/ out seeming like im trying to "ruin" the father/daughter relationship?

2007-06-28 10:16:26 · 33 answers · asked by KAT 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a boy friends and we have made out but im only 11. is that too young??? Am i too young to date him??? SHould i wiat to date??? What age???

2007-06-28 10:16:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what can i do to want me more in bed he says he doesnt know why things changed and that hes not bored and doesnt think im ugly or bad in bed i know he isnt cheating bc i know where he is all the time i just dont understand he doesnt answer me except with i dont know and just gets kind of like why do u keep asking me

how do i make him feel insecure and not sexy

old story
Dating guy for a year sex dying down dramaticly?
Ive been dating this boy for a year and the sex has died down dramactily he use to want it all the time and now never starts it i always have to ask. we still have it but now its way shorter then it used to be way less and i always have to start it. and i know hes a very sexual person were going to move in together and im almost positive hes not cheating but when i ask i never get a straight answer



i try to spice it up and do everything but he doesnt seem to make him want me anymore

2007-06-28 10:12:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and this guy have had sex twice. the first time we used a condom, i was paranoid and he even let me feel to make sure it was on, and it was. the second time we started out with the condom and i was in a lot of pain so he suggested and asked me if i wanted to take the condom off, i said yes, and i am not pregnant i got tested. once the condom was off, it really felt a lot better.

do you think he wanted to take off the condom for his satisfaction? if it was for his satisfaction, why would he have used one in the first place, or even the first time?

2007-06-28 10:09:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for like almost two weeks now and he already started to touch my butt. How do i tell him to lay of a little?

2007-06-28 10:06:20 · 19 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife been married for 21 yrs with 4 kids, we had major great fight last week, and she and her family decided to divorce, till now my wife she did not insist on the divorce and she keep coming to me from time to time to drink coffee and eat together! But she never open the topic and divorce neither I. I’m really wondering if she change her mind? Because we love each other and daily we make love?

2007-06-28 10:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been divorced now for 8 years. I have two kids with my ex. I am remarried as of 2 years now. Me and my ex are not on what you could say are the best of terms. But mostly because of her. She is very unwilling to be sociable and keeps tension between us by doing things that disrupted our relationship. For example I have asked that she not take the kids to feed them dinner on days (in Curtin circumstances) because I had dinner planes with the kids already planed. She refuses to get along in many cases. My wife now in the beginning tried very hard to become friendly with her and talk to her for the benefit of the kids. To be friends. Only to get stabbed in the back by the ex and have the ex tell the kids lies and try her best to turn them against my wife. My father and Step mom who are a big part of the kid’s life when it is convenient for them will not stop associating with my ex. It would be different if the ex and I got along. But we don’t. So this hurts my wife’s fillings a lot of times because my wife will try to be part of our family and talk to my parents and do things with them only to hear about the ex. My parents just don’t get it. I have tried talking to them and they always say “we don’t talk to her that much”. They also say “we just want to see the kids, and we know you don’t have them very much and don’t want to take that time away from you”. My filling on this is they should try more to see them when I have them and be more a part of there lives when I have them. Make my wife fill like she is more a part of the family and not the ex. Any advice on this? How do I get my parents to understand what they are doing to my family and life I am trying to rebuild and make stable for my kids who have been through enough in a nasty relationship between me and there mother.

2007-06-28 10:05:08 · 9 answers · asked by Bubba C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for 6 months but he has given me extravagant gifts and paid many things of mine that I could not pay for at the time. I want to do something very special for him but I really don't even know where to start..

2007-06-28 10:01:43 · 15 answers · asked by Bella 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't like cookies, so no comment from me.

2007-06-28 10:01:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my parents have divorced since i am two, and all they do is fight.
this past year the fightting has effected me so much that i have started to become very angry, and upset. i try to tell them, but all they do is talk bad about the other parent.
i am always in the middle. and all my relationships with anyone are going down hill becuase of their example.. waht do i do?

2007-06-28 09:58:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just to add, my fiance' and I are both on limited budgets.

2007-06-28 09:58:07 · 25 answers · asked by Betty L 1 in Weddings

i mean, we all know how it works out. but does it ever really happen??

2007-06-28 09:57:38 · 22 answers · asked by isha_lvr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-28 09:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't think my boyfriends loves me anymore and I need to laugh. Someone help!

2007-06-28 09:57:20 · 9 answers · asked by SAD SALLY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-28 09:56:52 · 7 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

The church that we are getting married in is very old. I love everything about it except the alter. I honestly do not like anything about the alter and we are not able to move or change anything. The think that bothers me most is the Jesus picture that is in the background. I do not have a problem with Jesus, so dont get on me about that, I just do not want him in my pictures. I need some help with decorating. How can I make this beautiful? We are also not able to remove or cover it up.

Alter:
http://i207.photobucket.com/albums/bb200/anna_sfa/Church009.jpg

Here is a picture of the church and the pews:
http://i207.photobucket.com/albums/bb200/anna_sfa/Church002.jpg

http://i207.photobucket.com/albums/bb200/anna_sfa/Church010.jpg

Any suggestions in decorating the rest of the church is welcomed too. My colors are White and Black with hints of Red.

2007-06-28 09:56:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Married to a highly successful man who cheated on me with his employee. She's gone but within last 6 months he's lost company, homes, cars and now me. I have tried to handle it all, but I am so hurt and angry. We have a 3year old. I have told my husband that I hate him and that I wished I could never see him again (not around the child of course!) the house we are in now will soon go and he has made no real plans on where we would go but bought land to build on, for us. Yesterday I found a place for me and our child. I cry and am deeply hurt. I don't want to go, but I know I can't be with him until I get rid of my anger and could possibly entertain giving him my life again. I think he is just so depressed and convinced I hate him he doesn't even think there is a future. I think distancing myself is the right thing. I don't want to be a doormat, but I also fear I am ending any chance of repairing this mess and being with him on the right terms. We've been together 12 years. Is it over?

2007-06-28 09:54:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok...there is this girl that i really like, and I have told her. She said she cares for me too...but just wants to remain friends, and if anything comes out of it then so be it. The thing is that two years ago I was on the verge of asking her out, and I talked to her best friend about it, and she said that if i did ask her she would say no...I asked why and she said that she would say no because she knew that there was someone else that liked me....Turns out that it was her best friend that liked me...so instead of facing rejection...i went out with her best friend....few months later i broke up with her cause it was getting too serious...a little while after that i asked this girl that i liked that if i had actually asked her out..what she would've said...and she said that she would've said yes cause she liked me then..but after seeing me go out with her friend, she moved on....now they are not friends anymore, and me and this girl i like are good friends...WHAT DO I DO???

2007-06-28 09:54:07 · 23 answers · asked by j_dog 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-28 09:53:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just dont get it how you can allow someone to put there hands on your partner. i think if he or she wants this then they are not happy with you in bed!!!

2007-06-28 09:51:09 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We were together for a year and a half then we broke - badly. That was almost two years ago. Ten months ago she got married to someone else. In the last weeks we started emailing each other and chatting on msn and now we are speaking on the phone. She says shè s still in love with me, that nothing`s the same without me yak yak. I keep on asking her to meet me, to talk all this in person, but she wont agree. I thought I was over her, but now Im sooo confused. What should I do????

2007-06-28 09:45:11 · 11 answers · asked by X 3 in Singles & Dating

After some argument and I tend to be leaving him for some days so as we both relax ... he thought I was leaving him forever, he said "I can't bear you leaving me, I am not used to beg before but for you I will... I am begging you to stay, I am so in love with you." Does it make him desperate or so true lover or what exactly? Can he be so sincere and so passionate man?

2007-06-28 09:44:40 · 2 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-28 09:44:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What Compliments do Men like to hear from there spouse or girlfriend? And Females what compliment do you like to hear from your husband or boyfriend? Please do not make a list out just one sentence or phrase, that put a smile on your face or shows that he/she really cares for you.

2007-06-28 09:43:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce