I seriously need specific answers on how to deal with the seating at the ceremony.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070627153226AAGPrmd&r=w
2007-06-28
12:00:10
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abfabmom1
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Family & Relationships
➔ Weddings
It's a wedding ceremony, which is why it's posted in the Weddings section.
Also, the link I included provided a very specific list of questions I have about seating. I'd appreciate any help anyone can offer.
Feel free to not post your non-answer.
2007-06-28
12:05:32 ·
update #1
Okay, so for those of you who don't want to follow the link, here's the rest of the question:
Okay, so how does this work? Whose family sits on what side? Is there a particular order to which family members get seated first? Obviously the parents of the bride & groom get front row seats, but what do we do with aunts & uncles? Do we need to assign seats and tell the ushers where each person goes, or do we let them use their best judgment (what if they're only 16?). How will the ushers know who is family and who are friends, if not everyone in the family will be wearing corsages or boutonnières?
It won't be a church wedding, but instead in a garden, with individual seats, as opposed to benches or pews.
What if the first two rows are not enough, or too much, for the family that's there? How do we decide who belongs in the first two rows?
Oh, another question I just thought of...how do we deal with the parents of the groom, who are divorced and not friendly
2007-06-28
12:08:34 ·
update #2
Good golly, people...why is it so hard to just get someone to answer the question directly?
The ushers have never been ushers before...It will be my job to teach them how to handle this. Unfortunately, I don't have the knowledge, which is what I'm trying to gain here.
Seriously, I need specific answers about who goes where...Pretty please with sugar on top!
2007-06-28
12:10:02 ·
update #3
Look, I'm not trying to get bitchy...But I will say that I'm quite frustrated that no one can give me anything specific. I have been very detailed in laying out the information I'm trying to get, and no one yet has been able to answer any of these. I don't get why no one can simply answer the question...Everyone keeps saying "don't worry about it"...I'm trying not to, but it would be much easier if I knew how to do it appropriately!!
Please don't say "brides on the left, grooms on the right, reserve the first two rows for family"...Please, please, please, can someone please just look at the details of the question and give me some reasonable advice?
2007-06-28
12:20:48 ·
update #4
One more question about the divorced parents of the groom...Do I seat them together, or do I let them have their dates sit in between?
2007-06-28
12:23:03 ·
update #5