Family & Relationships - 13 June 2007

i know this girl...met her maybe 3 times, not a lot. talked for a while each time. just asked her out on facebook about 2-3 hours ago, no response yet.

so i went on her myspace, just thinking i'd friend her there too. i looked at her pics. there is a pic of her dancing and grinding on some guy with a million tattoos. looks like some kind of band member or something. i can't show this pic to you, i respect her privacy, but they do not look anything like a couple.

i kinda like her before this. thought maybe we could be bf/gf. but now she seems sl&tty and unattractive to me.

am i wrong? am i being too harsh? what do you think?

2007-06-13 19:24:04 · 4 answers · asked by a b 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 19:23:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I some time looses my temper really fast on my husband and then after wards I feel very guilty. I really wanted to change myself but I am not sure where to start from. My husband and I are very happily married but because of his mom I get really angry. His mom (my mother in law) annoys me a lot. I wanted to ignore her but some times I can't. Any suggestions on how I can control my anger and also deal with my husband regarding his mom and also how should I deal with my mother in law.

2007-06-13 19:14:19 · 14 answers · asked by c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-13 19:12:26 · 8 answers · asked by partydudette52 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-13 19:10:24 · 9 answers · asked by heretoday 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister invited me and my cousin to go to the skating rink with her and her freinds. The thing is me and my cousin who is 4 months older want to date older girls. Were in 9th and tenth grade and there in 10th 11th and 12th grade. Should we use certain pickup upline and if so what. We thought about using one that has worked many times but dont know if it works with older females.
The line is: while looking at your beuty i hit the wall and fell down. Im going to need your name and number for insurance reasons.
Do yall think it will work or what else should we do?

2007-06-13 19:06:08 · 5 answers · asked by enigmapretzel 2 in Singles & Dating

i need straight up answers now. i dont wanna deal with him but i still wanna stay there. should i stay with them and kick his a** if he does anything, or should i go stay with other family members? please, its just a really hard decision. if you dont get it, read my other family questiopns and PLEASE ANSWER

2007-06-13 19:05:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay I need some advice. I am an engaged female, my fiance is a virgin, I am not. Even though the experience levels are different we have both agreed to wait until marriage. So this question is to Married women/men who waited until marriage to have sex.

I have never been with a male who is still a virgin. I feel lucky to have him and he me, but at the same time I feel that there might be some awkwardness because of the different level experience.

Is this normal, and is it anything like how males are with female virgins, do I need to be gentle?
Any advice greatly appreciated.

2007-06-13 19:03:10 · 15 answers · asked by zrose86 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she won't answer when I call. She's been hard on her luck and I'm a poor recent college grad. She has a stupid tracfone which she never answered or used, so I bought her a landline and pay the monthly bill (for roughly 4 months now). So I told her she needs to call me once a week (it was in a lighthearted manner). Well she NEVER calls me, and when I call her she won't answer or return my calls. It really aggravates me. She claims it says "unavailable" when I call. Well.. I think she should answer it anyway. If it's a telemarketer hang up. It kind of upsets me that I offered to pay for her phone and she won't even use it to talk to me! She calls my sister. I'm going to cancel it anyway because I can't afford it anymore. She knows I'm canceling it. But do you think it's rude that she won't answer or call me? Is that too much to ask?

2007-06-13 19:00:22 · 14 answers · asked by two_kee_kees 4 in Family

Why on earth would this YA person ask a question: "How do I get him to leave his wife FOR me" and she received, like 60 answers and counting, that she had no morals, was dumb, stupid and the like. I agreed with the others, and perhaps they ALL RECEIVED A MESSAGE on one of their unrelated questions that she was upset with our answers.

WHY PUT YOUR BUSINESS IN THE STREET IF YOU DO NOT WANT 'HONEST ANSWERS' ON YA? CAN ANYBODY TELL ME THAT? SHE HAD THE ''AUDACITY'' TO SUGGEST THAT I NEEDED COUNSELING.....GIRL, I AM PUTTING YOU ON BLAST!!!!!!!

FriendsF, don't take it personal, unless you know that being a 3rd wheel, and trying to 'steal a man from his family' is WRONG!

2007-06-13 18:59:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

with them.Even if you guys have been dating for 10 months.Cuz i love mah boii friend and we have talked and talked about him always gettin mad when past relationships are brought up and he gets mad even when he's the one bringing it up and it just makes me so mad what would u do

2007-06-13 18:58:38 · 9 answers · asked by shayheartsarmion 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-13 18:57:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I knew 3 years ago in Arizona and we were really never close at all. Then he moved to Virginia last year and I just came here. He invited me as his special guest to his birthday party this Friday and I'm going. I don't know much about him and I'm not trying to impress him at all, but as a student from a highly respected family I need to get him something right to the event and our formal friendship. I have never shopped for guys that I am not best friends with. I don't really know what to get him but I want it to be cheap, but valuable! Please suggest stores and items with a good price, no more than let's say $20, and any additional things to the gift. No gift cards please. Thanks a lot.

P.S. I'm under 21, to be concidered. So no drinks. No clothing, I don't know what his intrests are... Just give me ideas of general gifts. So far I have came up with walet, belt, a set of 3. So give me new ideas please. I also don't have time to make him something

2007-06-13 18:57:17 · 8 answers · asked by DIXIE 1 in Friends

how do i stop thinking about this guy i like... but i dont think he even cares about me

2007-06-13 18:56:29 · 23 answers · asked by superchick 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-06-13 18:55:57 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Unicorn♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Currently live in New York, So I want to do something special and extremely romantic. Serious answers only please. Thanks

2007-06-13 18:54:45 · 10 answers · asked by Eli 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im dating a cop, he does 15 hr shifts. We only get to see eachother 1-2times a week. I want more time with him but he is usually really tired after work. He is really bad with scheduling things. I really care about him but i feel he loves his job more than me. what should i do to make things work?

2007-06-13 18:54:44 · 13 answers · asked by EDF 1 in Singles & Dating

WHY IS IT !!! =/

2007-06-13 18:53:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What type of romantic gestures works well to either turn him on or make him love you more?

2007-06-13 18:52:36 · 8 answers · asked by mickey 1 in Family

I'm 16 yes I do desire to get one buts it's to hard and from my observation highschool dates only last a couple months seeming like an utter waste of time. Am I the only one to realize this?

2007-06-13 18:51:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my last boyfriend last year and now we're talking again and I think I really loved him the whole time but I don't know what to do about it.

2007-06-13 18:51:03 · 6 answers · asked by green_mm_07 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 34 and have been divorced twice with 2 kids. My parents will not even consider getting to know my new boyfriend instead they want to send insults his way just because they would rather I be alone for the rest of my life. My boyfriends parents won't accept me either because I am divorced and told me to my face tonight that me and my children will never be accepted as part of their family if My boyfriend and I get married. To me this is so wrong; we love each other and are not trying to hurt anyone. My children have been hurt by this because they want to have a relationship with my boyfriends parents. This has also caused a strain within my own family. Am I right or wrong in thinking that both sides need to butt out and let us make our own decisions in regards to who we ultimately want to be with. In fact my boyfriends mother keeps belittling her own son saying that I shouldnt have my children around him; i dont understand this since he is a really good person.

2007-06-13 18:50:03 · 16 answers · asked by yellowrose3200 1 in Family

I love my fiancee very much. But last weekend, I was out of town visiting my dad. He missed me, I missed him. Typical and normal, you know? Thing is, I don't get to hang out with him during the week because my sister (whom I live with) works from 4am-12pm. So she sleeps during the day. I don't have a license or a car yet. So I stay home so she doesn't worry--she doesn't hear the phone ring when she is sleeping. She worries that something will happen and I'll need her and not be able to get through. So, I stay home on weekdays when she works. Unfortunately, due to family business, I haven't been able to spend the last three consecutive weekends with him. Now my other sister wants me to spend NEXT WEEK in Sacramento with her. That's several hours from here. My fiancee has to work, otherwise he would come with. He wants me to wait a couple of weeks, to give us a chance to spend some time together before I leave yet again. Is he being to posessive and clingy, or am I being too unsensitive?

2007-06-13 18:50:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

help?

2007-06-13 18:47:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When was the first time a guy held your hand, and how did you react? I havent had this happen to me, but i think its adorable to hear experiances! Thanx bunches!!

2007-06-13 18:47:41 · 13 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother just came awhile ago and I was jacking off and moaning and crap and he said "keep it down bro." I looked at him and he winked and pulled down his pants and we started "playing" When we both were about to c.u.m when our parents walked in and freaked out...now they want to talk to both of us in an hour after they talk to each other...what do I say? Me and my brother do this quite a bit.

2007-06-13 18:47:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

should I just be myself,rather than trying to do newer things, or what could you suggest that might help for me to really get to know her better?
She and I are both on myspace..and she is always blogging and I can read her stuff...I have met her twice before and we do get along..but, I just kind of wish that I could be more of a friend to her..then just her dad's new wife(as of last summer) but she had met me way before that!

I feel like I can talk to her older brother easier..and I have always been able to talk to guys much easier as well...had a lot of male friends growing up!
But, I just wanted to know if there was a way to really get to know the teen better(being that she is a very sporty and smart type...and also just fun all of the time..) I do get along with her, like I have stated, and I don't want to push her,(I was a step kid,and I KNOW what this is like, from the step kids point of view as well...although everybody is different too!) soo, what would you suggest?

thanks!

2007-06-13 18:47:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anne99 2 in Family

look for all the parents that don't let your kids do nothing, not let them go nowhere..ya guys are bunch of idiots, why cuz ya think if ya don't let your child go out, or not take them to places..they will be good in the future..as teenagers we feel more mad n it makes us hate our parents for not bein what we want. you guys are making everything unfair and thats why most kids, when they grow up, be failure in life..its all da parents fault

2007-06-13 18:42:23 · 11 answers · asked by whatever441 1 in Family

If any husband make a litigation against his wife that his wife participated in sex before her marriage and successfully prove so, what will happen to that lady? If that lady confesses that the statement is right, will marriage be broken? I have got married according to Hindu marriage act.

2007-06-13 18:42:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is nice of mine. our paranet dicided our marriage. During our first proposal we used to go out, call each and SMS regularlly but now a days he is not taking me out, cutting my calls and not replying to my SMS. But when he comes home he speaks. I hope he is not intrested in another girl. He is of good nature. I gave him a lot of time to relax his mind, even though he is not caring for me. I cry daily I dont know what to do.

2007-06-13 18:39:37 · 12 answers · asked by glory y 1 in Singles & Dating