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Me and my wife been married for 21 yrs with 4 kids, we had major great fight last week, and she and her family decided to divorce, till now my wife she did not insist on the divorce and she keep coming to me from time to time to drink coffee and eat together! But she never open the topic and divorce neither I. I’m really wondering if she change her mind? Because we love each other and daily we make love?

2007-06-28 10:05:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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She probably will change her mind...but unless you address the problems that would entice her to divorce you will only have this issue come up again. Deal with the problem (perhaps counseling) and work towards a happy marriage.

2007-06-28 10:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

From what you have told us, it sounds like you two have not been living together for some time. If she is coming over for coffee and a meal and sex everyday, then you have some real issues. I don't know how you can say that you two still love each other when you are not together to work out your problems. Every couple has their ups and downs but you don't live seperate lives to fix the problem. If her family is getting involved it's because she has involved them. People can still love each other and not be able to live with each other. Maybe this is the case with you. Talk to her during one of these coffee or meal deals and maybe you can get some answers. Good luck.

2007-06-28 17:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you two are the ones that are married and family should not be involved with the dealings in a very personal marriage they should be a big part of your life but not so much that they can say when and when not to get divorced find out if thats what her family wants or if thats what she wants.

marriage is all about making eachother happy in life and one of you is not making the other happy you need to find out what it is and try to compromise both of you need to be giving 50% not just one giving 100 and the other giving none a marriage is 2 people

2007-06-28 17:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Honey Badger Doesnt give a Shat 5 · 1 0

Is sex the only thing that stops you from fighting?...because it is only a cover up of the underlying problems and issues you have...you need to sit down with your wife and have a serious heart to heart talk about your relations hip and where it is heading, whether on the road to recovery, or on a collision course...communicate with each other.

2007-06-28 18:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Need more info. Your wife and her family will divorce? What does this mean? I do not want to be rude, just want to understand the question.

2007-06-28 17:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ivy_Woman 3 · 1 0

Yes, she wants her marriage; but, not he arguments. YOU TWO NEED TO SEEK COUNSELING ON HOW TO DISAGREE.

TAKE TOO LONG AND HER FAMILY WILL PUSH HER TOWARDS A DIVORCE. GOOD LUCK

2007-06-28 17:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

talk to her about it and see if thats what she really wants if she does then fine if not follow ur heart



good luck

2007-06-28 17:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5 · 1 0

Ask her what her feelings are. NOBODY cares what her family thinks.

2007-06-28 17:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0 0

Is it about a relationship, marriage, or sex? You've got to figure that out.

2007-06-28 17:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by John B 7 · 0 1

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