so I have been going out with this guy for 2 months. I stay at his house every night... we are never away from each other. He knew my birthday was yesterday. I spent the whole day at his house just sitting there. I was hungry and asked him if he wanted to get something to eat. he said " do you have money" and I always pay and I said yeah. I mean like no card , no i don't have the mony right now I get u something over the weekend. nothing. He even fell asleep when I was there yesterday. never has he taken me out to eat, to the movies, he can go to bars sometimes and spend money on drinks but not take me out. he had a bunch of change and couldn't even buy a card. . I makes me so upset. what do I do my boyfrind is 22 lives at home has a little girl.. Im 19. and i stay there all the time and he never introduced me to his family but I stay there any way and like 6 people live in his dads house. I stay in his room all the time .. but I feel like ha doesn't care. please help me out!
2007-06-28 15:39:35 · 11 answers · asked by jennifer e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
dump him! He's an a** plus he has a child already, he sounds as if he's sponging off you for money!
2007-06-28 15:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by thegalfromtrinidad 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are young. There are more guys out there. Now, there is nothing wrong with him living at home (if it is to help his family out or for other good circumtances). However, even though you have only been going out for 2 months, it would have been nice of him to give you a card or do something nice for you for your birthday. He doesn't pay for anything and that is a bad sign too. Dump him. You deserve better. He could make an effort to do something nice for you by paying for dinner or even offering to pay his half. Of course it sounds like he does not do any of that. Like I said, Dump Him. Tell him things just don't seem to be working out and if he asks why, then tell him! Let him have it.
2007-06-28 22:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok what are u still doing with him?? and y r u sleepin in his house if u dont even no his family?? thats not boyfriend material sorr honey but u got urself a dog!! get on with ur life ur better than that for a guy who would rather spend his money at the bar then 2 give u a b-day card..not worth it..
!!Happy belated birthday!!
2007-06-28 22:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by U N0E U LUV DiS ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my advice would be to talk to him about it. just sit him down and say hey all this stuff is kind of bothering me because lets face it boys can be clueless (sorry guys but its true) so he may not even realize that this stuff is bothering you. and if you tell him and nothing changes. im sorry but there are a zillion worthwhile guys out there and you are young and can go out and date and find a guy that does that stuff becuase he may not see the importance in birthdays but let him know that its important for you to have that stuff like birthdays and going out for a date etc or meeting the family but if he doesnt catch on you need to go out there and find a guy that sees the holds that stuff to the same importance
2007-06-28 22:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say LOSER?
Get out now, he is just using you for sex and caring for his kid. He does not care about you and things will only get worse.
Get out while you still have some self worth. Many good guys will bend over backward to be with you.
2007-06-28 22:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I think you can find someone better who will actually make an effort in the relationship.
2007-06-28 22:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by deborah g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this doesnt really sound like a bf-gf relationship, more like a fwb .or brother-sister
2007-06-28 22:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by heartbreakworld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't care...dump him! by the way happy belated birthday...that really sucks, you didn't get anything
2007-06-28 22:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me as though he is just using you. So please take the advice of the majority and leave him.
2007-06-28 22:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey when you see the red flag waving...RUN LIKE HELL!
2007-06-28 22:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by from_me_to_you 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋