What do I do? I NEED HELP!!!!?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been going out for like almost two weeks now and he already started to touch my butt. How do i tell him to lay of a little?

Answer 1

say "lay off a little"

You need to be straight with him, let him know what him being "your boyfriend" means to you. Put it in his court if he wants to play by your rules. Likewise, you should ask him what you being "his girlfriend" means. If it's just an attempt of physical pleasure, then do what you will with the scenario - keep in mind that the majority of men view relationships differently than women - so find a middle ground that acceptable for both.

Just realize that the relationship is too new to be "love" and accept that and embrace that. Love should grow - you don't want to be one of those "he mistreats me, but I love him...what do I do" sorta people.

Answer 2

Say it, get your hands off my ***. But in retrospect, well I don't know how old you are. You should include that but if you are like 17, that's pretty innocent. But if you aren't ready, definitely need to tell them. He should cool it. If he complains, he's an ***. And if he threatens you about needs or **** like that, you have to dump him. Those guys are worth crap. Trust me. They are bottom feeders. And later he will push you into having sex, which if you aren't ready to have your butt touched you obviously aren't ready for sex. You need someone who respects you at all time, and you are always comfortable with. If you let him have his way, you will never be happy. And in the end you will end up suffering and feeling unhappy, and then break up.

Answer 3

Tell him the other parts of you that you like touched instead. You are not a piece of property. Sheesh, have the boy show some respect.

Answer 4

honesty is the best thing. Tell him st8 out that u dont feel comfortable with him touching you like this. Because if you want a serious relationship, then you have to be able to tell each other everything and be honest about your feelings.

Answer 5

Two weeks and all he gets is a butt touch? Maybe you should have a discussion about acceptable behavior in romance. I think a little physical contact should be allowed in a relationship?

Answer 6

well touching your butt isnt a bad thing or even a big deal. i would probably tell him that you want to take the relationship slow and not get too serious too quickly. it shouldnt bother you but if it does, let him know sweetie!

good luck =)

Answer 7

If you really like him, tell him nicely that you dont feel comfortable with it.
If he likes you as much as you like him, he will lay off.

Every relationship has RESPECT.
If he continues to touch your butt after you have asked him not to, that is LACK of RESPECT.
The only thing left for you to do is DUMP him.

Answer 8

Not only is he disrespecting you, but he's testing you to see just what you will tolerate. Make it clear that you don't appreciate being treated like his property.

by the way, does he do this to show off in front of his friends? If so, dump him now. he's a creep.

Answer 9

tell him u r uncomfortable with that next time he tries that. if he really likes u, he would understand, and deffinatly lay off. just remember though, in the bible it says to save sex for marrige. follow gods rules. k? and be careful. i wish u lots of luck! :)

Answer 10

look him staright in the face and look in his eyes and then look at his ear lobs so then tell him just wait tell you are ready to do that then look into his eyes and if he breaks up with you he was a jurk so then if he understands he is a nice guy that any girl would be lucky to have