Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

do you have a specific number your trying to reach or not go beyond? how old are you?

2007-06-13 18:36:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, i have a bit of a dilemna. I recently got married and am moving overseas soon and my husband is in iraq. I dont often go out on weekends because i talk to my husband on the phone. And when i do go out I only go out for an hour or so. Anyway my best friend is single, and doesnt seem to understand my situation. SHe sent me an email saying :

"i only see you now every two or three weeks and its only ever for like an hour or so. i get annoyed that he wont let you spend some time with me - and then he blackmails you with saying stuff that he knows will upset you so you don't go out.
...we were like joined at the hip at one stage and i know our situations have both changed and i accept that i just feel like there is no point us even seeing each other now cause your always checking your watch and i know deep down you don't want to be there anyway."

My husband DOES let me go out. I dont go out cos i want to be there for him as much as possible. She doesnt understand. What should i do??

2007-06-13 18:34:57 · 19 answers · asked by Click 4 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my best friends from hs is getting married and asked me to be a bridesmaid. She's Catholic, and I'm not even Christian, so I have no idea of what my responsibilities are. Can anyone help? Oh and also...as a bridesmaid, can I bring a date to her wedding? I'm engaged, and I'd like to go with my fiance...because I won't really know too many people at her wedding....but I also know that one of the groomsmen would be my escort down the aisle. At least that's what I've understood so far...

2007-06-13 18:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Weddings

I am really losing my hair and shave my head (past 5 years). Am I missing out on meeting women because of this (not that I have a choice)? Is it really that big of a turn-off to females?

2007-06-13 18:31:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we our co-workers and I over heard her and her other co-worker, saying she has a boyfriend. Her other co-worker said it on purpose, so I can hear it. Probably, because the other co-worker likes me. And she didn't want me to start liking her. Anyways, When she said that, she starting to show interest in me. When we made eye contact she smile at me. I went on break with her and she told me she has a boyfriend and he's doing bad in school and stuff. We talk about other stuff too. Anyways she's been going on break when I go on break. One time she smile at me and I didn't smile back and she got a big frawn on her face. Anyways, she stop going on break when I go on break now. Maybe, it's because I don't go on break when she goes on break and she got upset about that. The other day, I was in her way and I didn't know and she comes up from behind me and grabs my hip and squeezes by and smiles at me.
she came on break with me last week. she didnt seem interested. she was quiet and i was asking her questions. the questions were about her boyfriend and her school. she said her boyfriend still doing bad in school and he might get left back. and she said he's smart her boyfriend helps her with her homework. she said hes just lazy and doesnt apply himself... she also said he might go to another school to get his ged and she doesnt want him to go. she called him stupid too. that was pretty much it on break. Than she started staring at me, but she wasnt smiling and i was. than i waved at her and she looks away and waves back... Look like she was playing it cool. I heard her and her bf been going out for a yr. The other day, I waved at her again and this time she looked at me when she waved back. I know she likes me, but i dont want to make a move when she has a bf.
There's a player who works at our store and he's trying to out with this girl or he's just trying to score. Anyways, I heard she doesn't like him, because the player gave a co-worker a note to give her and inside the note said, i think your cute sign his name. so, the co-worker gave it to her and she said ill is that the black guy. she's white btw, i dont think she's raceist, she just doesnt date black guys. so, she goes up to the player and saids that's very sweet. that was about 4 months ago and now she's flirting with him i heard. i haven't seen it. i heard from the player that they been flirting. i pretend it doesnt bother me and i'm very good at hiding my reactions.
Last week, I talk to her for 2 min, asking how she was and that's it. and than i ignore her the rest of the day. and when i left work, this happen. She went up to the player and started talking to him and i heard from a co-worker he or she will call tonight. i heard this from my co-worker friend. i also heard she's been going on movie dates with other guys and she still has a boyfriend too. not sure how many guys she's going out with on movie dates. as far as i know it's 3 and that's including her bf. One of the co-worker girls called her a slut for going on a date with another guy and she called the co-worker girl a whore. Anyways, when I heard about this, I started to pay no attention to her, I don't look at her anymore to see if she's smiling at me. and i'm ignoring her as best as i can so i don't have to see her. And she might be ignoring me too cause I did look at her real quick when I was walking by and she just look at me and look somewhere else. She's really quiet at work. she doesn't talk much.

2007-06-13 18:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by gojags2011 2 in Singles & Dating

well this guy that is my bf has called me for the past three nights and became my bf on the second. we went to school together and kinda talked. well tonight he didnt call me=( what does that mean??? what do i do now??

2007-06-13 18:31:16 · 22 answers · asked by nina del barrio fino 516~Fo Sho~ 2 in Singles & Dating

If any husband make a litigation against his wife that his wife participated in sex before her marriage and successfully prove so, what will happen to that lady? If that lady confesses that the statement is right, will marriage be broken?

2007-06-13 18:30:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

drop in the near future?
It's gettin to be a huge risk for both partners..
what do u think

2007-06-13 18:27:09 · 7 answers · asked by christianatths07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So this girl I know who is driving to my house right now, is not the smartest person I know, but she is very cute.

Of the 12 people she has slept with she claims 6 were rapes.

STD's aside, cause I am a big believer in latex.

Is it possible that what she is saying is true? Maybe a function of not too smart and very cute?

If not why would she say something like that?

I'm a really nice guy & I am not concerned in the least that anything I would ever do could ever be seen as rape.

That being said, half of her sexual encounters have been "rape", to be on the safe side do I need to print a "love contract" (sex release form) before I fool around with her?

2007-06-13 18:26:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

your boyfriend or girl friend that you masturbate if he or she asked you.
do you think they have the right to now?

2007-06-13 18:25:50 · 6 answers · asked by kabbala 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Situation: shes like my best friend. We have this "challenge" going where i have to do bite her tongue. But she wants me to do a "snake charm or do a magic trick" and get her tongue out bc shes not opening it. I told her i was going to kiss her and pry her lips open with my tongue and whalah!.....We are supposed to do it on our "pizza in the park" date tomorrow. So should i do it or any other ideas?

2007-06-13 18:25:09 · 5 answers · asked by Michael B 1 in Singles & Dating

not really going to get all into it. but can you just have feelings for someone. want them all the time sexually but have no other spark there for that person as for a relationship other then sex? when your not looking nor is he. and haven't been with any other sex partner for over a year and some....

2007-06-13 18:24:50 · 10 answers · asked by trout 2 in Singles & Dating

hi,i m 19.i hv kissed a lot of girls in my college.i m afraid that whether kissing different people can cause any infection to me.

2007-06-13 18:23:29 · 14 answers · asked by I Don't Know Anything 1 in Singles & Dating

I knew from the start that I meant something to my guy because he kept something that I found when we were together. He has had it on his keychain for a very long time now. A good guy friend of mine who has a crush on me also did the same thing. I found out recently that he still keeps the notepad I gave to him to use a long time ago. He put his name on it, saying it was his notepad and had it on his dashboard all this time. It doesn't look like it's ever been used. I was shocked to see it there. It was for him to use at work. Men are actually more sentimental than I thought when they like someone. Is this true?

2007-06-13 18:20:58 · 9 answers · asked by artutina 4 in Singles & Dating

A woman's answer to one of my questions:

"The keys to every woman:

Be there for her when she's feeling crappy and show compassion; be the man.

Tell her she's attractive, hug her, and kiss her.

Tell her she's brilliant and can do anything she wants in the world.

Tell her (and show her) that she is worth the world to you!

Big generalizations, but that's about it! "

So women want all this...but do they do the same for their men..............(chirps)

2007-06-13 18:17:24 · 17 answers · asked by Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here we go, no family to run back to one baby and one on the way if i can carry one with all this stress and not much food or sleep. i am liveing with my fiance, i cook i clean and i work (at night) and take care of the baby in the day. my fiance works in the day and SOMETIMES does the dishes if he feels like it, he watches the baby at night (baby sleeps all night now and only one nap in the day) so he doesnt do anything at home, and does not apreciate anything i do. he complains of being so tired all the time and he doesnt do anything except work, its easy to take care of a SLEEPING baby.i am so frustrated and stressed i need some appreciation and when i tell him that he blows me off like i have attitude for no reason. so what to i do???

2007-06-13 18:17:18 · 9 answers · asked by curvy_chick000 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my now fiance for 11 years in total. I found out that he's been talking to another girl, and when i questioned him about it he would just brush it off or say "we're just friends" but he hasn't mentioned her at all to me. so if they were just friends, why would he hide that from me. Should i be suspicious? Does anyone else think something is going on?

2007-06-13 18:16:47 · 24 answers · asked by masam19864 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Our society makes women feel it is something to be ashamed this.

2007-06-13 18:16:30 · 22 answers · asked by vmarie84 4 in Singles & Dating

I want to ask him out but I dont know if he is single or not. If he says no how do I work with someone who has rejected me?

2007-06-13 18:14:09 · 6 answers · asked by funn_happy_gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

Many women today don't want a relationship, they just want the sex. At the same time many men and women want a relationship and sex.

2007-06-13 18:13:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do women have tons of lovers in their sexual history.

And also, why are they the first to cry divorce when a guy get some on the side?

2007-06-13 18:12:31 · 9 answers · asked by Guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Married once for 12 years and two other relationships that didn't work out. Now I am afraid to move on or to trust again. Where can you find an honest man now a days?

2007-06-13 18:11:54 · 12 answers · asked by grenis906 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hold my hand all the time....just sometimes.....does it mean something??

2007-06-13 18:09:44 · 12 answers · asked by kera 2 in Singles & Dating

i have rather big nipples. not really scary huge, but definitely much larger than i'd like.

but i don't mean like the actual length, in fact lengthwise they're pretty flat. i mean like the size of the round part, the areolas.

so i'm just wondering, do some guys like bigger nipples (areolas)? do you all think they're weird, or does anybody find them at all hot?

please no mean joke answers, i'm insecure about it.

2007-06-13 18:09:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The girl hollered "Somebody better pray for him!"
I told he "We already were!" ~ I didn't say what we prayed...

Anyways...is fighting so soon after the announcement of having a baby a sign that they won't last long???

2007-06-13 18:06:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband left me two years ago and I moved out of state with our son. My ex-husband's parents never showed much interest in our son (their only grandchild) and we have never gotten along. A couple of months ago my ex (whom we see regularly) asked me what I was doing June 7-14 and when I said, "nothing," he said that his parents were planning a visit here to see our son. I wasn't thrilled because I can't stand these people and they've never been nice to me, but I know that I can't really keep my son from seeing them as they haven't done anything bad to him. They arrived here last Thurs. and to be nice, I made dinner for them (my ex-husband was here too). No one even said "thank you" after I made a nice dinner and dessert! I couldn't believe it. The following day my ex-husband and his parents took my son out all day to do different activities and I stayed home so that they could enjoy the boy without me tagging along. That night and the next (while I was out so we wouldn't all be

2007-06-13 18:05:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I believe in fate. I met this guy through my ex boyfriend in sophmore year. They were best friends. In 11th grade my ex cheated on me and that guy became closer to me and helped me cope and we eventually went out. it didnt last long because i wasnt over my ex. so me and him became best friends and he fell in love with me. in 12th grade we tried it out again but we had more distractions. some major fights broke out so we havent been friends for about 6 months. about 3 months ago he messaged me on myspace saying he still loved me. we havent spoke since because his friends (my ex, etc) are keeping him away. But everyone keeps telling me "wait until later", and I honestly feel he is the one I will marry and grow old with because we had this super strong connection. maybe it was just me? should I move on?

2007-06-13 18:03:34 · 17 answers · asked by hazardxxo 1 in Singles & Dating

Please be honest and please only serious answers.

2007-06-13 18:02:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-13 18:00:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so for a day date. We go play a round of putt putt and then afterwards go get lunch or ice cream. What one, ice cream or lunch? Or any other ideas rather than putt putt. I'm scared to ask for bowling after seeing the Real World (hopefully some of you know what im talking about)

2007-06-13 18:00:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating