he broke my heart know how do i?

Question

i want to make him jelious so i tried going out with his friend it didnt work i want to make him hurt like he made me hurt how thoe date his other friend he dont like ? i want him to cry him self to sleep like i did for about 5 nights straight

Answer 1

Girl. I know how you are feeling. 2 months ago, my boyfriend decided to stop calling me... for a week or two. He never returned my one phonecall... and then I found pictures of him with another girl.... You have no idea how crappy I felt, how betrayed I felt, how heartbroken I was. We were together for over a year and continuously talked to me about marriage. And he goes and does this to me? You think you know someone after 2 1/2 years......... Well, I couldn't even contact him. I had to break-up with him over an email... and after 2 months, not a single word....

I never did anything to get revenge. God, I wanted to. Because I wanted him to feel the pain I was feeling. But you have to know something..... WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND. God will take care of it. Don't waste 1 SECOND of your time trying to think of what to do to him... Don't give him one second of your life thinking about him. He isn't even worth it.

You know what? A month after I broke up with him, he got his car totalled. See what I mean by karma?




I was very angry with my bf at the time for doing what he did to me. And I think the anger really helped me move on. It made me stronger. I learned A LOT through my relationship. I realized so many things I put up with that he did to me. I learned not to take CRAP from ANYBODY anymore and to stand up for myself. We all go through experiences FOR A REASON. It was just meant to happen.

Realize that God has a plan for you... and that He has so much in store for you. God has given me so much hope and strength, that I know He will bring me the right one in His time. He's blessed me with so many other things that I should be happy about. And I AM happy... I'm grateful.

Just be happy that you have it good... it could be worse.

I was watching the show Cheaters... a woman just got cheated on and she said, "You need to let go of the $1 bill in your hand so that God can give you the $100 bill you truly deserve."


If God brings you to it, He'll bring you through it.
And God does not take something away from you without giving you something better.


It will be okay. I promise. ♥

Answer 2

When you love someone you want their happiness to be above yours. This means that you want that person to be happy and glad, even if that means you have to suffer. That is what love does. It makes sacrifices to make the other person. Based on what you tell us, it sounds to me like you were not mature enough to handle the relationship in the first place. If my girlfriend left me, i would cry everynight, but at the same time wish her happiness and hope that she finds someone that she could spend the rest of her life with. Love does not seek its own happiness. Before you get involved with someone else that is something that you need to realize.

Answer 3

Somehow up to now, I've certainly not had my center damaged, I've continually performed the center breaking...that's such as you mentioned often worse for me rationale I have a tendency to think mega responsible and stuff....my final boyfriend thoroughly fell aside while I broke up with him, he did not wanna allow me pass, in order that used to be tough to manage.... :)

Answer 4

I can say from personal experience that when I break up with someone, there is nothing they could do to make me jealous. If he broke up with you, that means he does not want your company unfortunately, so you should just move on and try not to think about him, because he's not thinking about you.

Answer 5

what will really hurt is if he found out you have moved on, you are confident, you dont need him, and you are either single and proud or taken and happy with someone nice and respectful.
so just start the moving on process my friend....its hard i know....

Answer 6

Understandable, but you'll only feel whole again when you move on mentally, and stop focusing on him. When you truly move on, how how he feels wont even matter to you, and you'll feel better. It takes time. I've been there.

Answer 7

Damn u went out w/ his friend?! wow. That's bold. I think u should blow up his most prized possesion, like his car! He'll be cryin like a baby!

Answer 8

i know how much it hurts and i know you want to make him feel every single tear that you cried times ten. but hurting him is not going to allieviate your pain. you have to move on and be with someone. who'll apreciate you love.

Answer 9

if you ddnt make him jealous the first time you tried then he obiously moved on already and doesnt care what you do and revenge never solves anything!

Answer 10

don t think of revenge but forgive him may you will be in the same situation after who knows