2007-06-28 09:42:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she may love you just not sexually attracted anymore
2007-06-28 09:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Do you help her around the house, with the kids.?? Women have a lot on there minds at all times, it takes more than a "Hey baby" to get us in the mood. Helping her out around more may lighten her load, then, romance, romance, romance. Cook her dinner, or take her out. Make her feel like the women shes been missing. Tell her how sexy and amazing you think she is. Just because she has no interest doesn't mean she doesn't want it. She wants you to try a lot harder.... Talk to her about her work and make sure she is not stressing, take a long time to get her in the mood with kissing and massages. Just remember, that we always have things on our minds, things way more important than intimacy so often time it get put on the back burner. Turn up the heat!!
2007-06-28 09:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love is not equal to sex.
She may love you a lot.
She may be feeling low or ugly or unworthy of you. She might just be tired.
Here's something to think about: For women, foreplay is MORE than just what happens in bed.
Try treating her really special; touch her hands, shoulders, hair; give her a lot of attention, looking at her, telling her sweet things, etc. Continue all through dinner (go someplace nice!), in the car, and then in bed, too. You might find that she'll warm up, if you put in a little effort....
Good luck.
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2007-06-28 09:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by ♥≈Safi≈♥ ☼of the Atheati☼ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This happens when women are tired from the daily rituals of life. I bet she works, picks up the kids, goes home and cook, clean the house and then must find the time to be a good wife.
She's most likely tired- give her a mini vacation- do more things around the house- be romantic - take her out on a date- and try to do everything in your power to make her smile and laugh.
This is a huge tune on and I bet you'll get lucky.
2007-06-28 09:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
She is getting her needs met and doesn't see the need to meet your needs.
I recommend cutting back on a few of the things she is currently getting. Try not helping out so much around the house, no more date nights, stop the cuddling. I would even recommend to find a hobby to spend most of your time on. Trust me she will start to use sex to try and control you and get back your attention. However, try not to be fooled by the promise of sex in place of sex itself.
2007-06-28 10:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I love my husband but I'm just not big on the sex thing. I can't exactly explain it. I just don't have the drive. Sometimes a woman can lose her drive after children are born, I think I lost mine cause my children became sexually active and now sex just feels dirty to me, but it doesn't have anything to do with my love for my husband.
2007-06-28 09:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is likely not feeling very good about her ownself, she may have extremely low self-esteem and does not feel sexy anymore. This happened to me, I had to lose 75lbs. start dressing nicer, getting my hair and nails done more often, and exercise quite a bit. I was able to feel comfortable with myself and then I was able to relax and enjoy myself sexually much more. My husband loved the changes and then he started being much friendlier and more sexually assertive with me, I loved how my changes, changed him!! Now we have sex almost every single day, sometimes even 2 or more times a day, we even did it in the car the other day LOL. Good luck to you.
2007-06-28 09:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My friend...it is a tough position...I myself suffer the same fate.....My girl tells me she loves me to death still..and in her eyes i can see that she isnt lying....im not trying to confuse sex with love...i know the difference....but like we men know....we have needs more often than females do....and we need to attend to those and she should acknowledge that....my girl should acknowledge that...they just think that we think of only ourselves but I sure wish females could feel what its like to be a male with urges for one day....they will sure understand then....I have ur back man and good luck
2007-07-02 03:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by Life! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i love my husband to death, but i have an extremely stressful job and when i get home i fix dinner and tend to your 2 young children and keep the house clean. since he lacks helping me in the house i refuse to give him the booty. he wants some action help me out with the kids and household chores. you get home hours before i do so have dinner made and the kids ready for bed. plus my doctor says it could be a hormonal imbalance since i had my tubes tied after my 2nd child.
so it could be:
1> help her out around the house
2>hormonal imbalance
3>jazz it up in the bedroom (u just getting yours isn't doing it for her anymore)
and 4>maybe she just doesn't find you brad Pitt material anymore
2007-06-28 11:06:01 · answer #9 · answered by lou 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, she's not lying... But her libido has gone downhill..... Make her feel as if you want to ravage her.... And let her know that an intimate relationship is really important to you, and you don't want to be a statistic. Find out what she feels, ask her.
2007-06-28 09:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by minalerie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes people just lose their sex drives. She should see a doctor to make sure there are no hormonal or medical reasons.
2007-06-28 09:51:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋