we our co-workers and I over heard her and her other co-worker, saying she has a boyfriend. Her other co-worker said it on purpose, so I can hear it. Probably, because the other co-worker likes me. And she didn't want me to start liking her. Anyways, When she said that, she starting to show interest in me. When we made eye contact she smile at me. I went on break with her and she told me she has a boyfriend and he's doing bad in school and stuff. We talk about other stuff too. Anyways she's been going on break when I go on break. One time she smile at me and I didn't smile back and she got a big frawn on her face. Anyways, she stop going on break when I go on break now. Maybe, it's because I don't go on break when she goes on break and she got upset about that. The other day, I was in her way and I didn't know and she comes up from behind me and grabs my hip and squeezes by and smiles at me.
she came on break with me last week. she didnt seem interested. she was quiet and i was asking her questions. the questions were about her boyfriend and her school. she said her boyfriend still doing bad in school and he might get left back. and she said he's smart her boyfriend helps her with her homework. she said hes just lazy and doesnt apply himself... she also said he might go to another school to get his ged and she doesnt want him to go. she called him stupid too. that was pretty much it on break. Than she started staring at me, but she wasnt smiling and i was. than i waved at her and she looks away and waves back... Look like she was playing it cool. I heard her and her bf been going out for a yr. The other day, I waved at her again and this time she looked at me when she waved back. I know she likes me, but i dont want to make a move when she has a bf.
There's a player who works at our store and he's trying to out with this girl or he's just trying to score. Anyways, I heard she doesn't like him, because the player gave a co-worker a note to give her and inside the note said, i think your cute sign his name. so, the co-worker gave it to her and she said ill is that the black guy. she's white btw, i dont think she's raceist, she just doesnt date black guys. so, she goes up to the player and saids that's very sweet. that was about 4 months ago and now she's flirting with him i heard. i haven't seen it. i heard from the player that they been flirting. i pretend it doesnt bother me and i'm very good at hiding my reactions.
Last week, I talk to her for 2 min, asking how she was and that's it. and than i ignore her the rest of the day. and when i left work, this happen. She went up to the player and started talking to him and i heard from a co-worker he or she will call tonight. i heard this from my co-worker friend. i also heard she's been going on movie dates with other guys and she still has a boyfriend too. not sure how many guys she's going out with on movie dates. as far as i know it's 3 and that's including her bf. One of the co-worker girls called her a slut for going on a date with another guy and she called the co-worker girl a whore. Anyways, when I heard about this, I started to pay no attention to her, I don't look at her anymore to see if she's smiling at me. and i'm ignoring her as best as i can so i don't have to see her. And she might be ignoring me too cause I did look at her real quick when I was walking by and she just look at me and look somewhere else. She's really quiet at work. she doesn't talk much.
2007-06-13 18:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by gojags2011 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i heard her bf knows what she's doing and they been breaking up on and off. her bf lives in a different city
2007-06-13 18:46:59 · update #1
wow wish i had more time to read it but from the first paragragh i think to move one and look for a girl out of work it seems you only like girls from there. be carefull.
2007-06-14 12:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yaaawwwwwn
What do I think huh?
I think I'm gonna ask you a question.
How old are you kid?
Email me when you answered. and tell me where you live.
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Ok I got your mail.
Before I start I'm gonna warn you!
If you're determined to LEARN how to be more successful with your dating life, read this.
Otherwise forget about this answer cause you'll get offended.
Listen kid.
Right to the poin.
I THINK, you should cut the crap and grow up.
What the hell are all those girlish gossipings about?
It's useless,immature and a big turn off.
If as you've said you like my answers to the dating questions,(Assuming that you've read more than a few of my answers), you should know what I'm acctually sayin in here.
If I wanna summarize all I teach into 1 sentence, that would be:
"Be masculine, confident, dominant and in control of the situation."
The rest I say is teaching HOW to be masculine, dominant, blah blah blah.
Kid, I've seen a few people like you.
I bet you have very good memory. You might be intelligent and have high IQ.
But you have major problem in distinguishing which part of the story is more important and which part is not.
All I got from your story was that every single one in there is gossiping.
Cut the crap baby,Cut the crap.
I bet you talk too much when you are with another person but you are a silent guy when you're in a group.
You must break this routine.
Stop talkin too much and stop sharing the story of your life with other people.
As I said you talk too much and you kinda like it.
Never tell anyone the story of something you were involved in, unless it's a funny incident and the embaressed guy in that story is not YOU!
You CAN get what you want IF you read what I advice to the guys with dating problems and PRACTICE what you learn from me.
I'm sure the way you look is good enough for women.
You just need to grow up and be mature.
2007-06-14 05:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by The One 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a teenage soap opera. I see no point in all of that foolish gossip. If you want to see her, ask her out. If you keep listening to what other people say, you will always be totally confused. Use you own mind to create your own impressions of a person. Time to grow up and quit depending on other people for your information.
2007-06-14 01:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You must still like her a little bit since you wrote this long email. Okay hon, no good can come from this chic, she likes attention and she isnt ready to be in a relationship, she cant even be trusted shes too needy, flirtatous and indecisive. Worse is you work together , never get involved with people you work with okay dear, its never a good idea, plus ask yourself, if you dated her "Could she be trusted?" I think not.
2007-06-14 01:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
sounds like she might be a player...behind her bf's back...
2007-06-14 01:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok this is way to long all i have to say is (IDK) lol
2007-06-14 01:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by prettypink_hair 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋