So if you can't see past an EX's scandal, is it possible to start the relationship over again?

Question

So my X and I were together for 3 years, when pretty much out of no where my X cheated on me (w/ someone we worked w/). I guess my X was acting different around this me when this person was around...like they both 'knew' something I didnt know. To top it off we all went out a few times and this person was so fake, like they were my trying to be my friend but they were really being super shady. I ended up moving out August '06, changed my number and completely stop taking to my X. But I still saw my X almost everyday @ work w/ their new 'play thing'. It was the most frustrating thing I had to deal with. I was going completely insane. Well to make a long story short, we started talking again (Feb) they want to get back together but I constantly say no. Im completely disgusted by them (both) when I think of how things went down. I dont love my X like I did. I kinda just wanna be friends. My X says they cant live w/out me.... Can I forgive and forget? (I still work w/ tha other b*tch) ugh

Answer 1

It's POSSIBLE to start the relationship again, but actually going and doing it would probably be a really stupid idea. When your ex says they can't live without you.. if they really cared about you that much, they wouldn't have cheated in the first place.

Answer 2

You answered your own question. You said that you just want to be friends. You should forgive him anyway because keeping that anger is just going to make you a hateful and bitter person. Forgive him and let it go. But, I don't think you should date again because you already said that you don't love your ex like you did before. Listen to your heart.

Answer 3

they? Hold it...he's still with her and they want to get back together with you? Wow this is some freaking weird stuff you have going on in your life.

Answer 4

no way! don't forgive the jerk. thats scandalous.