This guy is obsessed with me... help. :(?

Question

Ok, there is this guy i dont want to say his name but he OBSESSED. I never had anyone like me this much. I'm not sure now if I like him because i found out he was saying all these things about me (not mean but still weird) and he is getting on my nerves. What do i do. :(

Answer 1

Obviously you're not into him if you're getting the creepy vibe from him. Let him know you only want to be friends, and that's it. I've found sometimes you have to be pretty blunt in situations like that and not leave anything he can take as a possible chance. Tell him you only think of him as a friend and that's it. Or tell him you are into someone else. If he asks if there is a chance tell him no. Sometimes you have to be a little cruel to be kind. I'm definitely not saying you should be rude, but just get to the point and don't let him make you feel bad for the way you feel, or don't feel. You can't help that you don't have feelings for him, so let him know that you're not into him so he can start moving on to someone else.

Answer 2

One time a guy was obsessed with me, so I got a restraining order against him. That seemed to drive the point home, he's never contacted me again.

Answer 3

leave him alone,he will realize how wrong he is , when a mamn realizes his mistakes, he learns, unlike most women, they move on to healthier relationships, moreso then the flightiness giggle giggle run away from whats good fdor "oh ! theres a pimple on my forhead,,,,." life is over."
he wont like you at all before its over

Answer 4

I'd give the poor guy a chance. What was he saying about you?

Answer 5

depends is he stalker or wanna be boyfriend?
if he is stalker be whare and stay away!
if he is wanna be boyfriend tell him you wanna friends and hang with him for a while. or you could just try to ignore him.....

Answer 6

Hit him in the nadz

Answer 7

Move on*...

Answer 8

RUN