Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

is it normal for your boyfriend to not call you everday? i don't know why i worry about it, i'm just not sure if thats how its supposed to work.

2007-06-13 17:36:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 17:35:56 · 37 answers · asked by chulita_tx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

People say that being shy is bad and girls dont like it. Which is why I dont/never had a gf. They said you have to open up to girls and let them get to know you. How do I do that too someone I've never spoken to. I know that it is easy to say and not do. So what to I do/say to help me talk/open up to a girl?

2007-06-13 17:35:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been snapping at her lately and haven't shown her much affection. I've been keeping the reason why I'm so uptight from her because I want to appear like I can take on the world even though my job is stressing me out!

2007-06-13 17:33:58 · 30 answers · asked by vell31 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello. I was wondering what the general opinion of kissing a ladies hand is? I am of 100% Polish descent from a family that was basically nobility. My mother made sure to teach me all the etiquette and manners possible. After seeing a lot of uncle's and other men kissing the hand of women, I began doing it also. It's not very common here in the US, and was wondering what do women think? The few times I've used it seemed to leave the lady and people in the area impressed. Ladies has anyone ever kissed your hand as described above?

If there is any confusion here I will explain. Basically when being introduced to a lady you or she sticks out there hand as if going for a handshake. Usually the man takes it with a flourish and gently kisses the back of the ladies hand with dry lips. Usually (at least I do) keep my eye's up looking at the ladies face, but sometimes I will look completely down.

2007-06-13 17:33:35 · 27 answers · asked by Gaz 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel like being lazy myself.

2007-06-13 17:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend, i really do. but having sex with other men makes me happy. I dont know why, but I just cant control myself. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, but have been unloyal almost the ENTIRE time.. but I DO LOVE HIM!! I would do ANYTHING for him! he is the most amazing guy ive ever met.. but i can stop cheating!!

also.. he cheated on me about 3 months ago and i cant forget about it!! so now im having sex with guys almost as revenge.. and thinking in my head every time i do it... "haha.." and i cry all the time, but when im with him im so happy... ugh. im so confused. ive just dug myself in so deep.. i need help.

2007-06-13 17:32:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-13 17:30:21 · 11 answers · asked by darthvonerich 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been talkin 4 a while and i think he keft his gf for me. And im so happy his goin to church with me and says and acts like he cares alot about dose he like..he says miss ya and night hun and sweet stuff but i date jreks and get them and i jus hope his diff.u know

2007-06-13 17:30:09 · 7 answers · asked by Crain 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always realllllly liked guys and wanted to be with them and date them and what not. I love having sex with my boyfriend, but i notice that in particular when he goes down on me i get more turned on thinking that it's a girl doing it. I know that i have noooo emotional feelings for girls whatsoever, and i dont think about them at all other than that. And im also real sure im not bisexual either. But-does anyone else do this?

no smartass answers, i dont need people trying to cut at me and make me self conscious!


oh yeah by the way--im a girl, ignore the username

2007-06-13 17:30:01 · 6 answers · asked by Theresa 1 in Singles & Dating

How can a man last for an hour or more please help.

2007-06-13 17:28:22 · 12 answers · asked by Unknown_1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He lives an hour a way and doesn't have a reason to be in the area. I live off the main road and it's not like he's just driving by. One of my neighbors said he stopped in front of my house and said that he was watching them walk in. I don't understand what is going on. We have a 19 month old together whom he doesn't see or half of the time pay child support for. But he keeps spying. What should I do? I can't prove he's stalking me, but it's getting kind of obvious.

2007-06-13 17:26:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-13 17:23:27 · 21 answers · asked by Risa young 1 in Singles & Dating

to make a long story short my husband's sister hates me and we do not speak. after my last question i realize i am going to have to forgive her without an apology and move on but i don't know what to do about our upcoming wedding. we were already married in a civil ceremony and she manipulated her way into being a part of that and ended up having my husband and i dreading our big day because of the drama she brought to the table. i am just wondering if it would defeat the purpose of forgiveness to not invite her to our wedding next year that is intended to be a celebration with all the people who love and support us, which she does not, or if it makes since to make myself happy and with my husband's support not invite her. i really don't know what to do, i'm defintely torn but i kind of feel like this is one thing i shouldn't sacrifice on and i don't really want her negativity around me. also what about her being involved in my future children's lives if she doesn't grow up.

2007-06-13 17:21:51 · 6 answers · asked by hoping_for_happiness 1 in Family

My boyfriend loves to give me oral sex is like his main priority.. He does it so much that I have at least 2 orgasms and by the time we have sex is hard for me to have an orgasm with him..But he seems to enjoy it so much that I feel bad telling him dont go down just lets have some forplay and just do it.. I dont want to hurt his ego I am ok with it but I feel bad many times because I cant have hardly any orgasms when he is inside me and I just cant say it to him dont want to hurt his feellings. Any sugestions??

2007-06-13 17:20:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i let my girls hang out with him during the weekend when i know he will not be sober. and is it healthy to have them hang out with a father that lies, steals and whatever else he can to get his fix? is it better to have a bad dad than no dad at all?

2007-06-13 17:16:56 · 15 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family

My husband has this woman he deals with everyday at work.( she's in a diffrent stateso they just talk on the phone) About 3 months ago i saw emails he wrote to her and hid from me. He talked about her and her daughter comming to our state for a visit.I know he talks to her in im and she always calls him babe.Should any of this bother me or am i over reacting? He claims she's married but none of the emails back and forth mentioned me or her husband.Thanks

2007-06-13 17:12:01 · 21 answers · asked by lillulu460 4 in Marriage & Divorce

answer his phone, only answering machine or talk to me. He sleeps most of the time and we have been together for 6 yrs. and his son and I got along great, so I'm grieving too. My boyfriend and I were really close before and after the loss of his son, but now he is pulling away from me and others, but especially me. I worry constantly about him. He has always been a loner, plus years ago, his older sister committed suicide too. Also, his step-father, who he loves, is dying too.
He told my friend that he pushes me away because he couldn't stand to lose anyone else. What should I do. I want to be able to comfort him and he won't let me. I feel abandoned and lost.

2007-06-13 17:10:41 · 13 answers · asked by karen c 1 in Family

Ok I've been separated for about 7 months now and the divorce is going through next week. It's nothing complicated, no kids or anything like that, just simple divorce.

I've been dating this new girl now, we are completely in love each other, its definitely for real, we think alike, find ourselves copying each other at times, we have an unusual amount of things in common. Everything is going great, shes definitely a very, very rare find in a woman. No problems at all. She's perfect in my eyes.

I did a stupid thing however... she knew I was married before, she asked me if the divorce is final or in the process... I dont know why I didnt say the latter. She thinks I got divorced 7 months ago. but it will be over with next week. I'm scared to tell her the truth now, is it a big deal? I mean say if I got married to this girl someday in the future, will it be a big deal? A way for her to find out? Maybe I should get an anullment? I don't want her to think I that I doubt her or somethin

2007-06-13 17:09:18 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you don't give a gift/flowers, you're a cheapskate, if you do, you're kissing butt. What to do?

2007-06-13 17:09:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Shooping for Fater-in Law- Gift.

2007-06-13 17:08:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in High School and this guy always does stupid stuff to get my attention and won't stop until I talk to him. Usually I end up talking, but sometimes I rather just pay attention to the teacher. So I try sort of ignoring him and paying attention and he gets mad! What should I do/ why does he try sooo hard to get my attention when he knows I'm trying to concentrate?

2007-06-13 17:08:44 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 17:07:57 · 8 answers · asked by Htown/Philly4life 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 29 and my mom is in her early 60's. She has not been to a doctor in literally decades- no yearly check ups, no mammograms, no gyno appts- nothing. Only thing she does is go to a dentist. However, she is very fit and healthy, takes care of herself, exercises, eats well, vitamins, etc. I'm just torn in terms of whether it's my responsibility to "make her" go to a doctor. I work in a hospital and see ALL the time people who die from cancer that could have been treated successfully if it was caught early. Every time I have brought this subject up, she gets very angry and our relationship suffers. My younger brothers seem to think this is my job to get her to go to a doctor, but how can I make an adult of sound mind go, I can't physically force her! It'd be different if she was really sick and refused to let me take her to a hospital- I'd call 911 and that would be that. I feel like I should just drop it and respect her decision, even though I really disagree with it.

2007-06-13 17:03:35 · 3 answers · asked by Jen1943 1 in Family

Last March 2006 my Fathers best friend, his brother passed away from lung cancer, sad I must say. Three weeks later on March 21, my best friend passed away, my mother. Two weeks ago, my wife had a misscarriage for the fifth time and we were both devisated. Last Saturday morning somtime my father fell and suffered a massive stroke with no chance of recovery. Tomorrow I must let my father go since he suffered a massive stroke with no chance to survive on his own. I must give permission for the doctors to pull the ventilator off and let him go when his body finally gives out. I am so sad and hurting inside it is difficult for me to even write this without wiping the tears from my eyes cause I can't see the keyboard. The hurt inside is so bad I feel like I want to go as well. With a loving wife at my side, I can not leave her and this keeps me sane and wanting to be here for her. We will try again someday to have a child. I am 50, she 40, but we will still try for us and them.

2007-06-13 17:01:19 · 6 answers · asked by viper1056 1 in Family

My emotions are over the top no matter how hard I try to sleep I can’t close my eyes and try to eat .. I just don’t know what to do I feel like I really need so kind of drug to give my mind a break.. Legal or illegal I don’t care.. I never smoked in my life so I don’t know what kind of drug makes u forget everything..

2007-06-13 17:00:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I were talking on the phone one day. We were both fine, but he kept saying things like, I don't deserve you and "get your man". He has self-esteem issues at times and is quite sarcastic and mean at times with his choice of words. Anyways, he had to take a call on his other line and he said that he would call me back. 10 min passed and I started to get impatient...then i called him twice. no answer. Then, I text him saying sarcastically, "thanks for calling me back. hope everything's fine. goodnight. I wasn't being sarcastic when i wrote "I hope everthings fine." though. Maybe he took it as sarcasm. he text me back 2 min later saying, "Sarcasm is not your strong point. Im in the hospital...thanksforyour support..please do not respond. I did by apologizing twice. inthepasHe said he loves me to death. I've called him about 4 times in 3 days. He hasn't answered nor return my calls since. it's been almost 2 weeks.is he mad, busy, in the hospital or a family in the hospital

2007-06-13 16:55:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY GRIL FRIEND WANTS TO BE CHECKING OUT OTHER GUY SHE DOSENT KNOW THAT I KNOW WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-06-13 16:55:01 · 16 answers · asked by L to the Z Z 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi I am just wondering why is it that my boyfriend like to grab my hair and sometimes it might even hurt a little bit when we are making love... He loves to spank me which I also like I think thats kind of cute.. He always complements my big butt but is been a few times that when I am on top he likes to pull on my hair. Not hard but if I let him continue he could pull it hard. My hair is not that long but is past my bra line. And I just dont get it why lately he feels like pulling on my hair.. Any coments to this?? I am curious
2 nights ago when he was pulling on my hairI gently moved his arm away from my head and he looked surprised that I did that..

2007-06-13 16:55:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm tired of seeing guys having all the fun in the movies. Looking at naked women ect.. We ladies want our share. We look at guys in the buff and get turned on. They should start showing some movies from a womans point of veiw!

2007-06-13 16:52:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating