I want to get revenge on a guy who used me. I did stuff with him and I liked him then but then his sister told me he just used me and I want to make him pay...really bad! Any suggestions?
2007-06-28 12:51:36 · 24 answers · asked by attica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best revenge is to act like you never let him get under your skin. Be attractive and fun. He'll regret being a jerk to the best girl in town.
2007-06-28 12:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... good question!
Ok, normally, I'd say take the high road and be adult, revenge is never worth it, blah, blah, blah. But, some people have it coming!
Let's see... You don't want to get caught or have it traced to you. If you do whatever it is you decide on right after you broke up, you're going to be Suspect No. 1. So, I'd recommend waiting a couple of months. It'll be worth it.
ALSO... if you wait, you could wait until he's seeing someone else and mess that up or embarrass him. That could be sweet.
Think about some touchy issues with him. Is he homophobic? If he's a jerk, I'm guessing he probably is. If you have a male friend who'd do this for you, you could have him call the guy's parents' house and work, and leave messages for him... "Please have him call Steve... he won't talk to me and I really have something important to tell him! Just let him know that I got my test results back and they're positive, ok? He'll know what you're talking about."
This would work well with his new girlfriend too.
Another issue of contention for men is their penis size. You could call his parents/ girlfriend/ work and say that you're calling from the post office and he has a package to pick up that was damaged in the mail. You could say, "Just tell him that his penis enlarger came and is at the post office... If it doesn't work, he could file a claim."
:)
Remember... WAIT. Let him forget about you and then act.
2007-06-28 13:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, you need to quit that talk and grow up. Im only 15, but ive realized so much, that you cant change people, especially people who dont wanna change. Everyone gets used eventually, idc who you are. Sometimes you have to just step up, have some pride, and deal with it. You know what, I had a crush on a girl, but she only talked to me when she didnt have a b/f. I was her backup guy. You know how that made me feel? It made me feel, yes used. After she finally admitted it, she finally told me the truth, and said maybe if you were'nt such a loser, people would love you. My dad said that before he left me and my mom. The point is, grow up. Your stuck in this little thing called reality, and lets get some things straight.
1: Your not innocent, and neither is ANYONE
2: Maybe your blowing things out of proportion
3: Getting payback NEVER fixes anything, and to make yourself do something to get someone back just drops yourself to being a low person
Sorry that seems kind of hard, but one day you'll realize it, and move one. If I could explain in 3 words about what I learned about life making it to 15 years old; it moves on
2007-06-28 13:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best revenge is doing better without him than with him dont run into him dont call it hurts to have no feelings than no feelings in a few years you might see him in the mall or somewhere and walk right by like hes any joe blow he will see you and you dont even notice its such an ouch ive done it and it feels so good its been 20 years and he still tells people how he screwed up i ran into his sister recently thats how i know or you could smear mollasses on his windshield
2007-06-28 13:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by demberdoo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a very old saying that says, "Living well is the best revenge". Trust me...its very true. To be exceedingly happy and successful is the best slap in the face you can give to somebody. Be apathetic to him. The opposite of love is not hate...its apathy.
2007-06-28 12:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow the hell up and quit trying to extract revenge! What is it really going to solve? Is it gonna turn back time to take back him using you? Just chalk this up to a learning experience and move on.
2007-06-28 12:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Diggity 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Vengence is mine, sayeth the Lord." Never get revenge. It will just come around and bite you in the butt. You just learned a lesson of life. Figure out what you learned and how to appraoch situations better in the future.
2007-06-28 12:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by William D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Revenge is not the answer.Go on with your life.Let him see that you are happy without him.That is the best revenge!
2007-06-28 12:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Gin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure his sister just doesn't like you and doesn't want you to be with her brother? I'd get my facts straight first.
2007-06-28 12:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Just a Dog Chasing Cars 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he has a car...go out and get some paint thinner.
Otherwise, forget that sorry excuse for a guy. You're above him.
2007-06-28 12:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋