Family & Relationships - 28 June 2007

I live on my own, & I'm 23. & my family members hate me. & for no reason, they've done this to me & my twin sister. They come to our house uninvited & unexpected & tell us what to do in our own house & then leave. Ex. they might tell us to clean out the refrigerator or make us do a hard task such as scrub the walls & then just leave the house-for NO reason at all. & then you don't hear from them in 2 or 3 months.

2007-06-28 15:51:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I overheard her once telling people that she and I were "close". She jokingly told me that she would go around and tell people that I'm her boyfriend. Another time, while on the phone with her brother, she again joked that she was "with her boyfriend".

I guess to a third person's perspective and my description, this means she wants to date me... however, I'm second-guessing myself because I'm not all that much to look at, and she has a tendency to be a overly friendly to everyone - including single guys that she has no intention of dating.

In a round-about way, I guess I'm wondering, if any girls out there have ever joked around like this and not meant much by it.

Thanks in advance for replies.

2007-06-28 15:41:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-28 15:39:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so I have been going out with this guy for 2 months. I stay at his house every night... we are never away from each other. He knew my birthday was yesterday. I spent the whole day at his house just sitting there. I was hungry and asked him if he wanted to get something to eat. he said " do you have money" and I always pay and I said yeah. I mean like no card , no i don't have the mony right now I get u something over the weekend. nothing. He even fell asleep when I was there yesterday. never has he taken me out to eat, to the movies, he can go to bars sometimes and spend money on drinks but not take me out. he had a bunch of change and couldn't even buy a card. . I makes me so upset. what do I do my boyfrind is 22 lives at home has a little girl.. Im 19. and i stay there all the time and he never introduced me to his family but I stay there any way and like 6 people live in his dads house. I stay in his room all the time .. but I feel like ha doesn't care. please help me out!

2007-06-28 15:39:35 · 11 answers · asked by jennifer e 1 in Family

About 4-5 months ago, My wife told me she lost her sex drive and has not wanted it since. I feel like I am going to explode or go insane. Is there anything I can do to get her sex drive back? She wont take any medicine and wont go to the doctor and I simply dont know what to do anymore. I still love her, but is this grounds for divorce? She has given me permission to get it from someone else, but I dont want that. What should I do?

2007-06-28 15:39:25 · 24 answers · asked by Brian S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Also, how long after the destination wedding occurrs is it appropriate to have a ceremony(informal party) at home for all the guests that couldn't make it.

2007-06-28 15:38:35 · 12 answers · asked by krista359 1 in Weddings

I had an interview today at a podiatrist office and I found it in the newpaper. Well it says you can apply 3 days- tues, thurs, or fri.
I applied the first chance which was tuesday. I got called for an interview and went today. I felt so nervous and it definitely showed I KNOW!! its so embarassing and i feel like i cant talk and give the right answer .. its like being put on the spot for me and I am just not good with that. Well anyway, i am going to school for x-ray and i told them that and she said that sometimes i might have to help give patients x-rays!! i mean thats so cool and thats what i am going to school for and it would be nice if i got the job but i just feel like i totally bombed it! I know i wasnt confident as much as i should have been but i smiled and tried the best i could at answering her questions. I feel like there will be someone else they like better b/c they showed more confidence and were not nervous.But I feel like I might have the skills of xray.

2007-06-28 15:34:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what makes you sexy?

2007-06-28 15:32:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you don't think your best friend would buy you anything, you can say that too.

2007-06-28 15:32:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Let me start out, I suck at picking men! When I was in high school I had an absolutely wonderful boyfriend die. After that, it went down hill fast. I started dating a guy just because he was dangerous and decided I needed a baby from this guy, got pregnant and dumped him because I didn't want drugs and partying around my child. (guy has yet to grow up 10 yrs later!) 2 yrs before I even tried to date then started dating an aqaintance from high school who seemed wonderful. I got pregnant before we got married and only married him because I didn't want to be alone. We ended up with 2 children together. He ended up being physically and mentally abusive, too long of a story but we are divorced. So then I met my current boyfriend. He was Mr. Wonderful, but married. He got divorced, we have been together 6 years and have two sons. Now he treats me like crap, untrusting, unsensitive, inconsiderate, just completely different than he used to be. Do I try to find a better man or just deal?

2007-06-28 15:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by chieffanz4life 2 in Singles & Dating

he put me on his top friends on his facebook. we have dated a couple 3 times and broke up. his feelings might chage after he comes back from camp at the end of summer. I'm not sure if I should put him on my top freinds or leave him, will that show him that i still care about him if I put him on my top friends. will he get a different idea if I leave him off my top friends and he keeps me on his top friends.

2007-06-28 15:21:13 · 4 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

Connecting with Your Kids: Strategies for Tough Conversations
A BIG CHALLENGE 4 PARENTS!

2007-06-28 15:21:06 · 8 answers · asked by ashcass0306 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Call me crazy but I definitely am attracted to guys who are 30 years or older than me. I am not attracted to guys in my age range (17-20) at all. =/

2007-06-28 15:19:05 · 8 answers · asked by Human Nature 2 in Singles & Dating

does he still care about me like if I try and do something or get hurt will he come help me?

2007-06-28 15:17:21 · 12 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

Please exlude from your answers anything not appropriate for a minor. I am only 16. Anything of a sexual nature is not needed. But you can go short or detailed. A list would be nice. Just some examples of what I should do for this guys who I'm flirting with and examples of what I can do for him if we start dating. But guys, what do you want from us. Ladies what do you do for your guy. And please keep it nice, no bashing please

2007-06-28 15:14:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do I do?

2007-06-28 15:13:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 16 and im in a boy scout troop. there is this one boy in my troop who is 11 and is constantly following me around. while we were at sumnmer camp which is a 7 day program, he would take every chance he could to try to sit next to me during meal times or other activities. he would sometimes wait outside the shower for me to come out. during the campfire ceremony he tried to rest his head on my shoulder even thoug his dad was on his other side. one of my piers suggest that he respects me. I dont think it is like that

I cant tell him to just leave me alone because he already knows that generaly, i dont like Rednecks as he is one. though i have no problem with that personaly. but if i did he would think it is 4 that reason. Since this is a scouting enviorment, I cant let that happen without concequence. and i cant use violence.

P.S. He thinks he is real and a "G" but he really is a redneck. he aint that bad of a actor thoug.

2007-06-28 15:10:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Im just curious on other people's opinions.

2007-06-28 15:10:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that the final decision as to whether to have an abortion lies wholly on the woman? The guy will be just as responsible for the child if she decides to have the child and perhaps disappointed if she aborts. Why does the woman have the final say when it took 2 people to conceive that baby.

I'm looking for something other than "it's her body, she does what she wants."

If I'm wrong in my presumptions, let me know.

2007-06-28 15:07:01 · 12 answers · asked by Jared 4 in Marriage & Divorce

and she always has to try to push my button especially when we talk about the peop0le who broke up the family and she makes exuses for them anyways i let her have evenhough iam depress i still have to defend my self my question is how do i continue to be numb towards this and not end up going crazy at the end and how to i stop her from doing that its a sensitive subject also what those people did is un forgive able and muy aunt turns it around on me and makes exuses for them

2007-06-28 15:05:35 · 3 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

guys mostly gurls too

2007-06-28 14:50:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can he argue to get out of child support or lower it from the standard 20% of his pay? And would the courts allow that if he says he can't afford it? By the way, he doesn't want custody and he can afford it. Even after he pays all his bills (and the child support) he would have hundreds(almost 1,000) left for the rest of the month. I make about half of what he makes.

2007-06-28 14:47:48 · 30 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-28 14:47:35 · 27 answers · asked by Nicole B 1 in Singles & Dating

Where is a good place to take a 14 yr. old girl who likes sports and regular girl things on a date in september? Budget: under 75. no mall answers

2007-06-28 14:44:28 · 13 answers · asked by HITCH 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-28 14:42:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, my sister and i constantly have guys askin us to have a 3-sum with them. we are two christian girls and are tired of this question being asked of us. please help us understand why guys keep asking us this!!!!

2007-06-28 14:41:09 · 18 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a nice and funny, pretty much a normal nephew that has a newly wed wife into marriage and two little baby boys from the wife. Maybe about 3 or 4 yrs of marriage with his lovely wife. He commit suicide! I cannot believe a normal person like this, would do this, to himself. He was raise with 2 brothers and 2 sisters in a big family environment. He normally drinks beer and not into drugs, that I may know of. I heard rumors, that he was having problems in his life. The last time, I talk to him on the phone, was that he was busy working and supporting his lovely wife and small kids [family]. I never thought that he would do such a thing, especially being a hardworking family man. I am a hardworking family man, I do get into depression on my extremely bad days, but I never, ever think of suiciding myself, before my wife and lovely kiddos. Now the lovely wife is now a widow. How can this be? WHAT WENT WRONG??? WHAT COULD MADE HIM DO THIS-BY HANGING HIMSELF???

2007-06-28 14:41:09 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We both support each other in everything that we do. We are juniors in high school. We both want the same things in our future. Career wise, we both want to pursue a career in the medical field. We are not in the kind of relationship that we break up every time we get upset with each other. Through out the whole year we have been together we have not broken up once. We talk things out when we get aggravated with each other. My boyfriend says he wants to be with me for the rest of his life. He talks about our future together. I want to know other peoples opinions on what they think about our relationship, and if it is possible for a high school relationship to last.

Thank You.

2007-06-28 14:38:23 · 10 answers · asked by Birdie 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for websites of wedding receptions to get some ideas for colors and decor. Anyone know of any good ones? All the bridal boards...the knot, etc, are no good for that kind of thing. I want to glamourize a small heritage room that only fits around 130 people.

2007-06-28 14:31:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-28 14:27:07 · 16 answers · asked by hottiexoxo5453 1 in Singles & Dating