I posted earlier about why my husband that tries to control the way I think and the way I should feel....
I got alot of great feed back, thankyou.
One thing that nobody really gave any advice on was.....if I'm supposed to try to understand the way he is....how? How do I possibly do that? Its like guys say "you will never figure out a woman". Well its the same way for woman trying to figure guys out. How can I put that ball in his court and make him realize that he is living with his own guilt from what he did, and that he doesnt have to try to make me guilty for stuff that happened 15 years before I ever meet him. He is like a brick wall..I have tried to talk to him and he refuses to hear what I have to say, and in return I get downgraded and made out to be like im the worst person in the world. He maid some mistakes and so did I. But why is it only my fault.....hes just as bad.
2007-06-28 09:40:53 · 3 answers · asked by Spice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You both need to bury the past and not let it interfere with the present and future*.... Learn from the past, but do not keep going back there*... It is demeaning and hurtful to you both*... Leave dead dogs buried*...
2007-06-28 09:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Books on men. The best way to find info on things everybody has an opinion on is to go to the nearest book store and ask them for some suggestions on books that could help you. You might want to cover the cover of the book with another book cover so he dosent see what your reading and get pissed. But books are helpful.
2007-06-28 09:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by sugarsshort 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read" Men are from mars, women are from venus", watch self help shows like "Oprah", Dr. Phil, research any and everything about what you think might be bothering you, educating yourself is your best bet.
2007-06-28 10:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋