the reason why i say this is because, a girl falls in love to fast ,than a guy.guys tend not to take it serios.why is that
2007-06-28 11:40:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's cuz you're mistaking love with lust. something about the person you "fall in love with" attracts you and you think it is real love but it isn't.
2007-06-28 11:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
more and more lately it is more common to see that the guys that are getting more women to even talk with them are the ones that can care less about women. Then it goes without saying that those guys always seem to have a girlfriend. I am the type of guy that takes a woman seriously and I am completely shunned by the female population. It seems that not caring works.
2007-06-28 11:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Broadsword 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a guy takes you seriously, it won't take long for them to fall in-love with you, treat you like a princess and be the genie you wish you had... that's the reason why they avoid getting too serious because they need to know if you are worth to be treated that way.
2007-06-28 11:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Pröƒé§§ôr♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women have a tendency of being too serious at times. They want to have kids, get married (not in strict order), have a house, own lots of guns, grow old and eventually cheat on each other. Standard American life and not every guy is into that.
2007-06-28 11:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by Hotwad 980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are smart and they know that the girl isn't really in love, she's in love with the idea of love. To bad girls aren't smart enough to know the difference anymore.
2007-06-28 11:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, plain and simple: Guys are "built" emotionally different than women are. They don't have the need to feel emotionally connected to someone like women do. It's just the facts of life, thats why some women are lesb!ans! (not me...not that there's anything wrong with that...)
2007-06-28 11:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky Colette 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They think we're rushing so they tend to be like,"Ok, it's nothing serious she's just rushing things." But if he were a real guy, he would be over-protective and stuff of his gf. I only had one bf who made me feel like that and he was like,"Who made you cry? I'll kick his @$$!" Some guys are diff.
2007-06-28 11:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you fall in love fast, it comes across as infatuation or obsession. this is a huge turn off for most guys. so even if you are head over heals about a guy, play it cool for a while, even play a little hard to get. keep him on his toes... guys like a challenge, and if you are too easy to get, hell take what he wants and move on to someone else.
2007-06-28 11:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys don't take girls seriously because they don't want to be responsible and settle down. They don't want to care about you, they want to HAVE things. Have cars. Have fun. Have sex.
When guys are mature, they want to care about girls because they realize that things don't make it. Only love makes it.
2007-06-28 11:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by William D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree
2007-06-28 11:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by jesidawnwaggoner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋