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to a girl I really like.It has to be a letter because she is really shy and quite a hard person.How can I tell her that I love her without sounding too obvious.What can I say in the letter.Please help.Thanks

2007-06-28 10:17:34 · 13 answers · asked by Bixby07 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

A letter is a nice way to approach someone but it can also be creepy, so dont be too serious in it or it might scare her off. Keep it light and fun. Tell her about yourself, and why you think you two would get along well. Then tell her that you enjoy her personality, looks, etc...flatter her...girls love that. End it with an open invitation to contact you if she feels this would be a good idea. Again, dont be pushy or creepy. And if she doesnt feel the same way, dont freak out, you'll find someone new.

2007-06-28 10:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by kcleighb 3 · 0 0

1Step One
Use classy pen and paper. Somehow, a love letter written with a blue Bic on office stationery bearing the motto “You want it done WHEN?” doesn’t exactly invoke violins and roses. At the very least, roust up some heavy-stock, elegant-looking paper, and if you must use an ordinary pen, choose one with a classy color of ink.

2Step Two
Open with a tender salutation. “Dear Sirs” or “To Whom It May Concern” are businesslike and direct, but they don’t quite set the proper tone of intimacy. Instead, try “my dearest ____” or “my beloved____,” and be sure to get the name of the person right (you’d be surprised how many first-time letter writers flub this small but important detail).
3Step ThreePour out your heart. A love letter isn’t like a high-school essay, with an introduction, expository text, and recapitulation. What you’re aiming for here is an inexhaustible, stream-of-consciousness recitation of the virtues of your beloved, contrasted with your own inimitable shortcomings. As a general rule: the higher the virtue-to-shortcoming ratio, the classier the letter.

4Step Four
Stay focused. If you find yourself running out of material, don’t resort to the dental checkup you had the other day or that guy at work, you know, the really annoying one? Who always plays his radio so loud? And I’ve complained and complained to the boss but I guess no one at this company takes me seriously? Instead, take a break until your romantic fount is replenished and you can get back to that virtue/shortcoming thing.

5Step Five
Close with a tender valediction. As in step #2, the cumulative effect of your heartfelt love letter will be completely negated by a lame “regards,” “sincerely” or “respectfully yours.” Consider something more pungent, such as “if only ‘twere written in blood, your abased servant, on whose unworthy head I bid thee bestow thine blessing,” etc. etc.

6Step Six
Hire a calligrapher. Once you’ve chosen the proper envelope and stamp—again, consult rule #1—consider hiring a master of fruity scripts to inscribe your beloved’s name and address. The handwriting should be fancy enough to make the mailman squint, but not so fancy that your beloved thinks she's received an invitation to a Bar Mitzvah

2007-06-28 10:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by (M)Azing 4 · 0 0

Poetry is always nice in the right context, you don't have to pinch from any other poet, use your own words. Write from the heart, it doesn't have to rhyme. Never create it on you p c or laptop or typewriter. Take your time, write it neatly in nice ink, not Biro. Choose cream coloured quality paper with matching envelope. Write about how you feel about her, tell her you have admired her, compliment her on her beautiful eyes, lips, or smile. Don't go overboard, keep it simple and not too down beat.
Just be honest about yourself and your feelings for her. End your letter..... yours affectionately and DON'T put silly kisses on the letter or envelope, and if you can deliver it by hand with a yellow rose for fidelity.

2007-06-28 10:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if she is shy and yet hard this usually means she has been hurt some where in her life so you need to tread care fully and i also feel writing her her a letter would not be the best idea cause she may think some one is taking the micky you need to get the guts to tell her how you feel but make sure you are alone and not too **** sure

2007-06-28 10:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by licelegs 2 · 0 0

Any time you write a love letter it is going to sound obvious. Start off by telling her what she does that make you think she is so teriffic. Then tell her a bad habit she has that you think is cute. Then end it with I love you.

2007-06-28 10:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by hootie 3 · 1 0

i said this to my gf and we made out for 2 hours, shall i compare thee to a summers day thought are more lovely and temperate your eyes sparkle like a clear river and your breath smells stronger than a field of flowers, so beutiful so lovely, then again my gf is an idiot so im not sure but a hot idiot ;)

2007-06-28 10:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Brian S 2 · 0 0

If you write poetry then you should write a poem like:

Hey miss ive seen you before your the one that ive always adored. with all the days passing us by . . .

>Then you should add the rest to this poem. I kould help you for more if you want. Add more about what you like about he like eyes,hair,her personality.

2007-06-28 10:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

go to the library and look up poems by elizabeth barret browning. then make a collection or buy a collection and give it to her. or just tell her you adore her and think she's smart, witty, funny, is hot and you would love to feed her strawberries and whipped cream.

2007-06-28 10:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

As I write this letter, send my love to you,
Remember that I’ll always be in love with you.
Treasure these few words till we’re together
Keep all my love forever.
PS I love you, you, you, you.
I’ll be coming home again to you love,
Until the day I do love.
PS I love you, you, you, you.
AsI write this letter, send my love to you,
Remember that I’ll always be in love with you.
Treasure these few words till we’re together
Keep all my love forever.
PS I love you, you, you, you.
As I write this letter, send my love to you,
(you know I want to)
Remember that I’ll always be in love with you.
I’ll be coming home again to you love,
Until the day I do love.
PS I love you, you, you, you.
I love you.

2007-06-28 10:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Think about what her personal and physical qualities are and how she makes you feel towards her:
"Your shy demure shows your modesty and makes me want to tell you just how wonderful I think you are."
Is just an example.

2007-06-28 10:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by PrivacyNowPlease! 7 · 0 0

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