Family & Relationships - 28 June 2007

I have been holding on to my virginity and saving it for a loving, committed relationship with a woman who shares the same feelings for me as I do for her. I wouldn't care if she wasn't a virgin, but I have high standards for myself. Unfortunately, I have never been fortunate enough to have been involved in such a relationship with a woman. I've dated off and on over the years, but without any luck. I'm not ugly or disfigured or anything like that, I'm average looking, tall, slim, I am healthy, and I exercise often. I live alone in an apartment, and I can function, cook clean, and care for myself just fine. IThe big issue is that I'll be turning 36 in August, and I am still a virgin. Sometimes I feel like I have cheated myself by continuing to do what I've felt in my heart was the 'right' thing to do. I feel like I am really, really not normal being as old as I am, and still as much a virgin as I was when I was born. Any thoughts?

2007-06-28 12:56:28 · 13 answers · asked by CAMERON S 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-28 12:55:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I started dating a guy about a month ago. Things were going so well! We'd see each other 2-3 times a week, he'd talk about taking me on a road trip, or play guitar and sing to me, and said so many sweet things. He had me come over and hang out with his friends, you name it. All signs pointed towards the start of a relationship.

Then I mentioned the word "relationship". He hasn't called me or returned a message I wrote him a few days ago. In the message, I admitted that I might have rushed him, and that I didn't mean to, but it had felt right at the time. I let him know that I just look forward to us getting to know one another better, because I think he's a great guy. I said "You could be a player, but I don't get that feeling from you".

And he still won't respond. Why would he have gone from hot to cold, in an instant? I am thoroughly confused and hurt a bit.
What can I do now to repair this relationship, and let him know I never meant to rush him?

Thanks everyone!

2007-06-28 12:52:28 · 8 answers · asked by confused4589 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm very frustrated. My husband dont know how to please me during sex. I tried to talk with him, but he dont improve, i think it is because he doesent pay attention to my needs. I guess that he (and many men) only thinks about pleasing themselves, without caring about their partners. i need an opinion bcz i'm getting very frustrated about it. I need sex in my life, and i dont want to cheat him or leave him because of that, but i dont see other option. Plz give me an opinion.

2007-06-28 12:51:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to get revenge on a guy who used me. I did stuff with him and I liked him then but then his sister told me he just used me and I want to make him pay...really bad! Any suggestions?

2007-06-28 12:51:36 · 24 answers · asked by attica 1 in Singles & Dating

my dad is mad at me for some stupid reason and he called and cussed me out over it. I called my mom crying (they are divorced) and now she's mad at him. I believe my step mother is evil. My grandmother (dad's mom) raised me and always told me family takes care of family and as long as she had a place to live, so would I. Well, that all turned out to be a lie. Since my dad and I haven't talked in a month, she's become very distant too and we were very close. Now my husband, our son and I are being evicted from our apt. and I asked her if we could stay with her for a couple weeks til we found a place. She said no. I was devestated. If it were just me and my son I believe she would've said yes. My entire family hates my husband and they have no reason too. I've been told he isn't even welcome at Christmas! Therefore I won't be going this year either. I'm just heartbroken. I thought I had a close knit family and now I never want to talk to them again. What do you think?

2007-06-28 12:51:26 · 7 answers · asked by Brandy 3 in Family

Why do people think that abortion is right if you have laid down with someone you cared for or even just laid down with someone. If your responsabel enough to drop your paints then you should be responsibel for the consiquence that comes with sex its so wrong to kill a baby because you decided that you didn't want to do the rite thing theres always adobtion and help out there.
If your raped or millested then there is a good reason.

2007-06-28 12:50:34 · 26 answers · asked by James E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone said the photo made me look scary (im not a scary person...) Someone els said it looked beautifull.

WHICH ONE IS IT??? can scary also be pretty? isnt that a little redundant? what do you think?

http://i182.photobucket.com/albums/x50/Blahboredom123/meghostlike.jpg

2007-06-28 12:50:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf is always constantly coming up with really cute surprises and I want to do the same for her, but I have no idea what to do. I don't wanna sound cheap but I need something where it doesnt cost much yet special and creative. Got any ideas please let me know. thank you sooo much!

2007-06-28 12:47:56 · 4 answers · asked by LoveStruckBoy18 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been dating for a while now and currently live together. I recently completed graduate school and am working on getting myself established. My bf is a senior in college and will be graduating in May.

I am a few years older than him (I'm 28 and he's 25) and while I'm not ready to get married tomorrow, I do want to get married within the next 3-4 years. We've talked about marriage and he has told me he wants us to get married but school comes first before anything. He wants to get himself established first before marriage.

I realize that it will take him a while to get situated after graduation and I am trying to decide whether I should wait for him or not. Should I wait for him?

2007-06-28 12:45:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause i dont know any

2007-06-28 12:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by silvia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is causal sex for a women such a taboo, but such a norm for a man? I don’t personally have causal sex because I have a long term relationship, but I don’t personally feel it should be something women should be judged upon so harshly and men so indifferently. My boyfriend said that he wouldn’t want a long-term relationship with a girl who had been ‘ around the block’, why do men think that girls who have been ‘ around the block’ are not good enough for long-term relationships?

2007-06-28 12:36:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have lived with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. He has a 4 year old son who is only with us part time, but the son seems to be exhibiting some emotional problems. Huge tantrums for hours, kicking, hitting etc and moody when not throwing tantrums. My boyfriend sometimes tries to put the responsibility on me because he can't deal. Mind you he's a good dad otherwise. Plus, I really like the kid and he likes me. I do love my boyfriend, but someone I know who I trust told me that I'm young and should really reevaluate my situation and move out. I am very frustated, tired and overwhelmed. I am new at this so, forgeive me parents. I'm just being honest and want what's best for all.

2007-06-28 12:27:17 · 13 answers · asked by OurLadyOf Perpetual Indulgence 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there is the love...yet he cannot rush to a divorce (and you understand that).

1. suffer it, give him hell, and maintain that relationship? how long would you give him?
2. stay away from him, and suffer....really really suffer.
3. move to another place, another planet would be preferable.

2007-06-28 12:26:05 · 25 answers · asked by thuy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-28 12:19:12 · 10 answers · asked by britney g 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine has been a very loving upbringing with parents who put their children first!

2007-06-28 12:12:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my name is sarah
I am but three,
My eyes are swollen
I cannot see,
I must be stupid
I must be bad,
What else could have made
My daddy so mad?
I wish I were better
I wish I weren't ugly,
Then maybe my mommy
Would still want to hug me.
I can't speak at all
I can't do a wrong
Or else I'm locked up
All the day long
When I awake I'm all alone
The house is dark
My folks aren't home.
When my mommy does come
I'll try and be nice,
So maybe I'll get just
One whipping tonight
Don't make a sound!
I just heard a car
My daddy is back
From Charlie's Bar.
I hear him curse
My name he calls
I press myself
Against the wall.
I try and hide
From his evil eyes
I'm so afraid now
I'm starting to cry.
He finds me weeping
He shouts ugly words,
He says its my fault
That he suffers at work.
He slaps me and hits me
And yells at me more,
I finally get free
And I run for the door.
He's already locked it
And I start to bawl,
He takes me and throws me
Against the hard wall.
I fall to the floor
With my bones nearly broken,
And my daddy continues
With more bad words spoken.
"I'm sorry!", I scream
But its now much too late
His face has been twisted
Into unimaginable hate.
The hurt and the pain
Again and again
Oh please God, have mercy!
Oh please let it end!
And he finally stops
And heads for the door,
While I lay there motionless
Sprawled on the floor.
My name is Sarah
And I am but three,
Tonight my daddy
Murdered me.

There was once alittle girl named Chelsey Mcaun. She was killed in1933, by a homicidal maniac who buried her alive while chanting a satanic chant.Those were the words spoken

2007-06-28 12:07:45 · 10 answers · asked by araya11saphire 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-28 12:06:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf broke up wit me last monday ,we had so much plans toghter ,we were gonna get married and everything ,we've been fighting alot due to the breakup, i called him like 4 days after but he told me he didnt want anything to do with me anymore and he changed his cell # so i couldnt get in contact with him...anyways the next day i found out im pregnant ,i called his job to tell him but he doesnt want anything to do with me...should i keep the baby knowing he probally wont be there in the future or just have an abortion?? im only 25 and im tired of the rollercoster ride i had with him....

2007-06-28 12:05:16 · 27 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married to my husband for 5 years, in the begining we were inseprateable, but we both ended up getting strung out on drugs and going to jail. While I was in jail, I had alot of time to think, and I was not happy with myself for the things that I had done, well when I got out, I started living with my husbands sister and brother, and I was depressed...and before I knew it I was using meth with his brother and ended up sleeping with his brother. Well me and my husband broke up and I went to rehab and got clean and started to move on with my life when my husband wrote me from prison, said he had forgiven me and wanted to work our marriage out....welll we did get back together, and for the last five years it hasnt been the same between us...and I do take the blame for most of it...but I thought when you forgave someone, you put it behind you and pushed on...wellleverytime we fight he brings it up, we dont make love but like once every two months and there is zero affection be

2007-06-28 12:04:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-28 12:03:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I seriously need specific answers on how to deal with the seating at the ceremony.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070627153226AAGPrmd&r=w

2007-06-28 12:00:10 · 9 answers · asked by abfabmom1 7 in Weddings

sorry. I want to make her feel better. She's a very though lady when it comes to making her feel better. Is there some gesture perhaps...that will say it all?

2007-06-28 11:55:08 · 10 answers · asked by Hmmm? 2 in Family

2007-06-28 11:54:00 · 6 answers · asked by kimberly k 5 in Singles & Dating

i am capable of taking care of myself, would never depend on a man for his money, yet men seem to love the golddigger type bitches. what gives?

2007-06-28 11:53:58 · 15 answers · asked by mon6ica8 1 in Singles & Dating

She is only turning 13. every little thing annoys her, plus she brags a lot, what should i do, other then just ignoring it, it does not work.

2007-06-28 11:51:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do you use it loosely or do you reserve these words for someone special? do you mean it when you say it? why or why not?

2007-06-28 11:48:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont like my stepdad I always look forward to seeing my dad.Iwant to move to my dads house but my bro already did and my mom will not talk to him.what should i do?

2007-06-28 11:47:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have alot of anger,especially at work lately,because people are trying to mess with my head and i'm being treated like crap just because i'm a cleaner. I got humiliated at work today(and laughed at) but had to bite my tongue and remain calm even though it was eating away at me. Work really got me down today,how do i face tomorrow when i'm so worked up inside?how should i act?i find it hard to control myself?

2007-06-28 11:47:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i already sent an apology letter...anything else? i feel realli bad about it..is thr anyway to stop a letter once its been sent?

2007-06-28 11:45:05 · 7 answers · asked by atg143 2 in Other - Family & Relationships