If you don't give a gift/flowers, you're a cheapskate, if you do, you're kissing butt. What to do?
2007-06-13 17:09:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think of it as kissing @ss - I see it more as "If nothing else, at least you will have something beautiful to take home with you."
My "thing" is a single long-stemmed red rose - classic (and classy), but not too overbearing. An elaborate setup is for a wedding or a funeral ;););)
2007-06-13 17:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers who does that now and days. If you do give flowers they are only going to die within a few days. Gift, you are the gift. Taking them out on a date is a gift. It does not mean you are a cheapskate unless that person is a gold digger. Also who kisses *** when you have some people giving it away so easily. Sad. Right?
2007-06-21 21:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by urnotme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in today's society most women do not expect either on the first date. If a guy brings one or the other she is going to think that was so sweet and probably brag to all her friends about it because they probably don't get that. But as for you kissing a$$ or lame that is all up to you. She is going to think of you what she wants depending on the rest of the date not the gift.
2007-06-21 23:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to say i dont care it i get a gift/flower or not. its nice to get one and know they were thinking of u but i think it would be more appciated on a 3 or 4 date after u know what the person would really like
2007-06-21 23:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by lovelife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think kissing butt or not, everyone appreciates a gift. It lets them know you think they are special. Old fashioned courtesy and chivalry are not dead.
2007-06-14 00:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by txpsychchick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
date the right kind of men
2007-06-21 23:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by shhhhhhhhhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it makes you cheap or a kissup. I just think its sweet =]
2007-06-22 00:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by Crimson Tears 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONLY GET A GIFT IF YOU THINK IT WILL GET YOU SOMEWHERE, IF NOT YOU ARE WASTING YOUR MONEY AS WELL AS YOUR TIME.
2007-06-21 18:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by anslk6944 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋