Let me start out, I suck at picking men! When I was in high school I had an absolutely wonderful boyfriend die. After that, it went down hill fast. I started dating a guy just because he was dangerous and decided I needed a baby from this guy, got pregnant and dumped him because I didn't want drugs and partying around my child. (guy has yet to grow up 10 yrs later!) 2 yrs before I even tried to date then started dating an aqaintance from high school who seemed wonderful. I got pregnant before we got married and only married him because I didn't want to be alone. We ended up with 2 children together. He ended up being physically and mentally abusive, too long of a story but we are divorced. So then I met my current boyfriend. He was Mr. Wonderful, but married. He got divorced, we have been together 6 years and have two sons. Now he treats me like crap, untrusting, unsensitive, inconsiderate, just completely different than he used to be. Do I try to find a better man or just deal?
2007-06-28 15:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by chieffanz4life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
5 kids, 3 men later. I don't just date around. I have always been monogamous and devoted to whoever I'm in a relationship. I know I'm too giving, and let them take take take. Can I trust myself to date anymore or just stay with what I have? I'm extremely scared of picking yet another crappy man.
2007-06-28 15:26:31 · update #1
Oh yeah. Current beau has depression issue and when he's not depressed he is very sweet. But he won't let anyone, not even me help him.
2007-06-28 15:29:23 · update #2
Don't get me wrong. My kids are the only thing that keeps me sane. I love my kids with all my heart and they come first. But they love this man too. And I'm not having anymore kids, tubes tied.
2007-06-28 15:34:32 · update #3
i just want to say maybe it would be best just to be alone for while and find yourself i mean you don't always need a man to be happy just do whats rite for you and ur kids
2007-06-28 15:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to take a break from men. you had enough men in your life, now maybe its time to just forget about men.
on the other hand if your current bf has depression then please ask him to get help from a shrink. that might help things out a bit. if not, then stay away from men for a long long time. you dont need any more kids.
2007-06-28 22:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop dating and jus hang out with your kids (not saying that your not) when the time comes the guy would come to you. Don't go searching just wait.
2007-06-28 22:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got five kids. If you can't find enough love there you are not capable of giving love and they will pay the consequences.
2007-06-28 22:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by Caretaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hunny jues ;you been through crap .i surprised ;your have any energy .to think about making love let alone doing it .move that @SS .out of your life .give yourself a brake ;from us men fore; a while .then give me a shout .you need taking care of .keep your chin up .
2007-06-28 22:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try dating without sex. now there's an idea!
2007-06-28 22:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Lawson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋