found out something bad...is she not gf material?

Question

i know this girl...met her maybe 3 times, not a lot. talked for a while each time. just asked her out on facebook about 2-3 hours ago, no response yet.

so i went on her myspace, just thinking i'd friend her there too. i looked at her pics. there is a pic of her dancing and grinding on some guy with a million tattoos. looks like some kind of band member or something. i can't show this pic to you, i respect her privacy, but they do not look anything like a couple.

i kinda like her before this. thought maybe we could be bf/gf. but now she seems sl&tty and unattractive to me.

am i wrong? am i being too harsh? what do you think?

oh, she seemed to definitely like me too. lot of flirting. but nothing slutty. no slutty clothes. so this kind of surprised me.

this just disgusted me and turned me off. i still like her looks. but i find it hard to like anything else after seeing this. of course, it could be an ex. but who knows.

Answer 1

Even if it is not her, she wants to portray her self as tho it is. I don't know........it doesn't sound right. I would say, don't ignore that gut-feeling you have; or you could lose it. I hope you leave it alone.

Answer 2

That is always a tough one

because perhaps
it could just be a friend nd her having fun
bt then again


well
il tell you a story of me dating a girl like that

i dated a girl a while back
who ws really cool nd sweet nd all that

until i went on her myspace
or we actualy both found each others after we were dating

nd everyone of her pictures
were of her
kissing her gf's
or pulling a triple kiss
wt her and her supposed gay best friend


believe me these pictures kdna got to me
i ws honestly ashamed to show my family my gf's my space
because of how trashy she made it look

and in the end
after only one month
she made me drive her up to pittsbrugh
only to be dumped 20 minutes into this party

ya

if she portrays herself in that way
it definately give off the wrong vibe
to most genuine nice caring people
but then again

we dont know

maybe it ws just a pic of her having fun
with her friends

girls are weird like that

i think
well
first
off
ask her out on a date at least
and see how that goes
and then after a week or so
if all goes well
just
say something like


well hey who is that guy you were with on your myspace
the one wt all the tattoos

is he a friend of yours

or something





dont accuse her of anything wrong
because honestly
you dont really knw who it is or what happend

bt jst talk to her about it if it is bugging you









nd
p.s
dont hate people with tattoos
i have 4
and a stitches tattoo across my wrist that says suicide in the middle

and i definately
would never date a trashy girl

Answer 3

That's rough. Don't just dismiss her yet though...I know it can be a big turn-off when you find out they're not as much of a "good girl" as you'd thought, but you never know till you get to know her better.

Also, I'd generally reccomend not asking people out electronically...guess it depends on the person though.

Answer 4

You're jealous before the first date. Don't put her on a pedestal. Concentrate on having a good time with her and don't dwell on what she does with her own time.