Ok...there is this girl that i really like, and I have told her. She said she cares for me too...but just wants to remain friends, and if anything comes out of it then so be it. The thing is that two years ago I was on the verge of asking her out, and I talked to her best friend about it, and she said that if i did ask her she would say no...I asked why and she said that she would say no because she knew that there was someone else that liked me....Turns out that it was her best friend that liked me...so instead of facing rejection...i went out with her best friend....few months later i broke up with her cause it was getting too serious...a little while after that i asked this girl that i liked that if i had actually asked her out..what she would've said...and she said that she would've said yes cause she liked me then..but after seeing me go out with her friend, she moved on....now they are not friends anymore, and me and this girl i like are good friends...WHAT DO I DO???
2007-06-28 09:54:07 · 23 answers · asked by j_dog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm going to say something and you better remember it for the rest of your life. NEVER EVER ask the girls friends if you should ask them out. They will lie to you if they like you and sometimes they'll lie to you because they don't want the girl to have a bf. You need to listen to your heart and not ask her friends.
Right now I think it would be wise if you told the girl that you like why you went out with her friend. Tell her it was because she lied to you and said you'd never go out with me and that you still love her and want to date her.
Hopefully this helps.
2007-06-28 10:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by LUST 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out...take her to lunch, go to the movies. Let her know that friends do hang out sometime and make sure not to express ANY romantic ideas etc when you are around her. Like she said, give it time and see if anything comes of it. Good luck...
2007-06-28 16:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by gracie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow long story everything is fine but i think the one who liekd u and u asked out first was using u cause she wanted to get to you first. Btu you now do you want to be firneds with the one who asked you out first casue if you dont stop worrying i am not even sure what the overall question was but you will be fine and girls can come later you can stick to your firneds and school and having fun not girls!!!
Love you and PEACE
2007-06-28 16:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. If she rejects you don't just run continue to be her friend maybe she will give in at a later time, but don't keep asking her.
2007-06-28 17:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by SOTO007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry man but the worst words words a man can hear are lets just remain friends so go out find someone else and maybe that will make her jelous and relize she wants to be with you pretty much let her go if she comes back to you then it was meant to be
2007-06-28 16:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jesica C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant do anything butmove on, and be a big person. You cant spend time dwelling on old relationships. If you have huge feelings for her you might want to be face to face and tell her how much you care about her, but if she doent like you, theres nothing you can do.
2007-06-28 16:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're done, son. The dreaded roommate switch...watch Seinfeld to understand the seriousness of your situation.
You made your choice, and now you lose out. Time to move on to new pasture and stop trying to date within the same circle of friends.
2007-06-28 16:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by chuckna21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk to her more and try to hang out with her ask her to the movies on a group thing and then later on ask her out after she has enjoyed spending time with u
2007-06-28 16:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to here. talk to them both and try to convince them to meet and talk. let them know what you think and find out what they think. if they won't meet, plan it so they can meet, talk and resolve the problems they have.
and if you're still good friends and you like her, why not give it a shot and ask her out? it could end up happily ever after.
good luck =)
2007-06-28 16:57:58 · answer #9 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell by your reply that you're too young. Don't worry about it. You have your whole life ahead to bang chicks. Someday you will be old and married to some fat cow. Go have fun.
2007-06-28 16:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by whoatedpies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋