We were together for a year and a half then we broke - badly. That was almost two years ago. Ten months ago she got married to someone else. In the last weeks we started emailing each other and chatting on msn and now we are speaking on the phone. She says shè s still in love with me, that nothing`s the same without me yak yak. I keep on asking her to meet me, to talk all this in person, but she wont agree. I thought I was over her, but now Im sooo confused. What should I do????
2007-06-28 09:45:11 · 11 answers · asked by X 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is married buddy so if you are concerned about breaking up her marriage then you need to get out of her life completely. I know that it is hard to have strong feelings for someone that you can not have but it would be wrong to break up her marriage. And if she would happen to cheat on her husband with you do you think she would be capable of then doing that to you? You need to find someone who is free to be completely yours.
2007-06-28 09:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by honestly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This really sounds like it could turn out real bad. Look at it like this, if you two were supposed to be together, then she wouldn't have gone through with the wedding. And if you're still meant to be together, her marriage will end. But I still wouldn't want to cause or be in the middle of a divorce. After all, if you cause a divorce and it doesn't work out between you 2 again, you will have wrecked a marriage for nothing. You need to stop talking to this girl and get over her and let her deal with her marriage.
2007-06-28 10:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by wicky_busstop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave well enough alone. She's married, she won't agree to meeting you, which tells me me either a) she's not that into you or b) she doesn't want to risk her marriage even if she feels something for you. Married people make vows about standing by each other through happy moments and the rough patches in between. Does her husband even know you guys are talking like you do? I doubt it. Do yourself a favor. If she somehow feels she made a mistake, let her deal with it (it's her problem) but please don't let her pull you into her own mess. You should not be talking to your ex - she's married, she decided to move on. You should too.
2007-06-28 09:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jessie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
end the conversation, end the contacting over emails..Remember she's married and also that she claims that she still loves you but remember how you relationship ended. Beside how would you feel if you were married to someone that was having this emotional affair behind your back. Marriage is serious no one should ever destroy it just because they happened to met someone from their past. walk away you can do so much better.
2007-06-28 09:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by karolyne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's how you really feel you should express your feelings to her. This might be your special "someone"!! Tell her how you feel and you never know what might happen. But you should also take into consideration that she is married and respect that. And if that doesn't work you'll just have to move on and I'm sure she will be missing out on a good thing.
2007-06-28 09:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Br33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even get in the middle of this. It will turn out badly. She is married..off limits. Find someone who really loves you. I promise the girl for you is out there, just be patient.
2007-06-28 09:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by ..ash.. 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
X Break off contact ! Eternal hell is the price you will pay for sex or wooing a married woman away from her mate ! Honest !
2007-06-28 09:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's married, and you do NOT deserve to be the third wheel, definatley move on and find someone who will appreciate you and your feelings.
2007-06-28 09:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by ashley b 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
nothing if she loves you shed divoice the guy shes married to and come to you its her choice not urs
2007-06-28 09:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by VaporeonThePenguin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't your decision. She needs to decide if she wants her husband or you.
2007-06-28 09:47:57 · answer #10 · answered by bradbury 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋